Although I don't really know what I'm doing most of the time, it's already at least a week before I come to write a movie review after watching a movie. I look up at my calendar and find that it's more than It's been a week, almost two weeks (laughs.
In fact, I have less feelings about this movie. When we are young, we always like to read some inspirational stories, because there are many things that we have to use inspiration to numb ourselves, to gain a little motivation, and to believe that we can. But when I grow up, I actually feel that inspirational stories are very coincidental, not to say that they are not inspirational. It is true that most of the successful people are the result of their own efforts, and these can indeed inspire us. However, in fact, many stories are that only the successful can tell them with a smile to inspire the next generation or even more generations; and if they fail, they can only swallow all the suffering into their own stomachs and keep silent. . Most of the success comes from hard work, but there is always that 1% related to luck. So this is why most people have heard so many truths but still have a bad life. No one's life is the same and can be copied. The reason why a legend is a legend is because he is him.
I won’t repeat the story (I hope that I will remember what the film said when I come back to this film review in the years to come), but let’s talk about a few points that resonate.
One is the support of parents for their children. Dad supports his children’s dreams everywhere, both in the open and in the dark. When his son said he wanted to win the World Cup for Brazil, when he was in conflict with the people in the town, when his friends because of When his beloved football left him, he even taught him how to play football when he left his hometown to further his studies; and my mother, because of my father's football career, was always so against Pele to play football, I thought he should study hard, go to a good school, find a good job, and live a good life, but in the end, in the backyard of the hospital, the mother who saw Bailey and his father playing football with mangoes still hired a scout, Give Pele a chance to set foot in the World Cup and give Brazil a chance to take home the trophy.
Most people in the world don't know what their life is, how to live it, work according to the rules, boring life, and I am no exception. Most parents will not support a child to choose a job with a promising future only because of interest, because if he fails, his life will become particularly difficult, and parents do not want to see their children in dire straits. struggle, so they will cut off the child's thoughts at the beginning. My family is no exception.
In fact, my parents tolerate and understand me to the maximum extent on the branch of life. They don't force me to take the path I don't want to take. I like to watch concerts. Not only does my father not object, but he always shares information with me, telling me they go Where is the concert (although I'm the first one to know?? XD) Although my mother will nag that I just went there last time, why did I go again this time. But she was also the one who asked my father to wait for me outside the venue. She was even afraid that I would not find the way and would wait for me at the crowded intersection. I didn't want to fall in love, or, in other words, I didn't want to accept the plain and light work arranged by my elders. In the marriage, my father would always quietly pull me over and say, it’s okay, don’t worry, you don’t want your father to not force you, we can take it slow. My mother would always say in front of the broken-mouthed seven aunts and eight aunts that we are not in a hurry and we are still young.
But in the main line of my life, my parents still insisted on letting me take the path that I didn't really want to take. Even though I was in a cold war for a week when I was applying for college, and there were no less than five fights, it still didn't let me choose the major I wanted to study. (Of course, if you were to ask me now, if I gave you another chance to choose, how would you walk the main line of your life. I can't answer it either. The choices you have made have long since become blurred. In other words, after stepping into the society with such an identity, I feel more pressure, confusion and responsibility, and I no longer have the courage and the courage to fight against the odds.)
I have a hard time judging whether parental support or lack of support is good or bad. In fact, there is no good or bad, each one counts, each one is one's own life, and each one is the love of parents. It's just inevitable that in such a difficult environment, parents still choose to give all their unconditional support, which will bring tears to the eyes. It is precisely because you have nothing, so you are more fearless. The more you have, the more you are afraid of losing, the more you worry about gains and losses, the heavier the burden.
The first point that resonated was that I didn’t expect so much chatter. I originally thought that there wasn’t much to write about in this movie.
The second is about not changing yourself easily. In the short comment, I also said that on the first day of training in the work area, the expert told us, "After you get used to your own practice, don't change it easily, because once you change it, there is a great chance of danger." In the movie The same is true. Pele has played this way since he was a child. It is almost impossible for him to easily change his playing style and maintain the same record as before. What used to be a subconscious response has now become something that can only be done by thinking. In the arena, the difference between one second is the difference between victory and defeat, and the difference between life and death.
For many things, there is no fixed answer after leaving school. In a floating area, we can choose the method that makes us feel comfortable to achieve our ultimate goal. There must be a reason for the famous saying "all roads lead to Rome", but in the process of going to Rome, if you don't believe in yourself, then no one will believe you. If you look down on yourself, no one will look down on you. We can learn from others, but we can't imitate them, let alone copy them. Because only I am me, there is only one me in this world, if we all become the same, then there is no need to distinguish between you and me.
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