A person's life is to constantly "run away from home" and find a way back home.
If a person often lacks the company of parents or peers or the care of others in childhood, it will cause him to be lacking to some extent. At this time, he will feel the sense of loneliness and abandonment that he could not fully understand at that time. He will look to the outside world for "help", it may be things, it may be people. If he turns to things, then he loves and does something about it to a large extent, but he is also somehow missing because of it. If he turns to people, and the other person responds positively to him, then he is likely to develop toward self-integrity. Unfortunately, if he still doesn't get a positive response, and continues to do so, he is likely to develop one of a flattering personality, an avoidant personality, and an aggressive personality. Worse yet, you may suffer from neurosis as a result. He will be full of irreconcilable contradictions in his heart, and will struggle to consume most of his energy and will not be able to develop towards self-realization and self-integration.
Clearly, Speyway belongs to the former. He chose science and loved it. When he was only ten years old, he also invented the "perpetual motion machine", which became a genius in people's mouths, and won a scientific award. However, he chose to "run away from home" to receive the award alone. At the beginning of the journey, he was still happy. But as he got farther and farther away from home, he began to feel a little depressed. "It doesn't look like I'm a carefree drifter," he said. He still cared about the home, even though he left it himself. As time continued to advance, he accepted the award and was interviewed alone, but he became increasingly unhappy. What made him unhappy was the missing piece in his heart. He longs for company, love, family, and someone to fill the gap in his heart. Although he has achieved many achievements in science that are difficult for adults to achieve, he is still only ten years old, and he still needs the things he deserves at ten years old. Thankfully his "runaway" and words changed his family, he got those things and is slowly healing. He found his way home, and the gap in his heart was gradually being filled.
Maybe some people in childhood were hurt by others intentionally or unintentionally, leaving a mark, affecting the current self, he can choose to blame others, which is understandable, after all, suppressing this kind of feeling may give birth to more serious problems. But if he thinks he can be "healed" simply by blaming others for himself, he is wrong. In fact, the key person is himself. Blaming others may be just one step to recognize himself, but he can't just take this step, there is still a long way to go. He must change himself through hard work, break through the shackles of the previous cage, and let the new positive influence replace the previous negative influence. This is like a process of rebirth, which will be difficult but worthwhile. If it is difficult to solve it independently, you can seek outside help, and some occupations exist for this purpose.
We start from home, embark on the road away from home, and ultimately we still have to find and embark on the road back home.
Dude, I'm not sure where you're going, but you'll definitely find your perch. (I'm not sure what you are looking for, but you will sure find your pine tree, man.)
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