China Ma Jiajue is not born with autism and it is not so severe, but there is no communication with his parents, which caused the tragedy
and ben discussed with his parents about suspended animation, played a video at his memorial service, and peacefully humiliated those who brought him shame For him to move, these are all from the support of his parents.
Compared with those who committed suicide in Huawei, one of them wanted to quit his job, but his parents said that the job is good, don't give up easily The strength of parents is also very important.
Ben also has a little luck. He did not commit suicide by listening to the teacher's words "calm down" when he was most desperate. When I can't see the future, I imagine a sympathetic girl who imagines that it is his specialty.
Usually the whole world is a fantasy: in the morning, my mother will say good morning as usual, and people on the subway will make a noise as usual. Fighting but winning is weak, he has no strength. Fighting is always carried out only in the mind.
Fundamentally speaking, autism can be avoided, but avoiding autism will inevitably reduce the output of genius. Look at the national
policy When I was a child, my grandmother would hide delicious sweets and snacks and not give them to the naughty brothers. I would wrestle and fight on the bed with my brothers, but I would ask for mercy (often pretending to beg for mercy and wait for an opportunity to counterattack) (also with my younger brother) I fought, but my younger brother lost, I rarely fight, it’s boring) If I don’t listen to adults, I will occasionally eat fried pork with bamboo shoots.
Wow , I miss those brothers so much! It's been many years now! Just imagine how people who grew up in such an environment could be a little bit autistic! When I was a child, when I was bullied and beaten other children, adults would say sorry on the surface and turn around and say: This is my child! (that's my girl\boy!)
In the play, everyone is too worried about ben doing things that hurt him and didn't guide ben to express his anger. If the teacher asks ben to throw those children back in the classroom, if the principal guides ben to scold those children in the principal's office, if the mother is not always careful Whisper if the mother came out and quarreled with those children. . . If there are too many ifs, ben won't be so soft and slender and numb.
Some people say that the responsibility lies in the environment. The uneducated people are actually not created by the environment (unless they escape). If they want to survive, who is not fighting, just like in the city of Shanghai It's not good to be a superwoman. Unfortunately, I don't know a lot of people who are incompetent. We can only change ourselves like Napoleon.
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