personal experience

Orin 2022-04-22 07:01:47

Either autism or depression. Or anything else, known, unknown, with names, without names, with medicine, without medicine. Many people are fighting with themselves, not for the first place in the exam, not for a diploma, not to start a business, not to be an Olympic champion. From the very beginning or at a certain point in their life, they were different from most people. They didn't suddenly stop growing, they didn't look ugly, they didn't get hit by a car and broke their legs, they didn't accidentally hit their head, and they got migraines or headaches. become a vegetable. Maybe they feel different from most people, maybe they are not good at expressing themselves, maybe they are stupid, maybe they are not easy to be happy. They are incomprehensible, but they are fighting, their purpose is not for money, fame, being praised, admired, envied, even if they succeed, they are just like most people.

They're probably not the kind of mentally ill that need to be put in a mental hospital, they're sentient, their brains are just a little bit different than most people, and you can say there's something wrong with them. But life is especially hard for them. In trying to be the same personal struggle as most people, they try not to cause trouble for others. But most people are giving them trouble, disliking them, wanting to teach them some lessons, or to gain some benefits from them, some physically, some verbally, and some spiritually.

You will not bully the disabled, you dare not bully the mentally ill. You can easily cause harm to such a person. Because you know there will be no serious consequences. They are not as good as you, cowardly, weird, not to mention that they are not very pleasing to everyone's eyes. For example, if you have some negative emotions and want to punch a few times, you will not hit the wall, it will hurt; you will not hit the air, it will not be strong; you will probably find a sandbag, which is soft and hard, just right. They are everyone's daily sandbags. What I want to say is that in these people's view, one option is that he can hurt you, but he is not sure about himself, knowing that he is different from others, and wants to be like most people, So be cautious everywhere, in case of an outbreak this time, all previous efforts will be lost. Another option is, don't fight back, don't play with this stupid world, you are not worth it, commit suicide, let you regret it, and let you disgust yourself from now on. Another option is to endure.

If you can't bear it, you will continue to fight. You can't help but there are two other endings. It is often found in the news and social pages of newspapers.

There is nothing to say, no matter how well it is said, the story in the movie is not as good, and it does not solve the problem. I think this movie is good, not because Ben didn't die, but the ending is pretty good. It's because I'm glad that someone can understand this kind of people and things like this, and I tried to explain it through movies, which influenced some people. I also want to say, "Through this movie, I hope everyone can understand...", if I'm a little more stupid, or a few years younger, I might say that, but if I'm a little stupid and a few years younger, I may not be able to understand this movie. I can't say that what I understand now is really understanding. I may also belong to that part of people who feel and understand things differently from most people. We may all be part of that part, a minority in some way.

The influence of this film on me is: 1. I admit that there are some things that I do not understand and cannot understand. Life is not just about what I say every day, and success is not limited to successful learning. So if you see someone different from yourself or others, don't make their life more difficult; 2. Allow yourself to be different from others. Be careful when choosing to hurt others or yourself, and see if there are other options; 3. Try not to commit suicide.

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Ben X quotes

  • [first lines]

    Ben: [voiceover] It's hard to explain. It's hard to explain myself. But I never tell lies. Everything I say is true, even when I don't say a thing.

  • Ben: It is high time to become who you are.