Have you ever had such a person by your side, and how did you get along with him?
Is it joking and insulting, teasing and playing with him like a toy whenever you have free time; or just sitting quietly and never interacting with him; watching every insult he suffers and laughing with many audiences like you; or Sympathize with him but that's all, don't want to have anything to do with him?
What kind of person are you doing?
Maybe you would say that you have never had such a person in your life. So, what about this? He's not good-looking, but he has a "beautiful" name; he limps when he walks; he speaks slurredly; his clothes are ragged and his face is always dirty; He was so weak that I felt sorry for him not to tease him.
In every class in primary and secondary schools, there will always be one or two marginal figures. If he is lucky, he will only be neglected. If he is unlucky, he will suffer almost endless bullying. You would say, he can resist. It sounds logical, but this is almost impossible, because he is only one person, and he is weak. Occasional resistance will lead to more serious results, which may be a severe beating. Can he tell the parents or teachers? Complaint. This is really not good advice. The most parents and teachers can do is to criticize temporarily. When I was a child, I believed that everyone hated the kind of person who likes to complain. Complaining will only make the situation worse, and adults are almost all perfunctory. Because they believe that this is the child's own business, and they can solve it by themselves.
Now, do you remember which one you are?
Childhood almost determines a person's life. Who said so. And in such a childhood that requires joy and imagination, you carried the little wings of an angel on your back, laughing and tearing up how many of the same kind of wings together with many little angels. When you were still flying, he could no longer fly. After that, he Maybe you will laugh happily when you tear the other pair of wings into a bloody mess, maybe even come up and tear it yourself.
The world of children is not all about innocence and romance. You can't imagine their innocence and you can't imagine the violence and darkness there. It was a world isolated from the adult world.
Do you remember, you were once a child too? Maybe that era is too far away for you. However, what did you do at that time can you carry it with a naive smile? Maybe you are the majority, who have grown up to be a good citizen of integrity and kindness, and have long forgotten these childish past events. If you are in the minority, you can also grow into a righteous and kind person. However, until the day you die, there is always a wound in your old heart that belongs to childhood. It has never been noticed, but because of time relationship will never heal.
Are you wondering why these things happened? What makes these kids so sadistic compared to their weaker siblings? Is there no solution?
The answer is no. At least I can't see it.
Are you a little bit of a sexist? Or take the theory of evolution and tell yourself that this is just a biological instinct?
There are many cups in this world, we are only allowed to build, you can drink water or coffee with it, but you can't break it.
Reality is so cruel, and Ben X has a hopeful ending. It seems to point a way to love, and to myself. Only love, only oneself, can be reborn.
At the end of the film, the protagonist said, "I learned everything a person should do, but I didn't learn to deceive and lie." In the end, he finally entered the normal world by lying. He was born again, are we rejoicing or mourning?
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