Donated 693 times and had 534 children before he really learned to be a father

Jerald 2022-05-20 21:51:53

What is the meaning of reproduction? The original meaning of reproduction is the reproduction of organisms. After entering a civilized society, human beings have given more meaning to reproduction—not only can reproduce and transmit genes, but reproduction also has social, emotional and other meanings.

To put it simply, giving birth to a child requires not only to give birth to him, but also to raise him, be responsible to him, and to society.

Today I’m going to talk about a movie about sperm donation and life changing because of sperm donation: "Mr. Sending a Child."

In this movie, the male protagonist became the biological father of 533 children because he had donated 693 sperm, and his life was changed as a result.

In the movie, a decadent middle-aged man, David, who works in a butcher shop has no pursuits and ambitions. He not only owes $80,000 (for Lao Mei who has no habit of saving money, this is a huge sum of money) in debt, he also pays him back. The girlfriend who was pregnant with his child was strained.

Originally, his life would continue to be deserted, until a lawyer told him a fact that was hard to accept with dog blood: David is already the biological father of 533 children.

It turned out that David had donated 693 sperm in a private clinic under the pseudonym of "Starbucks" more than ten years ago, and received a large amount of benefits (it was probably due to financial constraints, in order to subsidize his family).

Because the quality of David's sperm was so good that the doctors in the clinic gave the sperm he provided to each of his female patients, which led to David becoming the biological father of 533 children.

Life is too exciting. 142 out of 533 children hope to meet their biological father.

Unable to accept this fact, David turned to his waste wood friend, who was also a lawyer whose license was revoked (played by Xing Jue, he was really fat at that time).

A friend helped him get the files of these 142 people. David couldn't help but look at one of them and discovered that his son is actually a professional NBA star! (David's hobby is basketball). One child is so good, but what about the others? So David started contact with his 142 children as a stranger.

Of course, David’s children can’t be all superstars. Some of them live ordinary lives in front of a swimming coach, some hold guitars on the street, and some have dreams of actors, but they have never gotten an audition opportunity. Working in a coffee shop, some even taking drugs or being gay, David slowly got close to their lives to give them support and encouragement.

But it was a child with cerebral palsy who really moved David. Perhaps this child slowly aroused David's awareness of family and responsibilities, and he began to think about the whole thing carefully.

However, the pressure of life made him choose to succumb, because his lawyer friend told him that it is actually illegal for the clinic to use his sperm so many times. If he wins the lawsuit, he can get a large amount of compensation to pay the debt...

In the end, David chose to reveal his identity in the warm comfort of his children. The film also gave birth to his 534th child by his girlfriend, and reached a climax in the embrace of 142 children and David.

The movie is a comedy movie, and the actor can find the value of his life from his "fruits of silent dedication." Think about it, the male protagonist in the movie has more than 534 physiological children. If someone is as promising as Jack Ma, the male protagonist will be a winner in life!

However, I'm sorry, the reality is not a movie. Donating sperm is not only unsympathetic, it can even be very dangerous and very dark.

Recently, Er Qianjun can often see advertisements on the wall in the school: College volunteers are soliciting volunteers.

Suddenly, there is basically no "investment" in sperm donation, and there is a lot of money coming in, and money coming quickly, which is simply too attractive for some college students who need money. Using donated sperm to get benefits, not only has no worries, but also has a psychological sense of accomplishment of "helping others".

Therefore, let alone college students, even young and middle-aged people who have been in the society for many years use this method to "make money", and there is even news that some people use sperm donation money to pay the down payment.

Tsk tusk tusk, it can be done as a business, and the life-changing path starts with more than 200 million sons?

Don't think about good things. Bright mushrooms are mostly poisonous, and the more tempting things are, the greater the possibility of a scam.

These seemingly lucrative scams are likely to be "heavy money begging for children" scams, "fairy jumping" scams, etc.

The routine is similar. In the name of protecting the privacy and safety of the fertilized person, you are asked to pay a certain amount of "security deposit", and then you are asked to chat with you many times or ask you to provide the illegal hospital that they have arranged long ago. Proof of fraud to get money.

Moreover, some people with worse preparedness tend to be attracted by the "net celebrity photos" sent by the other party, and fall into bigger traps by emotional card routines.

On the other hand, the underground sperm donation market is also very dangerous for those who are fertilized. The unsafe and hygienic environment is extremely prone to infection, and many malicious donors will use direct sperm donation to trick the conceived into having sex. Deception.

(The chaotic situation of underground sperm donation in news reports)

Therefore, soon after the advertisement of "sperm donation volunteers" appeared on the university campus, the teacher began to remind everyone not to believe in such advertisements, and prohibited everyone from participating in this so-called paid sperm donation behavior.

Why is there a black industry chain of underground sperm donation? Not only because of the tragic reality, but also because of human greed.

Because of the huge population of infertile people in my country's huge population base: among the 230 million people of childbearing age, there are about 40 million infertile people, accounting for a staggering 16.4%.

With so many people wanting a child, formal medical institutions and formal donation institutions cannot cope with it. Faced with such a huge demand, many people have moved their brains, and countless underground sperm donation markets have begun to pop up. Now there are hundreds of sperm donation websites and tens of thousands of QQ groups displayed on the Internet.

These seemingly opportunities for "helping others + making money comfortably" are likely to contain various traps behind them.

For those who have the idea of ​​donating sperm, the country has a formal donation organization, but there are strict requirements on your education, appearance, height, and health status, and the donation time is up to one year, and the cost is only nutrition, and A person can only donate once in his life. Don't even think about expecting this to make a fortune. Also, even if your child will become a person like Jack Ma in the future, you will not see it, because the donor and the conceived person are completely isolated, and you will never see it in this lifetime.

After all, sperm is precious, life is more expensive! We are still safe to move bricks and work hard to get rich.

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Delivery Man quotes

  • David: Emma... Will you marry me?

    Emma: Won't you wanna wait and see if I get my figure back?

    David: If you stay flabby, I promise I'll get flabby as well.

    Emma: Wonder if that's the first time the word "flabby" has been used in a marriage proposal.

    [she kisses him]

    David: Emma... I'm Starbuck.

    Emma: [whispers angrily] Why are you always scamming? God, how could you think that a marriage proposal would excuse the fact that you're the father of 533 children? David! God! No, this... this is no longer your child!

    David: I wanna be very clear on two points. The first point: I said I was going to change as quickly as possible, and I am doing that. I've had a chance to do a lot of thinking. A lot. And I've come to the conclusion that it's not anyone *but me* who can decide if I am a father or not. Not a judge, not my family, not Dr. Phil... And in the end, not you. In other words, no one but the father can decide if he is the father or not. And I, David Wozniak, am the father of this child. Now, the other reality that can't be changed, is the fact that I am Starbuck. Now, this obviously can be something frightening, since it's something totally new and no one on this planet has ever experienced it before. It's, uh, you know, it's it's... it is like the first steps on the moon. But despite a few drawbacks, I think that we can actually take away from this a tremendous amount of joy. Not to mention *vast amounts* of free babysitting. I don't know how this is gonna work out. Right now, me coming out and revealing who I am, I'm risking everything. I'm risking *all* for the well-being of my 533 kids. And I would think that you seeing me risk all should convince you that whatever happens, that no matter what turmoil this kid right here gets into, I will be there. Now, you asked me to have a life. Well, here it is. This is my life. Maybe a little bit strange. And a bit oversized. But it's my life. The second point...

    Emma: That was a very long first point.

    David: The first point was long. The second point... The marriage proposal was not a scam.

    Emma: The second point was much shorter.

    David: I need you in my life.

    [Emma sighs before she leans in and kisses him again]

    Emma: Promise me one day you'll take me to Venice.

  • Mikolaj: You know David, I love you like a son.

    David: I am your son.

    Mikolaj: Which is why I love you like a son.