fall in love with god's child

People and gods can never fall in love unless you become a god. It implies to us: love is not the warmth of giving charcoal in the snow, but the domineering icing on the cake. It never dies, grows wildly, never binds, never fetters, and is more like a booster to make each other better people.
If God really exists, I think it must be a child who will never grow up, and Brian is a child who willfully refuses to grow up. He fulfills all our fantasies about a wonderful life. While clamoring to live out ourselves and not caring about what others think, we do things and live carefully. "We are all the same, we all want to be different from others", but in the end we became "all the same", only Brian came to "different". So what we call "miracles" is just life in Brian's eyes. In this way, the fact that Justin and Brian fell in love was both unexpected and expected. We always have an "out of reach" mentality for sacred things, and most of us are like Micheal, who never dared to ask for Brian's love even though he was always by his side. Not getting it is the worst punishment for the weak, and only those who believe in love deserve it. So when everyone tells him that Brian can't fall in love, Justin just smiles; when everyone tells him that Brian has no heart and that he will never fall in love with someone, Justin just smiles. Justin believes in Brian's ability to love someone as much as he believes in himself, and in his heart he firmly believes that Brian will fall in love with him. This confidence scares the people around him, and they jokingly mock Justin's naivety to cover up their panic. Human beings are often unable to accept the change of things that they believe in, just like Bruno, an Italian scientist who was burned to death for proposing the "heliocentric theory", we hope that things will always be the way we see them, because we admit that we are wrong, and very wrong. Outrageous is a super humiliating thing. It can be said that Justin's appearance was accidental, but his love for Brian was inevitable. Although Justin is only a 17-year-old child, he has never tried love, and he has never been injured. A newborn calf is not afraid of tigers, so he can easily fall in love with a man who is like a god to him. 17-year-old Justin is warm, kind, brave and optimistic. Debbie calls him sunshine, and he deserves it. Justin was willing to give everything to Brian. When he was working, Brian was accused of sexual harassment by his subordinates. Justin retaliates against others, silently helping him settle things, never taking credit; after they broke up, Brian was slandered by his homophobic nephew For molesting a child, Justin helped him find evidence and clear the charge. Micheal's Comfort and Melanie His help was like a consolation, and Justin was more like Brian's savior. When the charges were dropped, Melanie told Brian, "You're a man of God's favor, and you'll always be able to turn your back on bad luck." But she was wrong, God doesn't favor someone who doesn't believe in it at all, Brian is just someone who is favored by Justin. Unlike Brian's self-righteousness, Justin never overestimates himself, but when it comes to Brian's affairs, he is always extreme. He is almost crazy to think that he is omnipotent, and only in this way can he protect the Brian he loves. . Justin is more like Brian's protector. It can be said that Brian needs Justin far more than Justin needs Brian. Micheal once said to Justin "he loves you more than anyone", but Justin loves Brian more than anyone! Only this kind of love that is close to faith can melt Brian's frozen heart little by little, so that Brian has always been confident. It's not that Brian doesn't mind Justin's feelings, all he's doing is because he believes that Justin will never leave him, even more firmly than he believes he won't fall in love with someone. Even if Justin chose Ethan when faced with Ethan's sweet talk, Brian still believed that Justin would wake up sooner or later and come back to him. Brian is not wrong, Justin will never leave him, not because of how much Brian loves him, but because his love for Brian is deep in his bones and can never be removed, so even 0.01% of the reason can be a reason for him to come back to Brian excuses around. There is no way, those who are pampered always have nothing to fear. Many people say that Justin is lucky to meet Brian, but I think Brian is the luckiest one. Making Justin fall in love with him is God's greatest compensation to Brian. The appearance of Justin made me believe that "one day you will meet someone who will let you forgive all the hardships that life has done to you before." 01% of the reasons would be an excuse for him to go back to Brian. There is no way, those who are pampered always have nothing to fear. Many people say that Justin is lucky to meet Brian, but I think Brian is the luckiest one. Making Justin fall in love with him is God's greatest compensation to Brian. The appearance of Justin made me believe that "one day you will meet someone who will let you forgive all the hardships that life has done to you before."
We always comment on love, but never try to understand it. We only know that children are the crystallization of love, but we don't know that love is the proof of love. As Justin said when he finally parted with Brian "We don't need rings or oaths to prove that we love each other, we are ready know that". Yeah, we don't need wedding rings and vows to prove that we love each other , we already knew that. They don't need time and distance to judge their love, and they don't need others to regret their untimely wedding, in their world love will never disappear once it is born. As expressed in the conversation between Brian and Justin, Brian: "Where is your boyfriend?" Justin: "I have no boyfriend" Brian: "Since when?" Justin: "Since we are broken up." More and more like Brian, friends around them often joke about it, thinking that Brian is just copying a younger version of himself, but I don't think so, Brian is just helping Justin find the truest version of himself. People who love each other can influence each other, so when Brian finally proposed to Justin, everyone thought it was incredible, including Brian. Brian himself couldn't explain why he went from being a non-marriageist to an avid seeker of marriage all of a sudden. He attributed it to his love for Justin. In fact, they had already lived like each other, and no matter how the world changed, their love didn't need to make any concessions for the world. Justin and Brian finally chose to cancel the wedding as a disdain for those who need to rely on marriage to kidnap love. Brian's last wedding ring is a declaration of his unwavering love for Justin. Justin and Brian's love has transcended our understanding of love and created a love myth. They never force each other to do anything they don't like, and even if they are spurned by the whole world, they will stand by each other's side and subvert the world. We should be ashamed that many times we love ourselves more than love.


Postscript:
About Love
Someone asked: "Do you believe in eternal love?"
I said: "I believe."
He asked again: "Have you seen it?"
I said: "No."
He asked again: "Then why? Believe?"
I said, "Because I'll be happier."
We often think that if we love each other, we must be together forever, and separation must mean betrayal. This superficial view of love is the greatest distrust of each other and the most serious desecration of love.
Many people can't let go of the ending of brain and Justin's separation, but separation does not mean the end. I intercepted an interview with the QAF writers to comfort your fragile hearts.
Credits: BRI-TIN.COM
Made by: Rachael
Written by: Rachael
Thanks to: Dan and Ron
Edited by: Marcy
Rachael: Personally, I think the way it ended was the only way it could have for Brian and Justin at that time, as well as reflecting Brian's interpretation of how relationships didn't have to be 'hetero' to be real. But on the whole, most of the people I speak to hate that Brian and Justin aren't together at the end. Some people are incredibly angry over it, which I suppose goes to show how passionately they feel about the characters. How do you feel about this , and can you explain why you chose to have them part at the end?
Rachael: Personally, I think such an ending makes sense for B and J's situation at the time, and also fits B's character- - The way they love each other is not to imitate heterosexuality. But, most people say they hate the ending that B and J are not together. Some people are even angry, but it just reflects everyone's love for the characters in the play. Do you have anything to say about this, and why did you choose to separate the two as the ending?
Dan: The controversy of the Brian/Justin story in the last episode has always puzzled us. Of course Brian and Justin will see each other again. New York is a brief commuter flight, less than 90 minutes, from Pittsburgh. Some fans seem to focus on that and not what their story is really about. Brian and Justin do not need to say vows to each other to cement their relationship. They're beyond rings (even though Brian sentimentally keeps them), ceremonies and receptions. Just like in their "Covenant" scene, when they declared their own guidelines for living with each other, they know that their relationship transcends rules that others may need. It was, in fact, based on a lyric by Richard Rogers from the title song of his last great musical NO STRINGS: "Let the little folks, who need the help, depend upon vows and such.We are much too tall." Justin going off to New York was a declaration of freedom and a final restatement of Brian's philosophy, that sacrificing who you are for the sake of another or demanding that they sacrifice who they are for you, is not love .
Dan: The controversy surrounding the ending of B and J in the last episode is puzzling to me. There's no doubt that B and J will see each other again, and it's only a short 90-minute drive from New York to Pittsburgh. Some fans seem to be brooding about this and ignore the inner story of the story. B and J don't need vows to cement their love. Their love has transcended wedding rings (though B is still melancholy), weddings and ceremonies. Just like the scene where they "promised" (go home before three o'clock), even if they want to live together, they will follow their own "rules", and their love will not be constrained by cumbersome rules and regulations like heterosexual couples . In fact, this inspiration comes from the lyrics of Richard Rogers' "no Strings", the lyrics are "Let those helpless people live by oath, we don't go with the flow." J went to New York because they don't have to love each other. It is the best proof of B's ​​life, and it also fits B's outlook on life again. Changing himself for him, or letting him change for himself, is not love.
Rachael: “It's only time,” Brian tells Justin, at the end of the show. It's become such an iconic phrase to the fans, but what does it mean to you, and what did you intend for it to mean from Brian to Justin ?
Rachael: In the last episode, B told J, "It's just a matter of time!" This sentence has become an iconic word among fans, how do you understand this sentence, and this sentence is very important to B and J What does it mean?
Dan: Regarding Brian's "Its only time" speech: Brian didn't mean that he and Justin would never see each other again. He was merely implying that even if they DIDN'T see each other again they would still know that they were bonded forever. That's what their story was always about. An unlikely romance, an unconventional romance, but a great romance that would embrace them for a lifetime.
Dan: As for B's "it's just a matter of time" remark, B doesn't mean that he and J Not seeing each other again, he just wanted to express that even if they really never see each other again, they still know that their hearts will always be together. That's exactly the theme of this show, an unusual love, an unconventional love, but a love that will never let them go for the rest of their lives.
Ron: The idea for the speech came from a Shakespeare sonnet we all read in high school --#116. "Love's not Time's fool"...."Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks, but bears it out even to the edge of doom."
Ron: Actually, the inspiration for this sentence came from a sonnet of Shakespeare, which we all learned in high school, "Time can't fool love, love doesn't change because of those small hours and weeks, love is even if you It will not leave you when it is on the verge of perdition."


Please believe that love is an unexpected warmth and endless hope.
- For all

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