"Book of Rites" has a cloud: "Food, men and women, people's great desires exist." Food, color, sex are also. We live in groups in this world, all glitz can fade away, but the two basic needs of diet and men and women are also eternal. People take food as their heaven. In our country, food has been a major event in life since ancient times, and the color, flavor, and fragrance are not sloppy. The dining table is also home, and food is life!
The film opens with a scene where Lao Zhu skillfully prepares a variety of delicate dishes. Stewing, roasting, steaming, roasting, whether it is knife work or heat, Lao Zhu's decades of skill are dazzling. The various knives and clocks on the wall are the evidence of his superb cooking skills and tasteful life after the vicissitudes of life. Sadly, chefs who cook with taste have gradually lost their sense of taste, and life seems to be only bitter and tasteless.
A large table of dishes carefully prepared by the father every week maintains the surface peace of the family, but the three grown-up daughters hide in their hearts more important things than accompanying their father to eat. Hearty meals, silent family, conflicts seem to be on the verge of breaking out, everyone is brewing their own plans for the future, and the old father is inevitably sad. In fact, as a parent, what I want is actually not that complicated, but I just want to maintain the family permanently.
Every family has a book that is difficult to read, until one day, the third daughter, who has always been the most well-behaved and the most silent, announced that she was pregnant; after the eldest sister announced that she was married to the school's physical education teacher boyfriend, she had not waited for her father and second child to recover. When he came, he jumped on his boyfriend's motorcycle and ran away; and the second daughter, who had a successful career and was independent and mature, wanted to move out the most, but when she planned to stay in the old residence alone, Lao Zhu realized that this originally complete family was a family. , after all, it broke like a soap bubble.
Men and women in food and drink, people have great desires, can't think, can't get what they want, there are thousands of tastes, and everyone has it in their arms. There was no winner in the game between the three daughters and their father about the family. In the end, the broken family was reunited. The eldest daughter and the third daughter bravely pursued the life they wanted. The second daughter stayed with her elderly father, and the father welcomed him Here comes the rare "twilight love". At the end of the story, four people in this family learn the true meaning of home through food. Home is not just an empty house, it is the maintenance of love and affection. There is such a line in "Food Men and Women": "Actually, a family lives under one roof, and they can still live their own lives, but the kind of scruples that arise from psychology is the meaning of a home for a home. "Yeah, the reason why home is home is precisely because of that constant and unforgettable miss.
"Food Men and Women" is the closing work of Ang Lee's "Family Trilogy". When Ang Lee was at the low point of his directorial career, he had no job for six years, and he did trivial things at home and was a man who "eats soft rice" for six years. Perhaps, it was in this kind of hard work that Li Anwu got his life.
Home is still home, life is still life. Lao Zhu has been a chef all his life, cooking for a lifetime, and then he realized that "life can't be like cooking, you have to prepare all the ingredients before you cook!"
We are all ordinary mortals. You can just use it to fill your stomach, or you can enjoy it on the tip of your tongue. A bowl of warm pumpkin porridge cooked by myself early in the morning, a lunch box prepared by my mother, a large table of home-cooked dishes prepared by my father on weekends, a lively gathering of a large family during the New Years and holidays... Delicious, miss, yes Caring, is sustenance. If you have a home, you can have food and life.
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