once loved has become a story

Barrett 2022-04-23 07:03:42

Memories are the most powerless and the most turbulent, the most distant and the most palpable. Often forgotten, and often unexpected. There is a saying that experience is the most important thing. Duras's experience has created herself, and each of us's experience has also made us what we are now, no matter whether we like, hate or hate this face.

The encounter between people seems to be inadvertent, as if replaced by any person with a similar background, there will be a story, which makes people annoyed that such an arrangement is too casual; Met at this moment, people unconsciously believe that there is a secret arrangement, believe that this is love.

Every emotion, spontaneously, has its own throbbing and struggle. Human desire is love. Even if sometimes love is born out of desire and blinded by unbearableness, it is because of the vigorous vigor and the madness that makes people desperate to achieve a kind of morbid epic magnificence, whipping and convincing the people who read the story, so that they no longer care about and obsessed with Its so-called unbearable, but believe that love should be like this.

I don't need to know the Chinese man's name, and I don't even remember being mentioned in the movie or being called by anyone. At this time, he is Chinaman, he is richman, a man in a pure white suit with oily hair. On the messy ferry, he got out of the car, took out his hand towel and wiped his sweat, and walked through the crowd and the noise of chickens and ducks. The girl who was leaning against the railing approached.

The story is written by Duras, but I want to see it from the perspective of a Chinese man. Why this 32-year-old man has a crush on a 15-year-old girl. The man had lived in France, beyond his father's control, he was young, handsome, wealthy, and free to love. But after coming to Saigon, his father seized his lifeline at close range. He was bound by wealth and status, and there was no choice for marriage. He also knew that he was mentally weak, worried all day long, and looked around to find love again. Love is his job, and he has nothing to do but love. But he was surrounded by stooping servants, darker, hard-working, struggling locals, French who looked down on the Chinese. The love he wants is too extravagant, some people can't afford it, and some people are disdainful of it, so he is like a walking dead, only the desire to seek freedom and love is getting stronger and stronger. After reading the story, I understood why he, as a handsome and handsome rich second generation in the eyes of the world, was so clumsy and nervous when he approached the girl. The age of 32 is not a problem, as long as the 15-year-old has the love he wants, he loses. Therefore, this Chinese man is often affectionate, humble and courteous, sometimes melancholy and sometimes tearfully ramble about his helplessness and his involuntary, careful maintenance of the relationship with the girl. She is the carrier of all kinds of negative emotions, but to a greater extent, it stems from the gloomy reality of being in the world and unable to help herself.

Duras' experience made Duras. The experience of Chinese men has long been his own.

Life doesn't have to be perfect. Having stories and memories is the best perfection, which has already made me envious. After all, these stories and memories can help us pass the long nights and countless loneliness of life.

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Extended Reading
  • Cameron 2022-03-19 09:01:07

    This life is hurt by this love, and there is no chance to heal.

  • Daphnee 2022-03-16 09:01:06

    The last part of Liang Jiahui secretly sending the little girl to the little girl is particularly touching. In fact, I don't think there is such a great love, but for Liang Jiahui, a lot of things have passed away. This is the meaning of the flower event. Instead, it was a little French girl, her life unfolding in front of her. She cried because her innocence and innocence were gone forever. This story is about passing away, the emotion of getting together when you know you're going to pass away.

The Lover quotes

  • Narrator: "Now and then I go back to the house in Sadek. To the horror of the house in Sadek. It's an unbearable place. It's close to death. A place of violence of pain of despair, of dishonour... But it's in this family's dryness in it's incredible harshness that I am the most deeply assured in myself. In the deepest of my essential certainties, all common history of ruin and shame, of love and hate is in my flesh."

  • Narrator: Dusk one evening on board ship, crossing the Indian Ocean under the luminous sky. Suddenly the sound of a Chopin waltz came bursting out from the main lounge. I had tried to play it for months without success. That's why I gave up the piano. There wasn't a breath of wind and the music pervaded the whole ship. I stood up as if to go and throw myself into the sea. Then I did weep because I had thought of my Chinese lover, and I was suddenly not sure that I hadn't been in love with him after all, with a love I hadn't been able to see because it had become lost in the tide of events, like water seeping through sand. Thanks to that music, spreading over the sea and filling the calmest night I have ever known, I could see my love for him for the first time.