The Lover--Ignorance Of Affection And Brave Love

Haylie 2022-07-15 12:45:44

A childish woman, a deep man. She loves wildly, but she has never put her love in her heart; he loves silently, but she puts love in his heart for a lifetime.

He loves forbearance; love is persistent.

To say that he forbears is to praise his generosity in the face of the use of this woman and her family. The slap in the green house is not revenge but an expression of forgiveness. I dare to ask how a normal person would react after a night of willful disregard and a lover's willful provocation. I'd say he's done his best: he's always been such a gentleman, he's been sitting there watching his lover dancing tightly around her brother. Her legs, waist, and hips looked slutty from drunkenness. A normal person knows his or her position in her heart at a glance and then chooses to give up. And he didn't; he just slapped her and used sex to warn her-you're mine. Then, throw the money at her.

To say that he is persistent is to admire his courage to succumb to reality. because he believes that he will have this love for a lifetime. This is open-hearted, and this is something only people who have love can do. He said he was a prostitute and he made her say she was with him for the money. He just wants to hear the truth, and then laugh at his ignorance-he clearly knows why he is still with this girl! But he had no choice. He could only do everything he could for him, then smoked a cigarette and spoke to her in a very mature tone. Even so, he did not hide his love. He is so brave! Always remember his eyes, in the lively wedding party, deeply and deeply, looking at his indifferent lover.

As for this woman's awakening, we can only sigh, sighing that she missed a beautiful love, a beautiful youth, and her dignity and feelings. We can't blame her, because, after all, she's just a 15-and-a-half-year-old girl from a poor family. In her heart is the concern for the fate of her mother and the whole family. Is there still room for her to love? In the movie, when Leung Ka Fai told her that she couldn't marry her, she didn't care; she just looked at the sunset and told the story of her mother, and she didn't even know it was cold when the wind came. She said at that moment, she knew she was going to write a book for her mother. Her heart is full of her mother; where is there room to think of her own feelings? I pity her oppression. I don't want to say too much about the selfishness of every detail she shows in the movie. As long as the audience looks carefully, they will find out how similar they are to her. What she said, what she did She is immersed in high-end environments, delicious food, and can stimulate sexual desire, so love becomes meaningless. But what makes me happy is her awakening. All I can say is that her awakening was probably a form of guilt, not love. But what's the problem? She's awoken, after all. She will never do this to another man again. She knows what love is.

Regret, Regret, Regret... Their mistake is that they met at the wrong time and the wrong person. But it is these regrets that make us feel that this love is real and thought-provoking.

Finally, let's talk about what makes this movie stand out. First, those real sex scenes. I can only describe it as indescribably beautiful. Deep, intense, full of love, full of disappointment can be well expressed. The second is the processing of the background, which is noisy and chaotic, and the light is sometimes dazzling and sometimes dim. It is just right for those times and places, and the depressed emotions of the protagonist.

Finally, I hope that all lovers in the world will cherish each other and become married in the end.

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  • Zita 2022-03-17 09:01:06

    Every time I watch this movie, I want to go to Vietnam to see the Mekong River.

  • Elouise 2022-03-22 09:02:30

    I probably read other people's film reviews and knew that the male protagonist of the original work is relatively weak, but Tony Leung's acting was so good that he suppressed the feeling of cowardice. His acting skills are really good. From the first time he saw the heroine lighting a cigarette, his hands were shaking, to the heroine who didn't refuse him to get in the car and cigarettes normally, to lit cigarettes after the lingering, to unconsciously lighting cigarettes when faced with each other, every detail was revealed. His emotions changed.

The Lover quotes

  • [last lines]

    Narrator: Years after the war, after the marriages, the children, the divorces, the books, he had come to Paris with his wife. He had phoned her. He was intimidated; his voice trembled, and with the trembling it had found the accent of China again. He knew she'd begun writing books. He had also heard about the younger brother's death. He had been sad for her. And then he had no more to tell her. And then he told her - he had told her that it was as before, that he still loved her, that he would never stop loving her, that he would love her until his death.

  • Narrator: "Now and then I go back to the house in Sadek. To the horror of the house in Sadek. It's an unbearable place. It's close to death. A place of violence of pain of despair, of dishonour... But it's in this family's dryness in it's incredible harshness that I am the most deeply assured in myself. In the deepest of my essential certainties, all common history of ruin and shame, of love and hate is in my flesh."