Maybe the real society is too realistic, and we have nowhere to find the source of strength... But there are always some strong female professionals who make us feel their sense of strength and are deeply infected!
"I want to take you back from the god of death!" There is such a movie, released in 2017, (everyone who hasn't seen it is new...) adapted from a true story, from the real family of the producer of "BJ's Single Diary" s story! With her love, he survived... Serious spoilers , the title of the film is called Breathe, I want to breathe for you (Taiwan) Let my heart breathe (Hong Kong) The name of the Taiwan version has always been sensational, and the name of Hong Kong films has always connoted this The translated name of the sub-continental version is better than other Chinese regions. It not only achieves the translated "faithful and elegant", but also reflects the real scene. "Xia", the heroine is the heroine of "The Crown"... Warning ahead of serious spoilers
Robin Cavendish, an athlete, contracted polio at the age of 28. (We commonly call it polio), he couldn't move from the neck down, he couldn't even breathe on his own, and he couldn't live without a simple and inconvenient ventilator for a moment. Tragedy is the destruction of valuable things for others to see. --Lu Xun's beautiful life has just begun, he married a beautiful and smart wife, his son is about to be born, his career is bright, and the sweetness of life has just begun. He fell from the clouds to hell at this time and wanted to die... However, at this moment, his love is extremely dazzling and bright. His pregnant wife refuses to give up on him, even if the family's economic conditions are no longer available, even if he has completely become a waste in the traditional sense... Because true love is difficult To add to the difficulty, it turns a thousand times, and it is endless, so it is difficult for ordinary people to obtain
"I will take you from all ages, from all nights, from all golden banners, from all swords. I will take you back from all, and I will take you away in a showdown. You will Hold your breath." - Russian poetess Tsvetaeva, for a pamperedBean quipped, Diana: Poor Robin , paralyzed for life. Robin: Yeah, I heard his poor wife was a saint. Diana: She is indeed a saint. Robin: Very beautiful saint. At first watching this film gave bloggers the illusion of re-watching "The Theory of Everything", (it tells the story of Professor Hawking's wife's persistence after suffering from "gradual freezing" disease when he was young. The difference is that he eventually divorced Now, the love between the two has not come to an end) I have not met many British women in my life, and I don’t know much about them. The two films I have seen by chance are the stories of strong women who are indomitable and professional, and they are all based on real people. True story adaptation! When Robin was just 28 years old and lay in the hospital unable to move, he decided to seek death. Diana would not let him die, no matter what, even when Robin pretended not to look at his newborn son, he did not give up , insisting that he survive, is life, not just survival. Because she really understands this man, knows his thoughts, and understands that his helplessness and despair are the last resort.
When a family of three watched an album with their children and recalled the past, they felt that they owed their son (the film's producer, Jonathan Cavendish, the child who felt the heavy sound of the opening and closing of the cover of the ventilator at home) I couldn't travel with him, so I thought of a way to go to Barcelona, Spain to watch the sunrise on the Mediterranean Sea (the UK is quite far from Barcelona), and have fun with the locals... For many people with disabilities, this is something they can't even think about. , this is still in 1950...although during the trip, the wheelchair connected to the ventilator was broken, broken! For a person unable to breathe spontaneously, leave the ventilator for two minutesHow dangerous is it for those who will die! However, the family had a very reliable friend who immediately flew from the UK to Spain to help him repair the wheelchair ventilator. During this process, Diana, her son and friends took turns using the manual ventilator to help Robin breathe without feeling at all. trouble! At the same time, we also had a party with the local Spaniards on the spot, carnival, and see, how important it is to have a few optimistic hearts! Optimism can be learned! (There is a book called "Learning Optimism") Until a friend who flew from the UK to Spain arrived at the scene in surprise, looked at the carnival scene dumbfounded, and asked: shouldn't you be struggling on the edge of death? What's the situation now? (Actually, the host wanted to ask who booked the ticket...) A famous music celebrity told the host that when he first came to Japan a few decades ago, he found that there were so many disabled people on the streets of Japan; At that time, I answered very clearly that it is not that there are many disabled people in Japan, it is that the disabled people in our country do not go out... According to the population ratio, there must be more disabled people in our country than in Japan, but everyone is very public in ordinary occasions. People with disabilities are rarely seen, only blind passages and toilets for the disabled can be seen, but they are occupied, abandoned, etc. Our care for people with disabilities is indeed not as meticulous and attentive as in developed countries... There are even architectural designers. I will also say, "How can there be so many disabled people" (meaning that there is no need to build so many disabled facilities) speechless, thinking about how ignorant and ruthless that designer is... I can feel the fullness of the screen across the screen. Malicious... Robin In the following days, I lived a very meaningful life. I often held parties, and always showed a row of big teeth and smiled brightly. I relied on my wife who loved me deeply, and a group of quite reliable friends. Of course, the most important thing is the strong woman. Diana is a professional. She is like a sun, Robin's sun, illuminating Robin's life; she has also made considerable contributions to other patients of the same type together with Robin. Those patients who lie in the cold ventilator all day do not know They can also travel around the world in wheelchairs. The Robin family really helped them. They went to fundraise, called on, and worked hard. It was Diana's persistence that took Robin's life back; it was Diane's affectionate love that made Robin's life back again. made sense. (Iron Man Robert Downey Jr also said that his wife is his future...) The best love is that you have me, I have you, we are an inseparable whole... I can still see through you To the bigger world... Every person who wants to die can live a meaningful life, instead of surviving, and there must be an irreplaceable lover beside them, who makes them feel that the world is worth it... ...you can say that his wife is the power of great love, or the power of responsibility, (the word for responsibility is written as "fetters" in Japanese) Either way, she is a real goddess with a halo , exudes a dazzling light of humanity from the inside out! Let's see what this great old lady looks like. The producer has inherited his father's bright smile perfectly... The old lady's face in her 80s doesn't show any bitterness and hatred. After Robin passed away, The old lady lived a meaningful life without marriage, and after another 30 years, it was far longer than the doctor predicted that she would live only a few months, Robin Cavendish,The longest living person in the world with polio!
It was not until the 30 years that the intubation ventilator had an irreversible impact on Robin's body. The pleura was rubbed for a long time. Diana woke up every night, clutching the blood that kept pouring out of the chest of the beloved who had accompanied him for most of her life, and her hands were all over her body. The blood... (It's shocking to see here, the fear and shadow in the middle of the night) After finishing the treatment, I methodically took the blood-stained scary red sheets and Robin's clothes to wash... This, not everyone can do it , just thinking about it will give you nightmares... so Robin calls her, sage!
Remember the name, Diana Mary Blacker
Of course the surname changed after marriage, Diana Blacker Cavendish
Final respect and fulfillment
As the blood spurts became more frequent in the middle of the night and Robin became weaker and weaker, he knew it was time to leave
There was also a special farewell party, inviting friends and relatives
Twin friends laughed and sang goodbye's song, and cried when they walked behind the tree...No one wants to lose a good friend...and it's forever
The saddest thing is Diana, who can understand her pain
Brave and strong and persistent, how long have we not heard, experienced, and realized these three words?
There is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, after seeing the cruelty of life, still love life!
May you all draw strength from this film, overcome difficulties and move forward bravely in your future life!
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