If I had watched this movie before graduation, I might not have watched it patiently with laughter or tears, just as I can't read prose when I was young and inexperienced! But in the past three years after graduation, I have experienced a process of collapse and reconstruction of some inherent values, so I understand Matteo very much, and I also appreciate Nicola, Marella and Madame Caratti very much.
1. As some barrages said, Matteo is a perfect idealist. I used to be him too. He is an idealist who has many rules about himself and the world around him. He lives in his own world in a closed manner. Idealist! Once the values of those of us are impacted, it is easy to fall into our own world and become depressed and difficult to extricate ourselves. If we are fortunate enough to get through that period of time successfully, then we will free ourselves from that closed world, and we will not If you are too ideal, you will not look at life with too much disappointment. You will probably live more transparently and be easily satisfied. If you are unfortunate and can’t get out of that vicious circle, I don’t know what will happen. , I wish you can come out slowly, don't worry, look at what's happening around you, read more books, when you really get out of your own sad little world, you will also understand "what doesn't kill you" "makes you stronger" what does it mean, you will also understand that people around you have their own troubles, but they may be different from you in that they do not have so many rules like Nicola to restrict themselves or others, just simple Alone alive! But simply living does not mean living mechanically without any introspection. I want to keep a little bit of my own little world! There is what you yearn for in the small world, and it is something you will never compromise, such as where you want to go, what hobbies you want to develop, and what you want to do, but this small world should only be about you and should not be against you. They also have their world beyond the demands of anyone! After you manage your small world well, you will meet more people who manage your own small world well. That kind of integration is really great! Like-mindedness should be a great feeling, right??
I saw Matsuko ("The Life of the Disgusted Matsuko") in the barrage. After reading the novel, I just want to say that Matsuko is not qualified to say "I'm sorry for being born as a human being"! She has been begging to find a sense of existence in others, as long as she shows a little kindness to her, she can find the meaning of existence in them! That is such a pity! If I want to achieve true happiness, it is very important to realize that everyone is born independent, so that we can be more grateful and respect ourselves and others, and we will not have so many deformed views on marriage and love, right? You can also enjoy life more beautifully!
After all, we are born independent, even independent of our parents. Everyone does not have mandatory responsibilities and obligations to anyone. Our responsibilities and obligations only come from the established morality! So, don’t be too sad when encountering bad people, you must understand human nature, but be careful to guard against; when encountering good people, you must remember to be grateful, and dare to open your heart to see what other people’s world is like, this is a very interesting thing. !
In our life as independent individuals, the most important thing is our own emotional experience, just be happy, don’t set too many rules for yourself and others! Laugh when you are happy, shed tears when you are sad, be magnanimous and capricious! "The world is always beautiful! I think you're right!"
2. I want to be a warm mother like Madam Caratti and Nicola, I also want 3 babies, and I want to raise the babies to be babies like Nicola or Sarah! Think it's great, right?
3. I am also a person who does not have too many material requirements, so I always seek happiness inward! I like the atmosphere in the movie that everyone loves to read. Maybe as Mr. Yang Jiang said, the sadness and sadness are all because of less reading?! But I also always feel that there is a point in becoming transparent because of reading more. I may be a little pessimistic and disappointed before I cross that point, because I will see the truth of the world or human nature too clearly, but I will not cross that point. After that node is reconciled with human nature, life will be more transparent and simple! Human nature is really complicated, and we may not be able to understand at a glance what the people we are dealing with are like, so we still have to take appropriate precautions, but more importantly, we must dare to express ourselves, dare to show the independent you. , because everyone is actually looking for a clear soul, looking for people who dare to express their independence. If you meet a sincere person, you should also take care and cherish it. It is not easy to be hungry if you dare to reveal your belly to you!
In short, there is hope but not blind optimism! Just be happy! Peace of mind is happiness!
I hope that in the future, I will study hard and live my life seriously, and I hope to meet more outstanding people?! No matter where it ends, some hopes and wishes cannot be lost!
4. Digression: I saw someone say today that "it is better to change to a more comfortable job if the purpose of mixing the workplace is not for promotion"! I kind of agree! But I think it's important that you understand what you want, and I wish you can understand what you want as soon as possible! Then choose to do it, so that life will get on the right track as soon as possible, and you will have more opportunities to start enriching the thickness of your life as soon as possible, and accomplish what you want! Recently, I was listening to Harvard's happiness class, and I just finished watching "Cat City". I have a very strong feeling that traditional education in China or areas with less excellent educational resources seem to ignore or not pay attention to the psychological education of children. Or philosophical education, for example, the most important of which is to teach children to know themselves (Plato's "Know Yourself")! What I have observed is that the sooner you get to know your child, the sooner you will understand what you want to do, so the mind will be more mature and optimistic, and you will be more inclined to make the right choice that is more satisfying to you, and the life path will be smoother. ! But these philosophy and psychology can be found in books. In the future, I will guide my child to read more of them. Well, I still need to read more. The subject matter should be very broad. Objective books such as philosophy, psychology, history, politics and economy are really great. Yes, let's experience life more objectively! As someone said, "8 points of rationality and 2 points of sensibility are good!"
Before time stops, life is fluid, and every second is a child? I hope to cherish life, to live life as wide as possible, to experience more, and to be happy??
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