When I saw the title of the movie, I thought it was a firefighter's story, how to fight fires, save people, how to work dangerously, and so on. Unexpectedly, it is based on a couple whose marital relationship is about to be destroyed. The male protagonist is a firefighter and the female protagonist is a hospital broadcaster. It stands to reason that they are talented and beautiful, and they are a natural pair, but 7 years of marriage life has made both sides. The enthusiasm for love has been wiped out, and they no longer understand each other and stick to each other. What remains is just an empty shell, a nominal marriage.
There are still many marriages today. They don't like to see each other. It seems that being in the same room with you is a kind of torture. They have to go to the stage of divorce. As everyone knows, they just ignore each other and forget to think of each other.
A quarrel broke down the marriage of the two, and they no longer thought of warmth. The heroine proposed for a divorce, and the man agreed, and the two began to avoid seeing each other as strangers.
The female protagonist and the male protagonist talk to each other with friends. It seems that the female protagonist has suffered tens of thousands of grievances and burst into tears. The husband is not considerate enough to listen to her inner thoughts. When he gets home, he only knows how to play games, surf the Internet, and watch TV. She does the housework by herself. Her parents are sick and have to take care of her every week. The main critic fought a pass. It has to be said here that women are sometimes a group of animals that only complain. Husbands are at fault, but they can't put all the blame on their husbands. Don't they know how to communicate these issues with their husbands as a wife? Why not reflect on yourself? It has developed to such a point that both parties have made mistakes. You are not alone in the pain. Why is your husband not in the middle of it and doesn't understand why. Communication is important and integral to any relationship.
The male protagonist is also suffering, his wife doesn't understand him enough, and his dream is worthless if his wife doesn't support him or belittles him. He cares. The male protagonist's friend is also wise. After listening to the male protagonist's complaints, he did not accuse his wife of what happened. Instead, he asked the male protagonist to reflect on himself, but the male protagonist didn't listen and was full of anger.
The parents of the male protagonist are also sensible, knowing that their son is going to divorce, they quickly discouraged him. The father listened to his son's suffering quietly, and did not preach too much. First, his son couldn't listen, and secondly, when he was older, he also had his own ideas. Although the decision to divorce was temporary, he had to wait for his son to really understand it. Okay, so my father thought of the challenge of 40 days of love, which can be considered a delaying strategy, let him experience it himself.
The 40-day love challenge is the climax of the story. The father, as a past person, gave his son such a piece of advice, which is indeed beneficial and harmless, and can make the son think carefully about why the marriage broke down and reflect on himself. Among them, the film advocates believing in Jesus, and Jesus will give you salvation.
After accepting and completing the challenge of 40 days of love with his father, the male protagonist is no longer the arrogant, arrogant, arrogant husband he used to be. He has learned to be considerate, ask questions, handle housework, and gradually understand his feelings for his wife. , is love, is unbearable to part, is mutual support. The wife was also moved by her husband's actions, and understood that the husband was working hard to save their marriage, and he had a good intention. He also had the final rebirth of the marriage and the second oath in front of Jesus. No matter life, old age, sickness or death, rich or poor, we will never leave.
This is a common problem in many marriages today. When you feel upset, you want to divorce without thinking about why this situation occurs. It's not that they don't love each other anymore, it's just that they don't manage their relationship and common life, don't cherish each other's affection, the sweetness at the beginning. If life is just as good as it first saw, because we all keep the innocence and smiling faces at the time, but life continues, turbulent, and cannot guarantee the original beauty, we should adapt to changes instead of complaining. There is good and bad in one thing. You can't just accept the good and discard the bad. You should bear both the good and the bad. This is life, this is marriage, this is you and me. We need to understand each other, we need to care for each other, we need to support each other, and in times of difficulty and adversity, we need each other's assistance.
Look at the couples in the film, no couple is perfect and complete. I thought that divorce is inevitable, and it is inevitable that there will be bumps in the same room, but it is not that divorce can solve your problems. Look at the male protagonist in the film, his determination to pay for love and save his marriage, perhaps, what we lack is not love, but a heart, a heart that is willing to understand each other.
May all lovers in the world be married and be happy. Don't forget the promise we made at the moment we held hands, "Yes, I do!"
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