The beginning of the film is perhaps the most attractive part of the film. Through fairy-tale humorous words, it evokes people's infinite yearning for marriage and family, just like a girl who is just beginning to fall in love.
The beginning is told through a dialogue between mother and child.
"Okay, sweetie, it's time for you to go to bed"
"Mummy, will you ask Daddy to cover me up?"
"No, he's at the fire brigade tonight, but he'll be home tomorrow night"
"Mummy, I To marry daddy"
"Really? Catherine, you can't marry daddy, he's my husband"
"Then can he give it to me after your marriage is over?"
"Dad's good daughter, we won't end, you Marry someone else"
"Can I wear a wedding dress and white gloves?"
"Of course I can"
"Will we live happily ever after?"
"As long as you marry someone who truly loves you"
"Like dad Is it?"
"Yes, like Dad"
These cute and interesting dialogues have been echoing in my heart for a long time. This is the yearning of every unmarried person for a beautiful marriage, which has attracted the hearts of countless people. At the same time, it forms a clear dialogue with the main part of the film.
The main part of the film tells the story of an old couple who have been together for 7 years. Because of their misunderstanding and respect, they eventually lead to emotional breakdown.
The young Keller was a fire brigade captain. In order to save the lives of each and every one, he devoted all his energy
to the firefighting work. The work pressure was so great that he could not take care of his family. His wife, Catherine, is a public relations director at the hospital and faces enormous work pressure. At the same time, as a daughter, because her mother cannot speak, she often goes back to take care of her mother. She hopes to earn money to buy a good wheelchair for her mother. Not only that, but she has a wife, and she runs her own affairs. At home, my husband is buried in front of the computer every day, not asking about housework. The conflict between the two is getting worse and worse, and the final touch is about to break out and plan to divorce.
The emotional crisis between the two let Keller's father know. As the father of a past person, in order to let Keller cherish the person in front of him, he postponed the divorce deadline by 40 days, and asked Keller to save his marriage. Halfway through the marriage, Keller was almost desperate, but his father still insisted on him. In the end, Keller finally moved his wife. The two finally reconciled and solemnly swore again before the cross to marry each other.
Love is always so beautiful, because at this time, they haven't lived with each other completely, they just saw the good side of each other, and they are very serious and longing for this love.
After getting married, the newlywed Yan Er immersed each other in the joy of marriage. Everything is so happy, because the marriage is still in full swing. However, time is a wonderful thing, and any passion and heat will be washed away by it. This may be God's test of the vows made by the husband and wife before the cross. Couples at this time may feel that marriage is a grave, and both of them want to divorce, so that's it, because the other party at this time has fully understood each other, they have many differences, and have many different hobbies, habits and pursuits. Whether good or bad. They no longer have the tolerance they had when they were in love and marriage.
They are all busy with work, busy with fulfilling their wishes, and facing huge life pressures. Like Keller and Katherine in this movie, a hope likes tranquility, earns money to buy a boat, and fulfills his dreams so much that he saves a third of his family's income. A mother who wants to buy a good wheelchair for her speechless mother and an understanding husband. However, the husband does not take care of the housework all day and does not care about the wife, so that the wife complains every day. In the end, both of them felt that they were not suitable for each other and could not stand each other.
After more than 40 days of marriage defense competition, Keller finally understood the meaning of marriage.
Marriage requires unconditional sacrifice. I have dreams, and my wife has dreams. We should not only think about ourselves and only want to realize our own dreams. Husbands and wives are one body, and we should unconditionally realize our wife’s dream as our own.
We need to accommodate each other. Everyone has their own characteristics. We should be tolerant of each other's shortcomings, which may be the values that both husband and wife should adopt.
Marriage requires business. The maintenance of marriage is not about mutual indifference and ignorance, but the need to manage each other, learn to be romantic and learn to express love.
After watching the whole movie, do you still think marriage is a grave? Maybe some people only understand the value of marriage when they experience it. Marriage has to pass the test of time, and both husband and wife will always have stamina. On the contrary, a marriage without contradictions is boring, just like a blank sheet of paper without a trace of notes.
Therefore, cherish your current marriage, don't learn to cherish it when you lose it!
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