Love it or not, it doesn't matter

D'angelo 2022-04-23 07:03:44

It's been a long time since I watched a movie that made people quiet and follow the plot of the movie for a lifetime. I knew a long time ago that Yang Dechang had a movie "Yi Yi", and many people gave it a high rating. I came back tonight and lay in bed to watch it, laughing while watching, and finally crying when I saw it.

Many good movies are good storytellers, but this movie is about life, ordinary life. Life is full of situations, all walks of life, men and women, young and old, live and experience the process that everyone must go through when they reach a certain stage of life.

When I was young, I lived in my own world and understood the world of adults in my own way; when I was a teenager, I began to experience the so-called love. Everyone thought that their love was unique in the world, and their lover was It is incomparable, but in the end it is discovered that everyone is the same; there are men and women who have just entered the marriage, and their life experience has not been precipitated too much, so they are still entangled with EX; Children, life has fallen into monotonous repetition. When Hua was old and looking back, he found another path that was easy to give up when he was young, so he created an opportunity to try to walk this path, but even after walking back and forth several times, to In the end, he had no choice but to find that he could not go back, and even if he did go back, after a few years, the road would turn into what it is today, so NJ said to his wife who came back from studying Buddhism in the mountains: "When you were not around, I would I had a chance to spend a period of time when I was young. I originally thought that if I lived again, maybe there would be a difference. The result... It's still the same, nothing different. I just suddenly felt that if I live again, it seems... It’s not necessary, really not necessary.” If every middle-aged man and woman had anticipated or realized this early on, wouldn’t there be a lot less broken families in this world?

During a business trip in Japan, NJ said to his first girlfriend that night, "I never loved another person". Looking at his sincerity, I didn't doubt that he was just talking about it---- like Many of the vows now are just casual words in order to match the scene at that time. The thing is, you see, even without love, two people can go into marriage hand in hand, start a family, and live forever. Is it because you struggled too hard when you were young, took love too seriously, but was hurt too deeply by love, and then you calmly accepted the only way in life, married a wife, had children, and lived forever, and love or not love, it doesn’t matter Woolen cloth?

My who, I once thought that you were different from others, but at the end I found out that you just changed your acting opponent and repeated the previous game. In the school today, I saw someone calling another alumnus "Dear", huh, I don't know when my dear will become who's dear again.

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Yi Yi: A One and a Two... quotes

  • Ota: Why are we afraid of the first time? Every day in life is a first time. Every morning is new. We never live the same day twice. We're never afraid of getting up every morning. Why?

  • Yang-Yang: I'm sorry, Grandma. It wasn't that I didn't want to talk to you. I think all the stuff I could tell you... You must already know. Otherwise, you wouldn't always tell me to 'Listen!' They all say you've gone away. But you didn't tell me where you went. I guess it's someplace you think I should know. But, Grandma, I know so little. Do you know what I want to do when I grow up? I want to tell people things they don't know. Show them stuff they haven't seen. It'll be so much fun. Perhaps one day... I'll find out where you've gone. If I do, can I tell everyone, and bring them to visit you? Grandma, I miss you. Especially when I see my newborn cousin who still doesn't have a name. He reminds me that you always said you felt old. I want to tell him that I feel I am old, too.