The door of the world that has been opened will not be closed again

Clifford 2022-04-24 07:01:26

The first acquaintance with Aamir Khan was "3 idots" recommended by a good friend at the time many years ago. Later, this actor, director, and producer from India with a heart in the world became one of my favorite filmmakers, and the friend who recommended the film at the beginning became my husband and the father of my children.

"The door that has been opened can't be closed again."
When the computer that my mother bought after selling her only necklace fell from the second floor and smashed into pieces, this sentence reflected in my mind.

From "3 idots" to "Little Stars on Earth", Amir encourages young people to think about life, guides parents to teach students according to their aptitude, and encourages young people to bravely search for their own possibilities.
Chatting in the company a few days ago, young mothers all said that they regretted getting married and regretting having children. It was a surprise to me, because I had never felt this way, and despite all the difficulties and many times I had to grit my teeth, I felt that my life had never been more hopeful than it is now. I think the difference between me and them is that I have always had a dream.
It has been nearly ten years since I came to this city from my studies to the present. During the continuous on-the-job reading and examination, I used to feel a lot of pressure and could not breathe, but there is always a power that makes me hopeful for the future. Also from life. This is a world full of violent storms, far from a paradise. If you feel that life is effortless, it is because someone has shielded you from the storms of the world. I take this sentence for granted. Although in life, my idealism and his realism are constantly colliding, but he, like my mother, has taken the pressure from all sides on my behalf many times, and my dream has been protected to this day.
I like Amir's films, every one of them, not only heavy political films like "The Color of Bassati", including "Phantom Car", which was called "how do you like such a commercial film, it damages your taste" by college classmates Gods 3" and "Death Unknown". "We are the children of the gods, no one can rival, hope under the scorching sun, will under the steel, fearless pace, prove for us that we begin to write our own destiny." Amir's film is valued Communication, watching his films is like revisiting myself. Amir turned my deep-seated but inexpressible feelings, ideals, and values ​​into stories and told them to myself. As for filming different styles of films, constantly surpassing yourself and constantly exploring different styles, shouldn't life be like this? What's more, I forgot which Indian filmmaker said when answering a foreign reporter's question "Why are there so many musicals in India?", "The darkness of society is already too heavy, and people spend money to go to the cinema to escape from reality while singing and dancing. When I was young, no one wanted to spend money to relive the unbearable life” (This sentence once broke my heart, like Jiang Xun’s “Dream of Red Mansions”, this sentence helped me try to understand different people, different lives, different taste, different choices, not blind devaluation and ridicule).
Reality is not a fairy tale, there are not so many who is right and who is wrong. As Amir said in "Truth Interview", he has no intention of judging right or wrong, but just wants to see the truth and then find the answer to the problem. Isiah's father worked 17 hours a day, supported his family of five by himself, and paid double tuition for Isiah, who was not doing well in school (I think Amir was reiterating his point that children should be taught according to their aptitude). In Amir's writings, Isiah's father is not a simple perpetrator, but also a victim of deformed social relations.
Reality is not a fairy tale, success will not come so easily. The answer to life's problems isn't as easy as uploading a song and becoming a big star. I hope that in my life, all problems in the family can be resolved through open and honest discussions. There are always problems, but we can solve them together first by understanding where the problems are. Hiding problems and pretending there are no problems can only lead to suspicion, quarrels, misunderstandings, and explosions of problems that will one day be faced.
Regarding his future life, I never thought that his future life would be simple and easy. How can such a life be easy, like 18-year-old Picasso standing on the streets of Paris for the first time, like 27-year-old Michelangelo facing his spiritual opponent and partner Leonardo da Vinci?
Regarding Aamir Khan, his existence itself is very inspirational. When I was playing tennis, I won many awards, and I turned into a movie with a good look. I am almost sixty years old to have such a figure. I am really ashamed that I am busy every day. I wanted to visit India because of him, just like because Pamuk fell in love with Istanbul. Is there any reason not to try harder?

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