Different from the introduction, the film uses a relatively large amount of space to describe the sweetness between Cui Zhezhu and Kim Soo-jin, and it is only halfway through the film that Soo-jin's Alzheimer's disease is moved to the main line. If I hadn't seen the movie introduction, then I might have thought that this movie is a very sweet and romantic romantic comedy at best, but I know it's not, so I'm watching the hero and heroine from meeting and falling in love and then staying together. At that time, I couldn't help feeling that it was full of illusory crises. No one knew what the next step of fate would be, and no one knew what symptoms the brain would cause. But this love, which cannot be listed as a comedy love, is still touching, especially the love and tolerance of the hero Cui Zhezhu.
1. Can we be happy if we are really together?
Xiuzhen's amnesia was manifested at the beginning of the film. She went to the convenience store to buy a Coke, but she forgot to take it when she left. When she returned to the store, she saw Cheol-soo walking out of the convenience store with a bottle of Coke in her hand. Mistaking it for her Coke, he stops Cheol-soo and grabs his Coke and finishes it. And just like that, the two met strangely, without a word, just a deliberate hiccup from Soo-jin, and then she turned and walked away without looking back, and Cheol-soo, with a wry smile, had nothing to do. Later, when Xiuzhen found that her wallet and Coke had been put away by the waiter at the convenience store, she realized that she had overbearingly grabbed the Coke that belonged to the man. Such a dramatic encounter made the forgetful Xiuzhen remember the second reunion. Who he is. So, the two began to communicate, and it was a happy day. But Zhezhu thinks that the backgrounds of the two are too different, and he has been reluctant to go home with Xiuzhen to see his parents, and he has been emphasizing: If we are really together, can we be happy?
When I saw the unruly and unruly Cheol-soo at the beginning of the film, I didn't think he and Soo-jin were compatible, at least in terms of identity and background. But he is a very cool person, his long hair hides his deep eyes, and his beard is not well groomed when he grows. However, it is only this kind of man that can let Xiuzhen get out of the emotional pain in the past and face a better life. The details of how the two get along are very warm, as if Xiuzhen was born in the arms of Zhezhuo.
2. A good carpenter can see the most suitable use through the texture of the wood, and I have seen your texture.
This is what Soo-jin's father said. Cheol-soo started out as a carpenter, and of course he passed his exams to become an architect, but when he fell in love with Soo-jin, he was just an ordinary carpenter. Dad always misses who his daughter depends on. He always thinks of his daughter to find a suitable person who can make her food and clothing happy for the rest of her life, so when Xiuzhen's father found out that Zhezhu was just a carpenter, Not very fond of him, but the story takes a turn. Soo-jin asked her parents to have dinner with her without the knowledge of Cheol-soo. Cheol-soo was still very reluctant, and her nervousness caused Soo-jin to walk outside the store unconsciously after going to the bathroom, and fainted from anemia. At this moment, Cheol-soo rushed out immediately, picked up Soo-jin nervously and ran to the hospital. Soo Jin, who woke up, also burst into tears when she saw Cheol Soo. A father who loves his daughter, after seeing this, what else will he stop? So, he told Zhezhuo that he saw his lines, that is to say, he knew that he would be the one who truly loves and treats his daughter.
I never feel that work is divided into high and low, just like no matter how ordinary people look, they will have their shining points. The occurrence of love, it is even more impossible to consider so many identity conditions. If you have to think about things in the face of a relationship, then give up, because that is not the purest. Of course, this is too emotional, and it's not very likely to happen in reality. People's standards, and then just one person meets various conditions, so it causes the so-called love at first sight. How long have you been used to looking into other people's eyes and talking? I always feel that looking at a person's eyes is the most direct way to understand him, but now, I don't seem to be used to looking at other people's eyes. Maybe it's because I feel more and more thick lines, or I'm afraid of being seen by others and unable to hide in the eyes. idea. A person's grain, this line is really good, just like wood, different grains have different uses, and only by truly understanding a person's inner can judge other things.
3. There is only a fine line between forgiveness and hatred. You can't forgive others just because you didn't leave a space in your heart.
The movie involves a grudge between Cheol-soo and his mother. Cheol-soo's mother ruthlessly threw him to a temple-building master when he was very young, so in his heart, Cheol-soo always thought that his mother was just a stranger and was unwilling to forgive his mother. And Xiuzhen told him that there was only a fine line between forgiveness and hatred. Indeed, just like there is only a thin line between love and hate, human feelings are fickle, one second may be intimate, the next second may turn against each other, and many times there is no logic to be found. And hatred, or hatred, etc., are very sad, so it is not easy to hate a person, or hate a person, rather, to look at some external things lightly, and then lighten up, also It's better not to be bothered by others. What Xiuzhen said about setting aside a space can be for herself or others, but in any case, don’t let your mind be filled with unhappy and inactive things, as it is always yourself who suffers the most. In the end, Cheol-soo forgave his mother, and used the money he planned to build a new house to help his mother pay off the loan shark. I still remember that after paying off the money for my mother, Zhezhuo and Xiuzhen were eating at the food stall. Zhezhu said that we are really beggars now, and Xiuzhen said generously, then I will pay Luo, and they played poker, which they both liked. In the card game, at that moment, the great truth of the poor and lowly husband and wife Pepsi must also stand aside.
Fourth, if you lose your memory, you lose your soul.
At the beginning of the film, what Cheol-soo said while talking to a homeless man at the train station where Soo-jin had been. At that time, Soo-jin's amnesia had intensified, and Soo-jin resolutely left Cheol-soo in order to prevent Cheol-soo from being hurt again. And she lost her memory, did she really lose her soul? The answer should be "absolutely not". Although Xiuzhen slowly forgets the people around her and the things she remembers, she is still a complete body, with her own thoughts and feelings, although at this moment she will forget that Zhezhu, who is standing next to her, is her favorite. The person is her husband, but some details will always remind her of everything she should remember. Moreover, what if he forgets it, those who are as affectionate as Cheol-soo will definitely find ways to make Soo-jin know him again and accept him again. The soul is not only in the hands of memory, but in the hands of the mind. As long as there is a heart, then nothing is a problem, and that is why Zhezhuo is so confident in his marriage life, and he doesn't think the real world is cruel at all.
In fact, I also slowly forget some things, want to remember, or do not want to remember. The older you get, the worse your memory will be. When I looked at the wedding photos of my classmates last year, I couldn't name the familiar faces. I was a little surprised at the time, but don't mind it. Maybe it's even more pleasant to be surprised when a flash of inspiration suddenly emerges, just like meeting the old acquaintances one day in the future, that kind of feeling, hehe, worth looking forward to.
5. You are the only person in my life, the only person I love most, and the person I want to remember the most.
Soo-jin is stuck in the memories of an old lover, which makes Cheol-soo unable to bear the pain. When she looked at Cheol-soo affectionately, but called out her ex-boyfriend's name and added "I love you", that scene made the viewers also feel pain for Cheol-soo. But Cheol-soo just has enough self-control to make sure he smiles and responds with "me too", then hides his face and weeps as he walks out the door. Such a deeply affectionate man is indeed worthy of Xiuzhen's words that he loves him the most. When Soo-jin regained her memory, she felt that it was too cruel to Cheol-soo. She didn't want to let him feel the pain of being hurt again because of her, so she left resolutely. In the letter left, Xiuzhen said sorry apologetically, and repeatedly expressed her feelings for Zhezhuo, even Alzheimer's disease, can't stop people who love each other, even if you keep repeating the love stage, every day. It is also a happy thing to see a stranger when you wake up, and then slowly accept him and slowly fall in love with him.
A person who gradually loses his memory can write such words when his memory is sober, but as an ordinary person who has not encountered such misfortune, he cannot write it, or it is not necessarily very sure if he writes it. Bar. You will meet many people in your life, those who are destined and those who are not. When you leave the world, you may not be able to tell which one is your favorite. Human hearts are always complicated. You want to have both, but the reality is It is not allowed, so we can only subjectively choose what we think is worthwhile under certain objective conditions. Of course, sometimes we need a little impulse. As for the result, it is not predictable. Well, forgetfulness is also a good thing to think about, at least it won't go into details.
I watched the director's cut version for nearly two and a half hours. It seems that there are many feelings, but writing it down has changed the taste. Maybe I didn't think it through carefully, so I didn't think of many fragments that can express my feelings. What I remember is just a few lines, and the details of which are difficult to explain clearly. Well, it is not detailed enough. Son Ye-jin, who plays the heroine, is a Korean actress that I like very much. She looks good and has a good temperament, and her acting is more into the drama. Hee hee, you can't believe it after watching it. And the male protagonist Zheng Yucheng is not familiar with it, but he looks cool and has good acting skills. The ending of the movie is okay, at least for that part of the journey, Cheol-soo will always be with Soo-jin. . . And Soo Jin, who owns Cheol Soo, will always be happy even if there is an eraser in his head. . .
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