After becoming a mother and watching such movies, I always have more worries in my heart. I wrote "Miss Bird, Your Adolescence, Mom Pain" is about Miss Bird's struggle with her mother and herself during adolescence. Looking back on my adolescence, I will think of what kind of youthful sprouting and rebellion the next generation will face, and what price will they have to bear? We may be glad that our adolescence passed smoothly, or we may feel that their adolescence is so similar to our own.
This film basically tells the story of the heroine Xiaoqiu's experience of an accidental pregnancy and abortion at the age of 18 from a female perspective. There is very little dialogue in the whole film, and it comes and goes along with the camera, so don't be in a hurry. After all, abortion is a process. , will not erupt suddenly like a volcanic eruption, she can still have time to wear a nose ring to prove that she has grown up and can control her body, have time to check her body, check information on the Internet, and choose not to be known by her parents Go to New York, take the money, book tickets, bring luggage, and start a very special journey with my cousin. Ending a pregnancy is one thing, and it might just be a "trouble" for the two little girls.
The male characters that appear throughout the film are non-positive, you probably don't have to remember who they are, but as soon as you close your eyes, their movements and expressions come to your mind, they don't represent someone, they It's a group of people who can show such actions and words.
Acknowledging that women are especially vulnerable at certain moments, in The Handmaid's Tale, the heroine flees into the wilderness and her monologue is: Make your daughter a feminist who spends her life waiting for a man redemption.
I don't preach feminism, my hope is to keep human rights, to respect each other's rights as human beings, the things you wouldn't do to your mother and daughter, please don't do it to any woman; you don't want other men Please don't do the same thing to your own mother, wife and daughter.
When asked by the doctor whether sexual partners are willing to contraception, whether they are coerced by violence, the alternative answer given by the doctor is "never, rarely, sometimes, always". The dialogue in this film is really very small. However, the conversations between the doctor and Xiaoqiu were all recorded in detail. After you unconsciously answered basic information such as your name, age, birth, your medical history and family history of allergies, etc., you were suddenly asked a relatively "private" question. His nerves suddenly tightened, and then those unknown pictures flashed in his mind, and he didn't even have time to make up a lie to deceive himself, and he answered tremblingly, that he had been experiencing "rarely, sometimes, always" for a long time, and it was too late to hide Tears reveal the secret.
I think what the director wants to express is that the process of abortion in a regular hospital is actually very gentle and respected. When you become pregnant unexpectedly, you should face it bravely and it will not hurt. But she doesn't tell you how to say no to the "rarely, sometimes, always" you experience.
Maybe many people who have watched this film have experienced or are experiencing this, and I believe that some men will feel very uncomfortable when watching this film. The reality is this, how to live our life, it is not found in the film answer. Maybe it's like a phone call you make to your mom when you're having a tough time, and just hearing her voice can be inspirational.
When I watched this film on Mother's Day, I had a feeling: In fact, not everyone is suitable to be a mother, and not everyone can be ready to become a mother at any time. We have the right to freely decide to have an abortion, and please also gentlemen To respect women, please cooperate and take measures when both parties are not ready. When women say no, stop your behavior. Let mothers who want to be mothers become mothers, and mothers who become better mothers.
A tribute to every woman who went from little girl to woman to mother. Also pay tribute to women who insist on being single and be themselves.
The adolescence of this film is not as extreme as "Trainspotting", nor is there the confrontation of "Miss Bird", nor the rebelliousness of the students in "Transcendence", and it is not as heart-warming as "Juno", in the domestic film "Miss Bird". Dog Thirteen" and "Youth as a Teenager" lay out so many realities, and the accusations against the original family are not as forbearing as "Fang Siqi", "Never, Rarely, Sometimes, Always" She hardly speaks, she His eyes see everything, accept it, do not make noise or make a noise, such a silent adolescence is precisely a lot of unknown adolescence.
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