I used to think that American teenagers who received a better education than us and were infected with a more diverse social atmosphere would grow up faster and more smoothly than us. But now I have changed my mind. Maybe this is the case in society as a whole. Different societies must shape different generations. But if we break it down to each individual, maybe we are all the same. Everyone’s growth process is different. Not so smooth. We grew up in China, so we had to pay for it. Likewise, they grew up in America, and they have to pay for it. Every country, every age, as long as they are born, they inevitably have to brand their bodies with obligations. The social atmosphere in the United States is open. The female protagonist has a relationship with a man at the age of 14, and has already had six sexual partners at the age of 17. She can feel the beauty of love at the age of a young girl Huaichun, and she inevitably has to bear the price of youthfulness. China's atmosphere is conservative. Many 17-year-olds are still in high school. Parents are very secretive about love, let alone the topic of sex. So our youth always contains sexual repression. The heroine faces physical or psychological violence in teenage relationships. We also face soft violence at school and at home. No one is happier than anyone else, and no one is sadder than anyone else. Our lack of sex education will push back the price of ignorance about sex, see sex as dirty, or marry a child, and so on. They are not sexually restrained enough, which makes young and ignorant youth prone to mistakes. This is the price, the price that must be paid in different circumstances. When we grow up, we gradually begin to understand and respect sex, but youth has long passed. They have grown up and recovered from their youthful indulgence, perhaps leaving scars that cannot be erased in their hearts. The growth of each individual will not be easy, and people are always unlucky. But the good thing is that people always grow, and that's the best gift we have. We are always hurt and we are always moving forward. I rarely feel lucky, but sometimes things go smoothly. Some people never pray, it doesn't matter, I don't pray much, but it doesn't hinder our desire to love and be loved. Although the past is difficult and the road ahead is not bright, I never doubt that our birth is a blessing.
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