Never see, rarely think, sometimes wonder, always cry

Pearlie 2022-04-19 09:03:16

"Never, Rarely, Sometimes, Always" is a personal essay on watching movies. I often think about non-serious film reviews. Most of Jia Zhangke's films in China have a very realistic style. This type of film is too real. It makes people unable to look directly and feels depressing (maybe because I am a person who is not too daring to face reality). I have watched relatively few foreign movies of this style, but "Never" gave me the same movie viewing experience. The plot story of the movie can be said to be quite simple. It is two girls, one of whom became pregnant unexpectedly and wanted an abortion, and then her cousin accompanied her to a relatively loose abortion facility. The perspective followed the director's camera all the way. Although the story was simple, But I think the meaning of this film is like a slap in the face, a loud slap in the face to many men and society! First of all, when I saw it, I felt a sense of shame. I admitted that the world is unfair and unfriendly to women, and that these unfriendly and unfair things sometimes become a habit. It's hard, I don't know how to eliminate this habitual prejudice, I always feel that I am responsible for all this! I want to say sorry and pay attention to my words and deeds in the future! I'm not very literate, and watching movies can help me understand the world and how stupid many of my teenage thoughts were! shameful! nausea! I'm so glad I saw this movie! Thanks! In fact, I was quite desperate. It was only in my 30s that I realized that there is no way to completely eliminate conflicts between people. It is not only a problem between men and women. Of course, movies are a kind of voice, and they are also worth seeing. Hope so, see how disgusting the "shadow" in the movie is, a lot of people should just explode in place! However, the expression of the film is still very restrained, and the two girls do not have many lines, but the men in the film are more presumptuous than the other, and there is not a lot of insults and inequality. This kind of forbearance is more powerful than preaching, and I found that even the big devil who forced Autumn didn't explain who it was, and Autumn didn't just show pain. Most of the time, she endured the pain and the injustice of this world. I think the psychological torment is no worse than the physical torment. There is less pain on the Internet, and I feel quite uncomfortable watching it. I really want to scold: "Stinky men die!" This "implicit" expression further highlights the disadvantaged position of women in this society! From the bottom of my heart, I think the film is very representative! Regarding abortion, I want to say something, but I think it is very subtle. It is not like insults and discrimination. It is not completely politically correct. How to define it depends entirely on the perspective of the problem. I think it involves "human quan". ”, indeed, if from a purely female perspective , the right to decide my own body is unquestionable, and the emergence of another life, I become less certain, I have to think about it, of course I am not a woman, I can only imagine, now if I am a woman, Assuming there is a life in my body, I will be very cautious whether I choose to have an abortion. The premise is that I am not pregnant because of qiangbao. I absolutely support abortion. No matter how many weeks the child is, I can't let me get rid of the idea of ​​abortion. I don't care about any laws. If it is because of the child's gender, or the result of two people who are completely in love, and the child is in a basically formed state, I will not. So firm, um, this is probably what I think, maybe ignorant, maybe ignorant, I'm just an ordinary person, I always feel that the more important renquan is, the more cautious the attitude towards abortion! I've heard here that a lot of abortions are because of son preference, which is shameless too! In addition, we have a common memory, that is, jh giving birth, and I am a naked example. My mother was caught on the way to a forced abortion. I used the toilet under the pretext of going to the toilet and escaped into the urban village through the hole of the public toilet to give birth. In the end, the fine was 5,000. More than 30 years ago, for a father who was a mason, it took a few years to pay the money back. Alas, in fact, I am also very pessimistic about this issue. My father is a little son-in-law, so he gave birth to me. , I also have a sister, but I'm very distressed about it, I'm desperate for people, so I have some opinions on this jhsy thing, but I can't say it, after all, no one has the right to blame others' thoughts, I only I want to say that if I had the right to choose, I would rather be stillborn than let my parents give birth to me. I hate this world, people, and myself! What's even more sad is that I have a daughter myself, which is an accident. Of course, the above thoughts do not affect my love for her very, very much! Just having a second child is absolutely impossible! I'm a bit off topic, I know, some people may think I'm naive! Well, laugh at it, at least every word I say is a true idea, at least the current cognition is like this, it may change in the future, I don’t understand the world more and more, and I don’t know how to get along, so I live now Living in an almost "isolated" life, I hope that when I leave one day, I can tell my children that my father has done nothing evil to this world! There is a life in my body, I will be very cautious whether I choose to have an abortion, provided that I am not pregnant by qiangbao, if I am invaded by xing, or like Autumn in the film, I am coerced to cause an unexpected pregnancy, then I absolutely support Abortion, how many weeks the child can't let me get rid of the idea of ​​abortion, I don't care about any laws, if it is because of the child's gender, or the result of two people who are completely in love, and the child is basically formed, I am not so firm. Well, um, this is probably what I think, maybe ignorant, maybe ignorant, I'm just an ordinary person, I always feel that the more important renquan is, the more cautious the attitude towards abortion! I've heard here that a lot of abortions are because of son preference, which is shameless too! In addition, we have a common memory, that is, jh giving birth, and I am a naked example. My mother was caught on the way to a forced abortion. I used the toilet under the pretext of going to the toilet and escaped into the urban village through the hole of the public toilet to give birth. In the end, the fine was 5,000. More than 30 years ago, for a father who was a mason, it took a few years to pay the money back. Alas, in fact, I am also very pessimistic about this issue. My father is a little son-in-law, so he gave birth to me. , I also have a sister, but I'm very distressed about it, I'm desperate for people, so I have some opinions on this jhsy thing, but I can't say it, after all, no one has the right to blame others' thoughts, I only I want to say that if I had the right to choose, I would rather be stillborn than let my parents give birth to me. I hate this world, people, and myself! What's even more sad is that I have a daughter myself, which is an accident. Of course, the above thoughts do not affect my love for her very, very much! Just having a second child is absolutely impossible! I'm a bit off topic, I know, some people may think I'm naive! Well, laugh at it, at least every word I say is a true idea, at least the current cognition is like this, it may change in the future, I don’t understand the world more and more, and I don’t know how to get along, so I live now Living in an almost "isolated" life, I hope that when I leave one day, I can tell my children that my father has done nothing evil to this world! There is a life in my body, I will be very cautious whether I choose to have an abortion, provided that I am not pregnant by qiangbao, if I am invaded by xing, or like Autumn in the film, I am coerced to cause an unexpected pregnancy, then I absolutely support Abortion, how many weeks the child can't let me get rid of the idea of ​​abortion, I don't care about any laws, if it is because of the child's gender, or the result of two people who are completely in love, and the child is basically formed, I am not so firm. Well, um, this is probably what I think, maybe ignorant, maybe ignorant, I'm just an ordinary person, I always feel that the more important renquan is, the more cautious the attitude towards abortion! I've heard here that a lot of abortions are because of son preference, which is shameless too! In addition, we have a common memory, that is, jh giving birth, and I am a naked example. My mother was caught on the way to a forced abortion. I used the toilet under the pretext of going to the toilet and escaped into the urban village through the hole of the public toilet to give birth. In the end, the fine was 5,000. More than 30 years ago, for a father who was a mason, it took a few years to pay the money back. Alas, in fact, I am also very pessimistic about this issue. My father is a little son-in-law, so he gave birth to me. , I also have a sister, but I'm very distressed about it, I'm desperate for people, so I have some opinions on this jhsy thing, but I can't say it, after all, no one has the right to blame others' thoughts, I only I want to say that if I had the right to choose, I would rather be stillborn than let my parents give birth to me. I hate this world, people, and myself! What's even more sad is that I have a daughter myself, which is an accident. Of course, the above thoughts do not affect my love for her very, very much! Just having a second child is absolutely impossible! I'm a bit off topic, I know, some people may think I'm naive! Well, laugh at it, at least every word I say is a true idea, at least the current cognition is like this, it may change in the future, I don’t understand the world more and more, and I don’t know how to get along, so I live now Living in an almost "isolated" life, I hope that when I leave one day, I can tell my children that my father has done nothing evil to this world! I'm not that firm anymore. Well, that's probably what I think. Maybe ignorant, maybe ignorant. I'm just an ordinary person. cautious! I've heard here that a lot of abortions are because of son preference, which is shameless too! In addition, we have a common memory, that is, jh giving birth, and I am a naked example. My mother was caught on the way to a forced abortion. I used the toilet under the pretext of going to the toilet and escaped into the urban village through the hole of the public toilet to give birth. In the end, the fine was 5,000. More than 30 years ago, for a father who was a mason, it took a few years to pay the money back. Alas, in fact, I am also very pessimistic about this issue. My father is a little son-in-law, so he gave birth to me. , I also have a sister, but I'm very distressed about it, I'm desperate for people, so I have some opinions on this jhsy thing, but I can't say it, after all, no one has the right to blame others' thoughts, I only I want to say that if I had the right to choose, I would rather be stillborn than let my parents give birth to me. I hate this world, people, and myself! What's even more sad is that I have a daughter myself, which is an accident. Of course, the above thoughts do not affect my love for her very, very much! Just having a second child is absolutely impossible! I'm a bit off topic, I know, some people may think I'm naive! Well, laugh at it, at least every word I say is a true idea, at least the current cognition is like this, it may change in the future, I don’t understand the world more and more, and I don’t know how to get along, so I live now Living in an almost "isolated" life, I hope that when I leave one day, I can tell my children that my father has done nothing evil to this world! I'm not that firm anymore. Well, that's probably what I think. Maybe ignorant, maybe ignorant. I'm just an ordinary person. cautious! I've heard here that a lot of abortions are because of son preference, which is shameless too! In addition, we have a common memory, that is, jh giving birth, and I am a naked example. My mother was caught on the way to a forced abortion. I used the toilet under the pretext of going to the toilet and escaped into the urban village through the hole of the public toilet to give birth. In the end, the fine was 5,000. More than 30 years ago, for a father who was a mason, it took a few years to pay the money back. Alas, in fact, I am also very pessimistic about this issue. My father is a little son-in-law, so he gave birth to me. , I also have a sister, but I'm very distressed about it, I'm desperate for people, so I have some opinions on this jhsy thing, but I can't say it, after all, no one has the right to blame others' thoughts, I only I want to say that if I had the right to choose, I would rather be stillborn than let my parents give birth to me. I hate this world, people, and myself! What's even more sad is that I have a daughter myself, which is an accident. Of course, the above thoughts do not affect my love for her very, very much! Just having a second child is absolutely impossible! I'm a bit off topic, I know, some people may think I'm naive! Well, laugh at it, at least every word I say is a true idea, at least the current cognition is like this, it may change in the future, I don’t understand the world more and more, and I don’t know how to get along, so I live now Living in an almost "isolated" life, I hope that when I leave one day, I can tell my children that my father has done nothing evil to this world! But I can't say that, after all, no one has the right to accuse others of thinking, I just want to say that if I had the right to choose, I would rather be stillborn than let my parents give birth to me, I hate this world , hate people, hate yourself! What's even more sad is that I have a daughter myself, which is an accident. Of course, the above thoughts do not affect my love for her very, very much! Just having a second child is absolutely impossible! I'm a bit off topic, I know, some people may think I'm naive! Well, laugh at it, at least every word I say is a true idea, at least the current cognition is like this, it may change in the future, I don’t understand the world more and more, and I don’t know how to get along, so I live now Living in an almost "isolated" life, I hope that when I leave one day, I can tell my children that my father has done nothing evil to this world! But I can't say that, after all, no one has the right to accuse others of thinking, I just want to say that if I had the right to choose, I would rather be stillborn than let my parents give birth to me, I hate this world , hate people, hate yourself! What's even more sad is that I have a daughter myself, which is an accident. Of course, the above thoughts do not affect my love for her very, very much! Just having a second child is absolutely impossible! I'm a bit off topic, I know, some people may think I'm naive! Well, laugh at it, at least every word I say is a true idea, at least the current cognition is like this, it may change in the future, I don’t understand the world more and more, and I don’t know how to get along, so I live now Living in an almost "isolated" life, I hope that when I leave one day, I can tell my children that my father has done nothing evil to this world!

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Never Rarely Sometimes Always quotes

  • Skylar: Don't you ever just wish you were a dude?

    Autumn: All the time.

  • Social Worker #2: Whatever your decision is is totally fine, as long as it's yours.