When I have a child myself, I don't see a big change in family relationships. Maybe it's because the time is too short. Look at the movie "Like Father Like Son" by Hirokazu Koreeda, which talks about the affection between father and son. The plot is basically that the nurses in the hospital made a mistake about their children for some reason, so they treated the mothers she was taking care of and deliberately changed their children. This matter was not known to the hospital until five or six years later, and then notified With the parents, the families of both sides have an intersection, and the plot unfolds. At the beginning of the movie, Qing Duo, a little boy from one party, goes to the elementary school for an interview, he is well-behaved and cute, and his father's evaluation of him has foreshadowed: he is weak in character, too unlike himself, but like his mother. However, before it happened, they were a perfect family anyway, upper middle class by Japanese standards. The magic box was opened at the hospital. Once the thoughts flew into the mind, it was difficult to clear them, so the following plot was the plot of Qing Duo's father's inner struggle. In Japan's male-dominated society, the mother's opinion For reference, critical moments can be ignored. Therefore, through the communication between the two companies, the little boy was exchanged and went to the two companies to adapt, and finally made the decision to change. The plot in the movie seems to be the result of the negotiation between the two parties, but it is actually the initiative of Qing Duo's father. He is rich and has a college classmate as a lawyer. The whole thing also plays a major role in the communication with the hospital. The slow plot has shaped the different atmospheres of the two families. Qing Duo's house is clean, neat and rigorous. Qing Duo practices piano every day, learns English, and takes a bath by himself. These are the typical parenting concepts of the middle class. Let your children be what you want them to be. Make unremitting efforts to become what you are. Another little boy is Liu Qing. His family belongs to the middle and lower classes of society. He owns an electrical shop, has several children, and lives a lot at will. Liu Qing’s father is kind and thrifty, which reflects the life outlook of a family pillar in the lower class. values. Children don't have more snobbish eyes to judge the quality of each family, they just rely on their own feelings, so when Qingduo arrived at Liu Qing's house, he could feel the omnipotence of Liu Qing's father, because He would fix broken toys, accompany him in the bath and tease him, very casual. When Liu Qing arrived at Qing Duo's house, it was the other way around. Various restrictions seemed to imprison him, so he simply ran away from home and returned to the former paradise. The subsequent plot is very popular. The failure of the two families to exchange children makes it no longer forced, but raises them separately and makes the two families become good friends. It is more like two families raising two children together, and everyone is happy. A family raising a child is, in a sense, doing its best to cultivate a good friend, but it is clear that the historical view suppresses this idea. The morality of history is a guideline, and the logical relationship between them must be maintained by strict daily behavior, so it is difficult to cultivate a relationship between friends and eventually become strangers. The children in the film have not yet gone to primary school, and many concepts have not yet formed. This is also where the film writers make fun of. If the children of both parties discover this problem after more than ten years, according to the different family backgrounds of the two parties, the children's will It will inevitably be involved, and it will easily become a bloody TV plot. Therefore, the whole film actually reflects the transformation of Qing Duo's father as the hero. His own family education makes him pay more attention to the father-son relationship in history, while consciously or unintentionally ignoring the family relationship as a friend. Although the family looked harmonious and happy before the box was opened, through the detailed descriptions, such as Qing Duo's lying about the interview, the usual strict study system, etc., it can be seen that the father's will imposed on the child is to satisfy his own sense of history. The satisfaction of the maintenance of the father and son. On the contrary, the mothers in the movie are maintaining that pure family affection. If you stop and watch slowly, the life around you is slowly progressing, not only in material, but also in morals and values. Something universally worthy of recognition emerges slowly over time, making life more perfect. The many controversies in the past were not worthwhile after the material was enriched, and people gradually began to pay attention to things at the spiritual level. This does not refer to Japan in the movie, but the country in reality. Whether in the city or in the countryside, the development of the media spreads all kinds of news and also spreads all kinds of means of dealing with things. What is related to this movie is that this kind of The continuous appearance of movies can give people who are still in the enlightenment stage an intuitive solution in their hearts. It is not a life-and-death situation, but a happy life for everyone. Although it is very ideal, there will always be people who will be fooled. The usual strict learning system, etc., can be seen from the will imposed by the father on the child to satisfy his satisfaction with the maintenance of the father and son in history. On the contrary, the mothers in the movie are maintaining that pure family affection. If you stop and watch slowly, the life around you is slowly progressing, not only in material, but also in morals and values. Something universally worthy of recognition emerges slowly over time, making life more perfect. The many controversies in the past were not worthwhile after the material was enriched, and people gradually began to pay attention to things at the spiritual level. This does not refer to Japan in the movie, but the country in reality. Whether in the city or in the countryside, the development of the media spreads all kinds of news and also spreads all kinds of means of dealing with things. What is related to this movie is that this kind of The continuous appearance of movies can give people who are still in the enlightenment stage an intuitive solution in their hearts. It is not a life-and-death situation, but a happy life for everyone. Although it is very ideal, there will always be people who will be fooled. The usual strict learning system, etc., can be seen from the will imposed by the father on the child to satisfy his satisfaction with the maintenance of the father and son in history. On the contrary, the mothers in the movie are maintaining that pure family affection. If you stop and watch slowly, the life around you is slowly progressing, not only in material, but also in morals and values. Something universally worthy of recognition emerges slowly over time, making life more perfect. The many controversies in the past were not worthwhile after the material was enriched, and people gradually began to pay attention to things at the spiritual level. This does not refer to Japan in the movie, but the country in reality. Whether in the city or in the countryside, the development of the media spreads all kinds of news and also spreads all kinds of means of dealing with things. What is related to this movie is that this kind of The continuous appearance of movies can give people who are still in the enlightenment stage an intuitive solution in their hearts. It is not a life-and-death situation, but a happy life for everyone. Although it is very ideal, there will always be people who will be fooled.
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