A friend said this a year ago.
Life can never be complete, and it takes thirty years of living in this world to realize this truth. Friends and husbands have a good relationship and a good financial foundation, but they will not have children of their own due to physical reasons. Adoption is not uncommon, especially at a time when the age of marriage has been pushed back repeatedly, rendering countless couples infertile. I don't think there's anything wrong with adopting a child, it's just that I don't know how to deal with a child who is "unlike" because I see so many children who are genetically similar to their parents. Friends' resistance to adoption stems from the fact that their father is the adopted son. Although the relationship with the adoptive parents is not bad, they always feel that something is missing.
This was a year ago.
IVF failed again, and she started thinking about adopting a child.
And I also began to think about things about children. Do I really have to be related to me to be my child? Although birth and nurture are always put together by us, they can indeed be two completely separate events. Raise a child with your heart, give him love, play with him, and he will love you as well. Who can say that this is not your child and you are not a family?
Many are not a father who accompanies his children, but he also loves Taihe who does not seem to be like himself. It was only when he knew that he was related by blood to another child who seemed to be more similar to him, he chose blood. After getting along with his own son, he gradually realized that for the child, rich material and blood ties are not enough to make a bunch of fathers and sons, and giving love is the key number four.
This is a film about blood and parenting, but it is not limited to that. It explores the question of how to be a father through two very different ways of getting along with children. Watching him grow up, flying a kite with him, taking a bath with him, or helping him fix a broken toy is more important to a child than anything else. And, don't ask your child to be like you, because although he has inherited your genes, he is still an independent person, with his own hobbies and anger, and a life completely different from yours.
Clinging tightly, yet independent of each other, to be such a father and son.
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