This spring, many people reaped the fruits of victory, and I immediately took on the heavy burden. Like most mediocre college students, I copied my resume. Go to the vast sea of jobs to search for units that are willing to accommodate you. I, too, have officially become the person I "hate". The lack of contacts and the contradiction in the industry that I aspire to make the first step towards society so helpless. Some days have passed, and I have not received a reply yet, and I have no choice but to choose "retaliatory" delivery, and vote for all possible positions. It was also such a coincidence that I came into contact with the industry that inspired my fatherhood for the first time in my life - an English teacher in an educational institution.
Before that, I had almost no concept of "being a father". Whether it was the deep relationship between father and son in the movie, or the relationship between father and daughter (especially after high school and before elementary school), it was just an intuitive feeling rather than an idea. resonance. Like many movies, although the eldest son should love his father (and mother), it is precisely because of such an environment that a very rational professional manager has been created, which reduces the original emotional love that he has endowed. A rational father or son may know the social concept of respecting the elderly and loving the young, but in practice it is obviously normative. It was only when he came into contact with Liu Qing a lot that he began to deeply reflect on his behavior as a son of man, but he felt ashamed of his biological father. In the empty underground parking lot, in a black car, in a pure black suit, many calls to my home to apologize to my mother and father who have taken care of me for decades, the title of the movie "Like Father Like Son" is in my mind leave a deep imprint. Maybe this is an endless cycle, and we always don't understand the painstaking efforts of our predecessors until we really do it.
Here, the director gave all the young people who are not yet fathers or who have become fathers but do not know the pain of being a father a heavy slap. He seems to be saying, look, how have you been a son for half your life? . Although the follow-up plot of the film is more about the interpretation of the father's role, it does not directly talk about his attitude change as a son. But in fact, the deeper the plot develops his different ways of educating Liu Qing when he was a father, the more it reflects his understanding of the relationship between father and son, and it also shows that as a son, he understands the hardships and hardships of his father.
Early childhood education and early childhood education is a key moment for a father (family) to lay the foundation for the development of children in all aspects in the next few decades, which is why both families in the film are reluctant to give up the children who have been with each other every day for several years, and they give years of love. It is the foundation of love for decades to come, and it actually has a decisive force on a child's character. There is actually a little bit of disagreement here, as many of the fathers and mothers in the film have very different views on blood ties. Many fathers believe that blood is very important, and it is the same as the character of a horse. Although they have lived together since childhood, as their children grow up, their children will become more and more like the Saimu family due to their blood relationship. And many mothers believe that even if they live together without blood relationship, they will have feelings and will be similar, and this is the case with husband and wife. Perhaps as Saiki's wife, Eucalyptus, said, "It's like something, only men who don't feel the bond with their children will be entangled in this kind of thing."
At the end of the film, the two sides exchanged children. Due to various problems, the fate of the two children was not clearly stated at the end, so the treatment at the end actually gave the audience more room for reverie. Indeed, no matter what fate satisfies, some people will inevitably be "morally condemned" by others. Ethical matters are unclear, and the bond between father and son is also very ambiguous, but I think that in any case, the Saiki family will cherish the time between them and their children more after this incident. Many changes also foreshadow this, and the audience will inevitably feel the same after watching the film. In fact, this should be what the film wants to express and expect.
Ps. At the end, I will add a brief description. Before watching this movie, I happened to accidentally talk about blind dates with my friends. A friend said frankly that in the past 2 or 3 years ago, he was quite disgusted by such things, and now some of his classmates have become fathers, and the pressure from the family is not small. At this time, as an adult society, he is indeed Should take some social responsibility. There is a cloud in ancient times, there is no reason to start a family first and then start a career. It is true that the world is not fair to most children, but this is not an excuse for us to shirk our social responsibility.
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