Like father like son, like father, like son. Unexpectedly, the English translation of the film is so frank and direct to people's hearts, just like this film, moisturizing things silently.
One is an urban middle-class family, and the other is an ordinary family in the suburbs. Because of the jealousy of the hospital nurses, the two families had their children replaced, and this incident broke out when the children were 6 years old. Is to choose blood relationship or cherish the nurture? The two families hesitated. For half a year, the parents of both sides used the weekends to let the two children communicate with each other and get acquainted with each other's family life. This half year is not only a test for children, but also a buffer for parents. A lot of people follow the bloodline and ignore the objection of his wife, send his adopted son Qingduo to his father's house, and take his son Liu Qing back to his own home. Because of the different living environment and lifestyle, the two children could not fully adapt to life in their new home. In contrast, busy work has no time to take care of a lot of family, and lack of communication with children. After inadvertently flipping through the life photos that Qing Duo took for himself, Li Duo finally couldn't hold back his thoughts for Qing Duo, asked Qing Duo's forgiveness, and took Qing Duo back.
Although the film has no turbulence as a whole, it gives people a response from the details.
First of all, I was shocked by the calmness of the Japanese. Although it was shocking that the child was transferred, the two families did not complain and hoarse, and behaved extremely calm and rational. This is not unrelated to the forbearance culture of the Yamato nation in Japan. They are forbearing and self-restrained, and do not easily express their true feelings. Although this kind of forbearance is not conducive to the normal release of emotions, it is beneficial from the perspective of dealing with problems. A calm attitude can lead to rational thinking. At least when facing a lawsuit, a question that is repeatedly focused is always: why does this happen? This is undoubtedly a constructive issue for preventing the occurrence of similar incidents and the recurrence of tragedies.
Compared with the owner of the electrical store, many are obviously not a qualified father. Although he was born excellent, in a suit and leather shoes, he entered the middle-level of foreign companies at a young age, walked in and out of high-end apartments, and had a good wife and good children, but he lacked the patience and tolerance of a father. It can even be said that he has no consciousness of being a father, and just thinks that providing the best material life for his son is the maximum love for his son. Compared with his mild-mannered son, he is more obsessed with his excellence and career. Qing Duo was not good enough, and even made him heave a sigh of relief after learning the fact of the transfer: It really is. For Qing Duo, he was full of disappointment. Without attentive care, his high expectations for Qing Duo were almost the same as his own standards. The image of a strict and even indifferent father emerges on the paper. Although the owner of the electrical appliance store seems to be useless or even a failure, living in a cramped and closed electrical appliance house, he is raising every child with time and heart. Although he has a mediocre career, he has created a harmonious and happy life atmosphere for the whole family and won the love of the children.
After many attempts to accompany Liu Qing attentively for the first time, but still got Liu Qing's wish to "want to return to my father and mother", not only Nonomiya Midori and the inner defense line were defeated, but the seemingly calm and indifferent Liang As a father, after making efforts and still getting nothing in return, my heart may be even more broken. He just put everything into his heart, not easily revealed, not easily told.
The psychological defense line was finally defeated. When a lot of people inadvertently flipped through the photos that Qing Duo took for himself in the SLR camera, the warm shock and the guilt filled his heart caused tears to blur his eyes wantonly. For the first time, he revealed his inner world, without words, but it was deeply moving without words.
"Qing Duo, Dad misses you." When Qing Duo was angry and didn't want to see him, he said this when he was at a parallel intersection with him. This sentence is simple, pure and soft, without impurities, from the heart, and full of infectious power. "But for the past six years, I've been your father." In the six years of getting along day and night, the relationship between father and son has long since become a natural and habit that goes hand in hand.
"The mission is over." After he finished speaking to Qing Duo softly, Qing Duo no longer dodged willfully and deliberately. Standing at the intersection of the intersection, his footsteps slowly stopped until he received a lot of caresses and hugs. .
Without further commitment or rhetoric, a big hug is the best answer at this point. Lei Duo slowly leaned down, wrapped Qing Duo in his arms with his arms, and buried his face on Qing Duo's shoulders. In an instant, Qing Duo also slowly put his hands on his generous back. Everything is understood.
From a child's point of view, they are the most innocent. It is impossible to simply comment on which child has become more fortunate because of the transfer incident, because in this process, they are the biggest victims and the most powerless to resist. Where they are born, they have no choice; even after the transfer case is clarified, it is still not up to them to choose where they will go: they have always been in a passive position. So after being exchanged, when Qing Duo sees a lot again, he will hurry and deliberately hide in the corner to avoid seeing him. That almost natural conditioned reflex is distressing. Those 6 years of childhood memories have become a scar, which will stay there forever if you don't poke it, but once you try to poke it open, it will be unstoppable bleeding and heartache.
It may be fate to meet. Although the nurse's jealousy brought tangle and misfortune to the two families, it gave the two families an invisible blood connection, and made the children of the two families become close friends, even brothers and sisters. We shouldn't be grateful for tragedy for what we got by chance, but in the face of tragedy, we can at least keep smiling and be optimistic.
Father and son, they are all victims. What can I do to save this scar? Dad, if you can, please hug me, work harder, work harder, use time, and be more mindful. Because Dad, I want to hug you.
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