We are all the same and deserve to be loved

Sandy 2022-04-20 09:02:16

"We are all the same, no one loves us."
Simon lowered his head when he said this. Removed the usual stubborn and arrogant disguise, revealing his cowardice and helplessness.
Very distressing.

This clay animation, co-produced by France and Switzerland, shows the primitive simplicity of hand-made, and the content depicts the purity and transparency of the child's heart.
Don't treat children as fools who don't understand anything, and describe the world of children in a true and equal way. This is something to appreciate.

The hero is a little boy named Ika. But he likes to be called zucchini - because that's what his mom calls him.
In an accident, Zucchini accidentally killed his mother who was always drinking and ignored him. Having lost his parents, he was sent to an orphanage by the police.

Every child in the orphanage has his own sad story.
Simon's parents, who were always bullying, took drugs; the girl who covered her eyes with yellow hair was sexually assaulted by her father; the mother of a little black girl was deported.

Later, a little girl Camille came to the orphanage. Her father killed her cheating mother and then committed suicide, and she witnessed it all.
Zucchini fell in love with this girl with sad eyes.

Camille's aunt treated Camille badly when she took care of her, but proposed to adopt her for the high alimony.
With the help of the children in the orphanage, the judge saw through the true face of Aunt Camille and successfully rescued Camille.
Fortunately, the ending was a happy one. Zucchini and Camille were adopted by the police who loved them and started a new life.

Impressively, there is a tree in the orphanage with a nest of birds on the tree.
The father bird and mother bird take turns to go out to feed and raise their young.

But a group of children under the tree have never felt the love given by their parents.
This group of little children, who have experienced those painful and desperate things, did not enjoy the love that they should enjoy, and were pushed into an unfathomable abyss by life.

***

At the end of the film, the aunt in the orphanage gave birth to a child. The children chatted around her and asked a lot of questions.
"Will he live here with us?"
"No"
"Unless you don't want him, of course not."

"Even if he's ugly?" "Even if he smells bad?" "Even if he doesn't stop crying "Even if he wets the bed?" "Even if he gets bad grades?" "Even if he's stupid?" "Even if he eats like a pig?" "Even if he forgets his name and has stinky feet?" "Even if he crys Nonstop, yelling?" "Even if he's trash?"

The whole bunch of questions about babies is what these kids want to ask about themselves.
If I'm bad, will you still love me?
Is it because I did so badly that I was abandoned by my parents?

This group of kids thought that their parents left them alone because they weren't doing well enough.
They want to know that they deserve to be loved.
Even if this love is conditional.






***In

winter, kids go skiing together.
In the snow, a strange little boy fell, and a middle-aged woman next to him hurried over, picked him up with concern, and kissed his cheek.

Seeing this scene, the children who were having fun stopped and stopped talking.
"His mother is so kind to him," with unstoppable envy in his voice.
Although a faint voice said, "Maybe, that's not his mother?" But no one looked away, and everyone looked at it in a daze.
Envy mixed with loss.

It's his mom who admits to caring for a little boy similar to their age. They prefer to believe that it's just kindness from strangers.
They also fall and they get hurt. But when they cry and cry, need a hug the most, and want their parents most, where are their parents?
did not appear by their side.

Although the people in the orphanage who take care of these children are very kind to them.
But there is some love that cannot be replaced by others. Parents are always the most important thing to children.

I also want to see a pair of strong palms when I fall, and a warm embrace when I cry.
I want to know that I am loved too.

***

When I first arrived at the orphanage, the dean said to Zucchini that you can put your luggage in the cabinet under the bed.
After the Dean was gone, Zucchini took out a kite and a beer can.
The kite with the chicken on it represents Dad, because Dad likes chickens. That beer can represents mom, even though she's ditching herself for drinking.
But for Zucchini, Mom and Dad are all the things he takes with him, they are all his memories.

So, when Simon took the kite, Zucchini, who had not been in conflict with others before, rushed up and hit Simon - "Don't touch my kite!"
So, when someone saw him holding a beer can, they laughed at him as an alcoholic when. He grabbed the beer can back and said seriously and seriously, "This is what I used to commemorate my mother." The

adult world always praises the greatness of parental love, saying that father's love is like a mountain and a mother's love.
But forget that the attachment and love of children to their parents is truly unconditional, pure and fiery.

Mom, I miss you so much. No matter what you are, no matter what you are to me, I love you the same. I want to live with you.
How about you?
Do you love me?
like i love you?

***

When the police came to see the zucchini, the zucchini was happy and worried. He said, I'm afraid your work is over and you won't come again.
"I didn't come because of work, I came because I liked you."

Fortunately, Zucchini met a policeman who really loved him.
The police adopted Zucchini and Camille as their own children, took them to the playground to have fun, and furnished them with a beautiful room with green plants.

The police used warmth and kindness to convince the two children that they deserved to be loved.

The other children in the orphanage moved on with their old lives after sending Zucchini and Camille away. Waiting to be adopted by kind people, or to grow up in this courtyard.

It is gratifying that Simon, who had been keeping the weather in the rainstorm column, changed the weather to the sunny column after watching the two good friends leave and closing the door alone.

What Zucchini and Camille can meet, so can Simon.
Like them, he deserves to be loved.
Every child is an angel who deserves to be treated with respect and deserve the best love in the world.


In Malos' Hierarchy of Needs, love and belonging are ranked third. It is an important need after the satisfaction of physiology and safety.
Each of us wants to be loved and to know that we deserve to be loved.

I was also uneasy, afraid that because I didn’t do things well enough, I didn’t perform well enough, and let down those who had high expectations, thus losing my attention and love.
Until one day, my mother told me "I love you because you are my daughter, because you are you."
"Go after what you want and grow into what you want to be. What I want is not your excellence. , but your happiness."
"You have to believe that no matter what you are, I will love you."

That's what I want to tell you about why we deserve to be loved.
Love you broad, love you partial.

We all have the same need to be loved. We are all alike and all deserve to be loved.

The article's first public account "Qingtang Ji"
is looking forward to meeting you with the time when a flower blooms.

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My Life as a Zucchini quotes

  • Raymond: Your mum is no longer there, Icare.

    Courgette: My name is Courgette!

    Raymond: Courgette... Did your mum call you that? Hm. My name is Raymond.

    Courgette: Did your mum call you that?

  • Raymond: OK... Where's your father?

    Courgette: Here... And there's my dad's chick. Mum always said he liked chicks very much

    Raymond: Alright...