In fact, the tendency of this movie is still very clear. Different from the traditional concept in the past, blood is no longer the only criterion for determining family relationships. On the contrary, the effort spent in raising children has played a decisive role.
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▶The nurse is both the source of the error and the source of the solution.
At the beginning of the film, the Nonomiya family participated In his son Keita's entrance exam, except for Nonomiya Ryoda's mention that "the son is docile and not good at winning, he is more like his mother", it seems that this well-off family is quite complete.
However, the nurse who delivered the birth of the Nonomiya family broke the news after a lapse of six years, saying "I deliberately changed the child", and asked the reason in the court, and replied: "Because the remarriage at that time was very stressful, seeing Nonomiya The family is so happy, that's why this idea came up." Let's not talk about the reliability index of this story, the screenwriter's setting is to pave the way for the subsequent plot.
"Because now my husband and children are close to me." So the nurse finally couldn't bury the evil deeds committed back then and "surrendered herself". However, it has been six years since this incident, and the time limit for sentencing has long passed.
Afterwards, the nurse gave Nonomiya a lot of "feelings", but many did not accept it and ran to the nurse's house to give it back to her, but the nurse's adopted son ran rampantly from the house to the door to protect his mother.
"What's your business?" Many people who are deeply influenced by traditional concepts believe that there is no relationship between adopted children and mothers.
"She's my mother." The adopted son refuted a lot with a single fact. Many said nothing.
The nurse doesn't have a lot of roles in this film, and the plot doesn't last long. But the nurse was the source of the whole incident, and she herself answered this question - blood is not the most important thing, as long as you have a nurturing heart, after a certain period of time, the child will understand.
▶The ratio of the status of the children of the two families
From the perspective of "nurturing", let's look at the main line of this film.
Let's not talk about how many times the owner of the Zhaimu family, Xiongda, showed his father's love in the film: "You don't take a bath with your child now?", "You remember to take Liu Qing to fly a kite", "Father is also not allowed. Alternative work.”
Even children are more eager to grow up in the Saimu family. Although Nonomiya's family was rich and well-off, the phrase "the house looks like a hotel" came from two people. But the Saimu family is obviously happy and life is richer.
In the film, Liu Qing, who was exchanged to the Nonomiya family, tried to escape from her life and returned to her original home. Although Keita also has such thoughts, Keita seems to be able to honor his new family.
It's not the child's problem here, it's the family's problem. Some viewers here may say, "Because Keita's character is relatively docile, and he always obeys other people's orders." But you also need to see the arrangement of the plot. When Keita sat in a daze in front of his house, his biological mother Eucalyptus came over to play games with him in an attempt to change his mood.
However, the treatment that Liu Qing received was completely different. On the first day of arriving at the new home, she received an A4 paper size of family rules and daily tasks.
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What can be called a nurturing heart? Maybe many people think that the education of the Saimu family is too poor and they indulge their children too much. In real life, however, Nonomiya's family is more realistic, with a wealthy family, high educational level of parents, and good tutoring.
It is true to say that, but the growth of children requires freedom and laughter. The level of education can be high, but the degree of freedom of thought must also be raised. If you just stuff the child with all the things he can use later, it can't be regarded as a good education, it's just good for him from his own perspective.
Last but not least, this is the most important point of the film. Parenting is not only economic and cultural, but also companionship. To really accompany, see and touch, face-to-face communication. Other than that, there is no better way to understand each other and increase tacit understanding.
Many people understand this truth when they face adults. They spend time with the elderly, with their lovers, with their friends, but they forget that even though they are young children, they also have to endure all the hardships in this world. a feeling.
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