How to balance rationality and emotion?
Child dies after falling into a lake with a scientific model designed by his father without taking other factors into consideration. The father was too rational and lacked emotion. He didn't worry about the child. He didn't go to the lake immediately when he heard that the lake was broken. He didn't go to the lake until he couldn't find any other way. When something went wrong, other children and adults avoided, and what they said was unbelievable. The scientific model built should be more conservative, for the safety of the child, and feel that the death of the boy has nothing to do with the father's unbelief in God.
Can you use your own preferences to influence the decisions of others? Which is more important, fetus or extramarital affairs?
The husband has cancer, the wife falls in love with someone else and gets pregnant, and after an abortion, she can't get pregnant again. The wife is obsessed about whether her husband will die, and if he survives, she will have an abortion. The doctor was not sure about her husband's life or death. The wife decided to have an abortion, but she didn't want to have an abortion. She asked the doctor before the abortion. The doctor had experienced the pain of bereavement and did not want her to have an abortion, so she swore that her husband was dying. She didn't have an abortion, and her husband survived. Do not commit adultery, do not make false oaths, and influence other people's decisions.
Destroy other people's family gain or stick to morality and commit suicide alone? Stick to the family and ignore the life and death of others, lie to the wife to help the ex-girlfriend, or leave the family for the ex-girlfriend? Was it hard or soft when the husband stayed up all night?
The ex-girlfriend lied to the man that her husband was missing, and wanted to help him find it. She even seduced her in the middle of the journey. She only told the truth in the morning. She had been divorced for 3 years. The man lied to his wife that the car was lost, the wife saw through it, and only exposed it in the morning, so he chose to be patient. The man spent a whole night with his ex-girlfriend, during which he was already suspicious, but he was still soft-hearted and almost kissed. The people at the drunken shelter are vicious and the ex-girlfriends are good looking. Do not commit adultery.
Can unrelated fathers and daughters get along?
The father had always suspected that his daughter was not his own, but he could not be sure, and deliberately let his daughter see the letter. The daughter has a serious love affair with her father, and after reading the letter, she suspects that her father is not her biological father. In the evening, they talked a lot. The daughter said that she has always longed for her father, and that only with him can she be happy. The father admits it was hard to see his daughter with her boyfriend. The daughter wanted to change the father-daughter relationship into a couple relationship. She took off her clothes, but the father chose to refrain and put the clothes on her. The daughter woke up the next day and found her father going out. She called out to her father from the window, saying that the content of the letter was made up by herself, that she had not opened the letter at all and knew what to do with the letter. When they got home, they burned the letter, leaving only a corner: "Dear daughter, I'm going to tell you, Mike..." It's
hard to read, has the letter been opened? It doesn't matter whether the letter is opened or not. The possibly fragile father-daughter relationship provides the possibility of legalizing the relationship between the two.
Should there be a death penalty? What is the punishment for criminal behavior?
The entire film is dark in tone. The young man decides to kill for revenge because of his sister's death. The slain driver takes pleasure in making fun of others. The lawyer believes that only God can decide people's life and death, and opposes killing people in the name of the law. I think there is a bias towards supporting the death penalty. Do not kill.
How to restrain curiosity? How to correctly understand love and sex?
The young post office worker was addicted to peeping at the beautiful woman in the opposite building. The woman often had sex with men at home. The young man kept harassing the woman. Later, he told the woman that he was spying on her. The place suitable for peeping teases the youth, and also tells the man that someone is peeping, and the man escapes and beats the youth. The woman asks the young man why he is peeping, the young man says it is love, the woman asks the young man if he wants to go to bed, the young man is pure love, and only asks if he can date at the cafe, the woman thinks there is no love, the young man goes to the woman's house, the young man thinks masturbation is not good, the woman still To change the young man's point of view, let the young man touch the bottom and say that this is love, the young man escaped, attempted suicide, the woman blamed herself, always thinking about the young man, and finally found the young man. It is human nature to peep, and the friends of the youth also peep. The mother of the friend knows the behavior of the youth and hopes that he will have a girlfriend.
How to restrain the wrong mother's love? How to have a correct relationship with your partner and children? Obedience or opposition to parental mistakes? Responsibility to partner or self-preservation?
The mother cannot get pregnant again because of her and has a very bad relationship with her. She was a minor and got pregnant with the teacher. The principal's mother forced the teacher away and put her child's household registration in her own name. A few years later, when she wanted the child, the mother would not give it, so she secretly took the child away, and the child refused to call "Mom", took the child to find her ex-boyfriend. The ex-boyfriend was helpless and could not help her. She took the child to the train station to wait for the train, but was caught up by the mother. The child called "Mom" and rushed over. The train leaves. She is ignorant, paranoid, weak, her ex-boyfriend and father are weak and incompetent, and her mother is strong and vicious. Do not steal.
Which is more important, your own life or the lives of others? How do you choose between a small loss for yourself and a big loss for others? Revenge or endure the person who hurt you?
The woman came to listen to the old man’s class, and the moral dilemma was discussed in the class. The first example was the plot of the second episode. The old man believed that the life of the child was the most important. The woman couldn’t help but speak. life, but the Catholic couple refused on the grounds that they could not bear false witness. The woman did not identify herself and the old man, but the old man noticed it. After class, he confirmed that the woman was a Jewish child. The woman said that she knew that good people have good looks and that the old man saved many Jews. The old man invited the woman to his house and passed by the old man's house. After the woman got out of the car, she felt sad and hid. The old man searched for her for a long time, and recalled the feeling of rejecting her. The old man took the woman home without reproach, saying that it was a lie to refuse on the grounds that he could not bear false witness, because he received news that the tailor who adopted the girl was an informant of the Gestapo. , I am also suffering, nothing is more important than the child's life. The woman forgave the old man and went to see the tailor the next day, who had taken great risks to hide the child and found someone to take her to the United States. However, the tailor didn't want to listen to the woman's thanks, didn't want to recall the past, only wanted to talk about making clothes, and the woman left.
I don't understand the tailor's reluctance to recall the past. The possible explanation is that he does not want to think that he has any grace, that righteousness is in the hands of God, and that the pain left by the war will not be brought up again. If lying can save people, and honesty can harm people, what should we do? It doesn't matter whether lying is an act or not, what matters is whether the motive behind the act is good or evil. Do not bear false witness against others.
How to keep promises in the face of great temptation? How can I restrain myself from being overly suspicious? How to choose divorce or asexual life?
The husband lost his sexual ability, the doctor suggested a divorce, and the wife comforted him, saying that love is in his heart, not between his legs, and he should not divorce. The two were not divorced, but he still believed that she would not be able to bear the derailment, which caused a huge torment in her heart. He listened in on the phone, stole keys, found out that she had lovers, followed her, and heard their voices. Hiding in the closet and peeking, she decided that he would find out sooner or later, fearing divorce and suffering hugely, stopped cheating and broke up with her lover. After her lover left, she accidentally discovered him who was peeking and asked him why he was peeking. , crying and vowing never to lie again, begging not to get divorced, and suggesting to go skiing to relax, he accidentally found out that her lover had also gone skiing in the same place, thinking she had lied again, and went out to ride wildly in despair, causing serious injuries. She met her lover at the ski resort and felt bad. Afraid of his suspicion, she hurried back and received a call from her husband, knowing that her husband was not dead.
Do not covet your wife.
How to choose your own kidney and other people's health plus stamp? Should I be suspicious of my relatives because of property issues? What is more important between your father's hard work, your own career, and your relationship with your family?
The two brothers did not know that the stamps of their dead father were so valuable. The chairman of the philatelic association told them not to waste them. Nervous, Jesse also gave up his rock show, strengthened the collection room, and bought a dog to guard it. Later, Arthur cut a kidney in exchange for a stamp that his father always wanted and the health of the stamp dealer's daughter, and found the collection room. Both of them suspected that the other party might have done it, and embarrassedly asked the police to reveal their suspicions. The two bought the same stamps at the post office at the same time, and at the same time found their father, a creditor, a stamp vendor, and a stamp dealer across the road with dogs of the same kind, looking at each other and smiling. 3 people are not necessarily theft, but at least the two no longer doubt each other. Finally, the two met in the collection room, posed the same new stamps, and smiled at each other. Is this the beginning of the two people's inheritance of their father's beliefs and stamp collecting?
Do not covet other people's property.
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