Is distance the greatest enemy of love?

Ludwig 2022-01-05 08:01:15

(Spoiler) Is distance the worst enemy of love? What is certain is that "distance" is a common element in love movies; it can be concrete or abstract-the so-called "the furthest distance in the world is that I am in front of you...".

The two recent romance films "The Fate Is Not My Girlfriend" and "The Love of 10,000 Kilometers" both involve the bridge between lovers. In comparison, the former focuses more on psychological barriers and creates a romantic feeling from it; the latter is realistic Describe the love across the ocean and tell a sad story.

The opposite of distance is the intimacy of sex, which also occupies an important position in the two plays. "Love" starts from the bed, showing the intimacy of the two protagonists; finally ends with a failed sex, cruelly pointing out the emotional estrangement created by physical distance, which cannot be restored through physical reattachment. "Fate" is the opposite of other free and open Western romance movies. Although sex is a topic of daily life, the action is constantly postponed, conservative and romantic. The protagonist Daniel Radcliffe has worked hard to get rid of the image of "Harry Potter" in recent years, but he still has the shadow of Harry Potter in "Fate": under the fence, he is full of potential but is at a low point in his life. His British qualities can be said to be a kind of "cultural distance", which is used to contrast with the open North American culture. Against the backdrop of other aggressive and active male characters, his prudence turned into charm, and he wandered in the ambiguous zone of "not full lovers" with the heroine.

The opposite of "the furthest distance" is actually "you are in front of me, and I pretend not to know that you love me." Later, the heroine expressed his heart, and the scene where the heroine suddenly turned his face was a bit far-fetched. However, the importance of the sense of distance may help explain the turning point: the man’s activeness makes the woman think that he is like other men, so the ambiguity follows "distance." Disappeared together.

When the truth is revealed, there is no romance at all. Distance may not be the enemy of love, but romance may not be the friend of love.

(Originally published in am730 "730 Perspective" February 3, 2015)

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  • Erna 2022-01-05 08:01:15

    When I saw the airport at the end, there was another kind. Could this be just an expansion at the beginning? In fact, nothing happened and there was no ==.

  • Hermann 2022-04-23 07:03:06

    Windy ntr! It's still pretty sweet~zoe is still fresh as always, but the chemistry with Danni is not as good as the one next door in your eyes (I still want to complain about Danni's height, but her eyes are super beautiful. The last kiss scene was with the little green goblin. XD

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  • Nicole: What's the best case scenario?

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    Nicole: Look, the one thing I like about getting married is that you get to stand up in front of everyone you care about and state for the record that you believe in the best case scenario.

  • Wallace: Uh, thank you, thank you. To those of us who begrudgingly call Allan a friend, it seems impossible that any woman could handle him for an hour, let alone a lifetime. And then you meet Nicole, and that is the good news here. Um, if these two can find each other, then there truly is somebody for everyone. The bad news is that one day, they will procreate, and their hideous offspring will obviously cause the Apocalypse. But tonight, we celebrate the good news. I remember the night Allan and Nicole met, and that instant connection. You know, if you're lucky, it happens once in a lifetime, and if you're unlucky, then you have to come to weddings and hear people like me talking about it, and assume that we are all hopeless romantics. It's very easy to be cynical about love, but this, tonight, this is hard. So to Allan and Nicole, for making the hard way look easy.