Especially the parents are short, so they are also very warm, I miss my mother~
The birth of a child is like a gift to the mother, and it is normal to feel "belonging". It always takes time to adapt to our growth and non-cooperation.
Growing up and leaving is freedom for us, but it means giving up to our parents. Reading, work, new friends, and family, we are farther and farther away, and the more we go, the stranger we are. They are pleased with the responsibilities on our shoulders, but they are also used to putting the young us in their memory (although they are already phantoms) on their shoulders and carry them steadily.
I'm not demonizing Chinese parents (instead, some comments have done such a thing...), I think the director should not mean this, because he can read the love and miss in it.
I can understand that feeling very well. Although my mother always told me to go away and said I liked it, I would fight for it, but she was so reluctant to see that she still misses me. The papers, work, and love for more than 20 years are unfinished? Although It's annoying, but I definitely don't blame her, I know how much she loves me. Every time I said I was angry, she immediately stopped and apologized. It was a tacit understanding, but also because of her unparalleled care and attention. After enjoying so much love and care, I try my best to satisfy everything I like, and I take it for granted, and then I slap the backhand and say that they don’t give us freedom and kidnap with love—that nightmare of swallowing buns and waking up, what I understand is that they The heartache and regret after arguing with us and even hurting the wrong hand, even in the dream is uneasy - saying that you will suffer the consequences or something. . That's really a bit bad. Our culture, habits, parents' growth environment, and education, let them take care of us. If you accept it, treat them well. If you feel that the love they give you is too heavy and tiring, then you should not be such a parent in the future.
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