Young people often say that our parents can't understand our dreams, but in the end, because the arms can't twist the thighs, the parents will eventually compromise. So we're actually pretty reckless. The reason this movie made me cry like a ghost is not because Miss Paula insists on chasing her singing dream. And because the whole family understands, they finally help Paula chase her dream together. There were quarrels, displeasure, and even a slight cold war. No one completely compromised, but in the end, everyone reached a reconciliation, and everyone understood each other. At the end, the whole family hugged and kissed each other frantically, and I cried to the point of convulsions.
The film describes Paula's dream, from birth to experimentation, persistence to giving up, and then to being encouraged and successful, all in one go. The love of parents, Paula's love, and the love of best friend and younger brother are also interspersed in the middle. Every little person is rich and full, such as Mr. Mayor, Mr. half-deaf and mute who is flattering. A rare good movie. The second brush actually cried harder than the first time.
The scene that moved me the most was when the deaf parents took their younger brother to the school choir's New Year's performance. Later, my daughter and her boyfriend came out to sing, and the movie turned off the sound. Put the lens on deaf family members. They can't actually hear anything. The surrounding audience followed the melody intoxicated, swayed, and applauded. The mother can only jokingly with the father. Father was surprised. He looked at the intoxicated expressions of the people around him, and poked at his mother in surprise. They looked at the reactions around them in amazement. The camera swept over every listener, even two little boys who were also enchanted by the singing. At that moment, I thought maybe they understood what my daughter said, she sings really well, she can be a singer.
Our dreams always seem to contradict our parents, and this shot is the best expression of that contrast I've ever seen. My daughter's dream is to be a singer, but her family is deaf. This distance, that silent shot told me.
We usually communicate very little with our parents, and even quarrel very little. We rely on time to make our parents understand our thoughts. Or simply don't tell them and say that you're doing well outside. So often ridicule parents are fetters. But I hope that I can chat with my parents, even if they are noisy. After all, even if they end up supporting me without complaint. I hope that we can reconcile with each other and reach an agreement, so that we can pursue our dreams unfettered.
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