I love this heartwarming movie about "separation", and I was moved to tears by its theme song. its name is
La famille Bélier
The storyline may seem simple and old-fashioned, but it tells our own stories.
The heroine, Paula, is an ordinary high school student, but grew up in a family where both her parents and her younger brother are hearing-impaired, so she acts as the only way for the family to communicate with the outside world, and she also shoulders responsibilities that she should not have assumed at her age. But their family atmosphere is not dimmed by hearing impairment, instead you see a home full of warmth and love.
Therefore, the boy she had a crush on, who accidentally joined the choir, was discovered by her teacher that she had a talent for singing, and she has been training her and encouraged her to go to Paris to participate in a singing competition. It certainly took up her time helping the family.
But her passion for music was unstoppable. She enjoys music and desperately wants to try it. With such a tangled and seemingly doomed story, you must be curious that deaf parents will not regret not being able to hear their daughter's beautiful singing? And the part of participating in the competition has become the most classic part of the movie. Take your curiosity to find a sunny afternoon and watch it with a relaxed and happy mood. Even if I spoil a few, you can feel a lot. Sincerity in the details of life.
When you happen to be approaching middle age like me, maybe you can also experience the cycle of life sprouting in us. We used to be the sons and daughters who were eager to leave home and wanted to fly away. Now we are watching step by step that the children who are growing up may be leaving one day, always eager for them to grow up slower and walk slower . Only then did I understand the reluctance and all the love of my parents.
It turns out that the same good movie is worth watching a second time because my perspective has changed.
Those youthful vibes turned into adult frustration.
Those longing separations become attached affectionate ones.
Those independent revolts became another form of tethering.
The kindness and kindness of the parents who thought they knew each other turned out to be not really understanding.
Youth is good, because we always feel that by rebelling against our parents, it is our way to gain independence and freedom.
They want us to take the civil service exam, find a stable job, get married early, and have a baby. When we are young, we think they are self-righteous, and what they think is the best kind of plan is what they think is the "perfect" life, which is just their own difficulties. and questions. Don't listen, don't listen, our lives are full of possibilities!
If you think I wrote this, for the sake of the plot twist, I will teach you to say, "When you grow up, you will know that your parents didn't lie to you!"
NO, NO, NO.
As cruel as it may sound, the truth is: these concerns and problems are really their own, even if the solution to that problem lies with us.
Because parents need to learn "separation" in relationships as much as we do
Parents should learn to deal with their own problems, and we should learn to deal with ours, and I think that's true maturity.
Is independence really such a good word? It means loneliness!
In such an intimate relationship, even if there is no coercion, no must, and no should, parents are willing to love and support you from their hearts to you from babbling to adulthood.
And now it's you, would you like to?
"You can only choose to go home if you have been away from home"
As long as you let go of the entanglement of a relationship, you will know what you really want.
Therefore, my dear old parents, please believe that it is precisely because of my departure, struggle and hard work that at this moment, I sincerely return home from the bottom of my heart.
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