The most important thing in the world for a person is to feel safe. And this sense of security is a source of warmth, and at this moment, I am feeling it through the screen.
Because of this warmth, I hope that my family can enjoy the breakfast I prepared every morning; because of this warmth, I hope that I can read all the classics in this world, and then read them to my children; because of this warmth, I hope I am a person who loves life, and this kind of character, I would like to have it all my life.
These kinds of wishes come from my feelings after watching a movie "Mr. Church". It's the kind that doesn't require a lot of conflict, stunts; just the narrative alone can make a person intoxicated and warm.
However, this kind of warmth comes from the abundance of your own life. It is a magical power. With it, you will not feel safe because you need to ask for it all the time; with it, you can feel safe in life and work Feel an invisible support; with it, even as winter approaches, the air you breathe in through your nostrils is calm and warm.
Of course, this abundance requires continuous accumulation before it can be integrated into our marrow.
Is there any special habits that can be helped to develop in such a rich life experience?
There are two answers in the movie "Mr. Church". I am deeply touched and I am willing to practice it from now on.
The first answer, I think, is a kind of companionship, a brief contact between family members, friends, and even strangers.
Such accompanying scenes, in the movie, are described as Mr. Church cooking breakfast for the heroine and the heroine's cancer-stricken mother every day, as well as taking in the heroine who was pregnant out of wedlock in college, without saying a word about the reason for the pregnancy , as well as many times appearing as the heroine, and the story of the heroine's mother reading and so on.
Humans are social animals in the final analysis, so they all have an emotional dependence. No matter how much we admire the success of a single person in today's society, in the dead of night, maybe we will feel that someone will help you cover the quilt, but it is more than the glory brought by the bright and bright, and we feel that this is a fresh person. life as it should be.
I feel the companionship and the abundance it brings, even after getting married. It is a feeling different from the school days of reading together. After getting married, it is more of a sense of happiness that is needed because of companionship.
You know there's a small group of people, maybe lovers, maybe lovers and children. They are used to your voice, your smell, your presence. Even if you are bored and deliberately bicker with you, you will feel that the day has not been in vain.
Therefore, if you are accompanied by someone at the moment, you can take on the abundance of this life with a look or a "thank you", and tell yourself that this kind of happiness will always be cherished.
The second answer, I think is a habit of continuous reading.
In the play, reading is used many times as a link to promote the development of the plot. Mr. Church will read between breakfasts. Building trust with the heroine is through the tool of books. When the cancer-stricken mother is dying, he also hopes that Mr. Church will Read the story in the book for her...
Such as persuading people to read, and the importance of reading to a person, I believe many people are already familiar with it. But what really touches me is that when a scholar like Mr. Church is fully displayed in front of his eyes, you can get a temperament produced by his reading, and you will say: "Wow, how can a man have the Such a damn charm", and this sentence may come from the mouth of a boy like me.
I have been reading a lot since last year. After reading each book, the most intuitive experience is that I used to feel proud. In fact, looking at it now, it is not worth mentioning. I used to love others so much, but now I think about it, as long as my family is safe, accompanied by each other, and I have a job that I like and can create value for, I can instinctively be confident and happy, and these do not come from following Comparing with others.
The reason why people are anxious and uneasy is mostly because of dissatisfaction caused by comparison. In fact, this dissatisfaction is more of a disapproval of one's own ability. For this reason, it is neglected that a person's transition from weak to strong requires time and needs. The accumulation is not like the propaganda of various media. You can make millions a year as long as you work hard, marry Bai Fumei, and reach the peak of life.
Through reading, I realize that my ignorance can be forgiven, my ability is weak, I can't buy a car or a house in a short time, and I can sleep in with confidence and enjoy every meal and every second of the moment.
Because reading can make me not forget the power of time, it will make us be patient enough, because the book intuitively tells you that many people, everyone, have come here little by little, they can make things happen, and so can we. At this time, your heart is no longer overly harsh, but down-to-earth, I could have grown up a little bit.
In the end, this movie may not only express these two points, but these two points are particularly empathetic to me. Just as "there are 1,000 Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand people", I believe that after reading it, you will also have a "Mr. Church" in your heart.
No matter what it is, if one day, the weather is very cold, you can hold a tablet or a mobile phone, lie in the bed, and tell yourself, at this moment, I want to feel this warmth, a story about love and companionship.
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