Please give him space for a ten-year fan to tell himself

Jamar 2022-10-10 22:03:49

Added March 10th:

1. I only expressed in the text whether MJ committed a crime or not. Note that this is a rhetorical question. I will support him as always, this only shows my attitude, not a clear position.

2. Part of the meaning of my post is to let Mai fans not want to be mythical MJ. MJ is also an ordinary person who can make mistakes. Do you understand what it means? It's not about this thing, it's just the same for every normal thing.

3. I have repeatedly said that I am not qualified to evaluate the child molestation incident, that is, I have always thought so before this incident began. Some people say that I convicted MJ, I'm afraid you misunderstood what I mean, otherwise the word "qualification" will not be mentioned repeatedly.

4. This article is entirely subjective, I do not deny it, but this article is not a conviction article, it is just an evaluation to express my personal feelings. In fact, I have not even watched the documentary.

5. I hope that Mai fans don't fuss over words. Who is qualified to evaluate whom? Who has the right to convict whom? If you don't even understand what I mean, I hope you detour.

I have been a fan of MJ for nearly ten years, and I think I have achieved those standards as a "Mai Fan", even more than the average Mai fans. There are hundreds and thousands of his videos and pictures, as well as all kinds of resources. I have collected a lot of MJ's CDs, as well as versions from all over the world. I am obsessed with the layout and the inner circle, and I have to collect every little difference. I am crazy and fascinated by it. I have also translated all the Chinese lyrics of MJ myself to post-production MJ video subtitles. If I said that according to the standard of group chasers, I would give myself 200 points. The appearance of MJ has changed my life and made my life colorful. It is undeniable that because of MJ, I have met many good friends, who are friends that I will never meet in my life... For this, I thank MJ and thank you His music and the opportunities it brings. The change to MJ is something that happens every year, and I'm referring to the mindset. I feel this way every year and MJ seems to be drifting away from me. I have doubted, thought about it and tried hard, but I still can't eliminate the sense of distance. The original feeling can never be found again. His music stopped playing at some point and was forgotten in the list. I don't think it's a personal opinion, many people change slowly over time. This is the rule. MJ always gave me the most beautiful and idealized things, which ran counter to the reality I was exposed to. Instead of giving up MJ, it is better to accept the baptism of reality to realize how simple MJ is, and people will also reject things that are different from their own values, which can be said to be instinct. No matter what MJ looks like in my heart, no matter whether his music is still in my mind or not, he is always a musical genius once in a century, and an idol star who gave me a strong shock and many firsts. I cannot deny these pasts. So what's the situation now? When HBO and Oprah took turns attacking MJ, when the two victims braved the world to stand up and testify. If I were an ordinary person, who would I choose to believe? If I'm a fan, should I trust MJ? These questions have been bothering me. When I see a lot of fans show their support to MJ with their actions, some holding placards and taking pictures and some parties, I can't help thinking: "Why can't I even bring up this motivation?". Because of MJ? Because of the influence of today's fan base? Because of the timeless concept of the MJ circle? Before everything was answered in the affirmative, I was really tired, which was the clearest and most direct signal. What happened I'm speechless, but all that's left with MJ is fatigue. I'm just an ordinary person who works hard every day for life, MJ is too far away from me, so I don't know what MJ's life is like. I don't dare to jump to conclusions and I won't face me with good imagination.

It's just my words, it's your right to entertain yourself.

In this matter, I am not qualified to speak, because I am not the party, I know how much I have. I will not doubt MJ's talent and hard work, I will remember his contributions to charity and pop music. Undeniably, he was a great man. No matter how dazzling MJ's halo is, he still can't escape from birth, old age, sickness, death and emotions, so he is also an ordinary person from a certain point of view.

Then, people who are not saints and sages can have no faults.

We all make mistakes. This is unavoidable. The key is who can understand and forgive our mistakes and lead us on the right path. This is the key. So fault, is it really that important? MJ's life has been magnified infinitely, from the fan circle to the newspaper media, should he have his own emotions? Can his secret be known? A person who has been in the circle of fame and fortune since he was five years old, who can easily say that he understands him?

Again, I'm not stating my position, and I'm never underestimated. Because I am not eligible.

For MJ, I just think of him as an occasional confused and error-prone kid.

I hope to give him the greatest degree of acceptance and understanding.

The people of Sri Lanka have gone, and the lingering sadness that lingers around has dissipated in the air.

true you.

Real me.

No distance, sincerity and simplicity.

Forgive mistakes and give up obsessions.

Finally, I declare that I do not express my opinion on this incident. No matter before or after, my thoughts are always the same, and I will continue to commemorate him in my way.

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  • Wade Robson: He was one of the kindest, most gentle, loving, caring people I knew. He helped me... tremendously. He helped me with my career. He helped me with my creativity. With all those sorts of things. And he also sexually abused me... for seven years.