1. Carlock and Ms. Grandin
Recognize, Accept, and Rebuild in Breaking and Standing
When she saw that her daughter Tian Bao was ridiculed by her peers, her mother Grandin ignited her instinctive desire to protect her daughter. The doctor sees this pair of special mother and daughter in his eyes. I think Dr.'s empathy is particularly strong, he understands not only his daughter, but also his mother. The doctor affirmed the mother's contribution, affirmed the mother's care for her daughter, and at the same time understood the mother's emotions and huge psychological pressure. The doctor taught the mother to realize that it was not her fault that her daughter did not grow up as she wanted. The doctor taught mother to accept herself and affirm herself. Not only that, but the Dr.'s phrase "What parent doesn't want to?" How can any parent not want to protect their children? It is to let the mother put down the psychological pressure and clearly realize that the best way to protect her daughter is not to act as a protective umbrella for her daughter anytime and anywhere, but to teach her daughter to face life alone and solve the stumbling and stumbling of life independently.
This enlightenment has warmed me up several times. When we encounter difficulties, if someone can affirm our emotions and accept our emotions, instead of blindly telling us you need to be calm, you need to be strong, you need to. . . How warm is that. If someone could tell us that we are fine, teach us to accept ourselves, to love ourselves, and to teach us to accept ourselves while breaking ourselves, how empowered we should be.
2. Tempo and Aunt
Tempo is lucky to have an aunt who understands her. The aunt knew both Tianbao's talents and Tianbao's weaknesses, and she persuaded all parties to let Tianbao bring a homemade "squeeze machine" to class. My aunt's love for Tian Bao can be described as unconditional love, so Tian Bao is very happy and free in my aunt's farm. It was also on his aunt's farm that Tian Bao developed a keen interest in livestock.
3. Tempo and Blind Partner
each other soul mate
When I saw Tempo let his blind roommate hook his arm, I thought it was a pair of soul mates. Brokenness is also a beauty, and flaws can be an advantage. Tempo's autism gives him strong visual abilities. Blind roommates have a natural sensitivity to sound. This strong complementarity has made Tempo and his roommates sympathetic to each other.
4. Different, but not less.
A hundred flowers bloom
As a teacher, I often see students who have difficulty learning, or students who are not good at learning. They have low self-esteem at times, and a single failure is enough to dim their eyes and want to hide. They are sometimes arrogant, as if they don't care about their grades. As a teacher, I think I need to use the phrase Different, but not less to guide myself all the time, and see the difference in students. They are different, but not bad at all. As a member of society, I hope that when I face different groups or individuals, I can think: You are different, but not less. Maybe one look, one action, or one word of mine is enough to warm a person.
5. A door
The same door, you feel it is closed to you, or can be opened.
The teacher's words made Tianbao open a door every time, then walked in, gave it a try, and found the answer he wanted. A door is hope for Tianbao.
I am moved every time Tempo opens the door. Tianbao is the girl who has no distractions, hope and love in her heart. When she saw the door, she only felt that it was the door of hope. She was focused, never flinched, and wanted to try it every time. Such a girl can say the heart-warming sentence "Nature is cruel, but we are not".
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