When God closes one door for you, he also opens another door for you~~~

Mina 2022-04-20 09:02:14

Some fragments of myself and some classmates kept popping up in my mind. . .

The first one, I really want to say her name Jin Doudou~~~

She played the violin, it was the ninth grade when she was in the third year of junior high school, she walked a little like a little penguin, she had short hair and braces, her face swelled when she smiled People with red skin and white skin seem to be like this~~~ The

teacher will ask a few students to read the text aloud in the class, take turns copying the questions on the blackboard, and gather together to arrange some content to participate in various competitions. She has won a lot of awards~~ ~~~~

Then she disappeared and I heard that she was sick~~~ One day she and her mother came to school. I met her at the school gate and shouted behind her: Jin Doudou, she happily introduced me to her mother, I said hello Speed ​​up. . .

Later, I saw that she was skipping class from high school and her classmates to watch "Heroes". She and her mother sat in front of me with Jin Doudou. I was surprised and stopped her. She had already heard something about her and asked me where she went to school. It's a little surprising that she has excellent grades and was rated as a provincial top three student, but she went to such a school. . .

I can hardly remember any more memories of her class reunion. Anyone who knows her can't help but inquire about her. Everyone just stumbles and doesn't know the truth. Maybe it's inconvenient to say that gradually she disappeared from our conversation. . .

The year before last, I met a classmate alone and chatted, and I remembered her right, Jin Doudou. How is she?~~~~~~

Don't you know. . . She committed suicide. . . A long time ago. . .


My feeling was if I could stop when she actively introduced me to her mom a long time ago. . . When I heard her say where to go to school a long time ago, should I answer? . . Actually I don't know what to do. . .

Jin Doudou is the best and most memorable name I have ever heard in middle school~~~~~~

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The second thing that comes to mind is a college classmate who said her The style is also a bit like the

grandin only communication with her in my memory is that she met me in the library when she finished the withdrawal procedure. It was clear that my condition was not much better than hers. It was very bad to enter this university. It was originally the school that was about to give up on me. I was persuaded by my family from the repeating class. I even thought about dropping out, but

I couldn't do it . I told her everything, I just remember that I didn't want to tell her a little and she walked away silently. . .

M was my best friend in college. Before talking about her in the same dormitory with her, M regrettably raised her voice: I hate her, I just can't think of anything and I can't talk to her!

A few days ago, I was wandering around a bustling street in this city, and a familiar figure passed by. . . It was her 7 years later that her dress has not shortened at all and her braided shoulder bag has a sonorous and powerful pace. . . I didn't say hello to her, and she, who had barely seen any change in her appearance, made me judge in my heart: she wasn't better, maybe it was worse. . .
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Society needs different opinions because the more complex the situation, the more we want to avoid Everyone becomes the same brain, the same kind of person. ----Liang Wendao

's current society is not a quiet society. It is even more difficult for us to get quiet when we live in it. question. ---- Zhu Deyong

Some people say that Grandin's story can not be counted as autism but Asperger's syndrome AS

Up to now, there is no accurate understanding of autism, but autism has been mentioned a lot,

but autism. Autism is a mental illness and autism is a completely different concept.

I admire Grandin's focus. And obsessive Asperger's syndrome makes her seem weird and can't communicate with people normally, but she has an extremely sharp and intelligent scientific talent. When God closes a door for you, he also opens it for you. Another door~~~

Grandin kept encountering the door that scared her, but she knew that there must be other doors and other exits. With a door, you can enter a world. . . . . .

Is it true that all geniuses are like this~~~~~~

When we encounter the door that we fear and can't find the door to a world, are we more entangled in confusion, helplessness, despair, and struggle to achieve Grandin? Going forward like that, the

disease defines the difference between her and "normal people" is only different but not less ~~~~~~

And it is said in psychology that most people are willing to communicate with "normal people"~~~~~

Yes When I say that this society lacks love and tolerance, is it because we are all in the majority?

In fact, cannot be opened. It is also unkind to ask everyone to maintain an indifferent heart in such a fast-paced modern life. ~~~

Grandin has her mother and aunt's love, which is her greatest blessing and luck. There are many kinds of love, but most of them cannot escape the shadow of self-integration, but selfless and rational love is difficult to achieve, precious and touching. . .

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In fact, I really want to say that I can write this down, and I feel a little tired . I don't know where to start

A good movie will take you to feel it while watching it, arouse your empathy, get an answer you were looking for, and lead you to understand the vast unknown~~~


I still hope that it is good to have my own ideas and opinions, but it is not necessary to solve the problem. If you go to extremes, you will be farther and farther away from "normal" and you will fall into a vicious circle. . . Can you be so categorical that this is the best way? If it is because of helplessness, can you be braver? . .

It's easy to wrap yourself around as you talk, and you can't tell the word "normal" anymore.

God takes one thing from you and he will give you something else~~~~~~
God closed a door for you At the same time, it also opened another door for you~~~~~~ I

wrote this to tell myself~~~~~~~~~~~~

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  • Jensen 2022-03-18 09:01:06

    As a stupid child who was isolated, excluded, and mocked by the crowd during his childhood due to introverted autism, I just want to say that autism can only be filmed in a movie to be so inspirational, like a "genius" A halo behind. Audiences who pay tribute to Tianbao or even worship may wish to introspect. What do you admire and admire is her social and secular success, or you really admire her for being given "another perspective on the world" given by God.

  • Alisa 2022-03-21 09:02:56

    Inspirational, good actress

Temple Grandin quotes

  • Temple Grandin: [voiceover] I've always wanted to understand the gentleness that other people feel by being hugged by their mothers. And now I've made a machine that lets me do that. It feels like a wire gets reconnected. Like something gets repaired.

  • Professor Shanklin: Mooing? You want to do research and write your master's on mooing?

    Temple Grandin: Curves. Cattle like curves. They don't moo at curves.