Mom seemed impatient, she wanted to take him to buy a disc, but after waiting for 15 minutes, she rushed in and yelled that he was too slow. A little moody. Sending my son to school and leaving him halfway through is also quite a trick. However, Hubert's attitude towards his mother is not good either. Sometimes he speaks too fiercely, it's just a roar, and his words are too hurtful. (However, the funny thing is, his mother also growled at him)
He gradually disliked his mother's aesthetics and some of his mother's habits. I think this is normal. Children grow up and have their own independent personality. I have my own living habits and way of doing things. I just need to satisfy myself and cooperate with my parents. It is too difficult to take care of both sides. Especially if I live with my parents, I basically have to endure some things. Unlike Chinese children, foreign children advocate freedom and independence.
In fact, I also agree with what he said. If you can move out, everything will be much better, but the problem is what to do with the rent? This fee is not small, and he is still underage. This is also my current problem, no money to move out.
When a child grows up, he should be allowed to go his own way and let him choose his own future. As they grow up, parents should change their attitudes and ways of controlling them, and parents also need to grow. Don't think that being a parent is always right, as long as you name it "for the children's good" and "we love them", you can do anything and make any decision for them, and still feel that everything is right and just. This is selfish, pathetic, and childish.
But how many parents can realize this, and how many parents will change themselves? Especially Chinese parents. Most of the voices we hear are that children are not good, children do not understand things, children are in adolescence, they are too rebellious. But are all those parents right? What did they do? No need to think about it.
I've been balabala a lot here, not trying to preach or feel like I can criticize all parents, I'm just expressing my opinions and feelings and my own personal experience. I understand how Yubel feels, it's just that I don't explode like he does. That's one of the reasons why I like this movie, and it resonates with me.
At the end, the son and mother sat together, looking out at the calm sea, and they seemed to be reconciled again. But, we don't know what happened later, the movie stopped at that scene. Maybe they all changed, after all blood is thicker than water. But there are still more or less conflicts between parents and children that have not been resolved. Who among them can make concessions, and who should make concessions?
ps
I don't think homosexuality is the most important issue in this movie, it just shows up as one of the conflicts between kids and parents. It's not gay kids who are rebellious. By puberty, kids are a bit rebellious.
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