It's so true that everyone may have hated their parents, and of course they hated us too. But I think reproduction itself is a very anti-human thing, it is not only connected, but also independent, and it is a relationship that cannot be broken away except death. I was skeptical about my ability to raise children well, and maybe I wasn't fit to be a parent either. I don't want to tie myself to someone else's life, it's horrible. The mother in the movie should be like many mothers, controlling and self-righteous. There are a few details that resonate fiercely with me. One is that he clearly asked to send the child, but he waited impatiently, and he urged the child in public, and did not treat the child as a person at all. Another is the change of day and night, giving you hope and making you despair. There is also a mantra: you go to investigate other people's parents, or you look at other children. In fact, she didn't even investigate. And this is obviously what she should do, but it makes the child feel so guilty, it is better not to help. However, there is a tear in the movie: the child said that if I die today, the mother silently said, I will die tomorrow. I also resonated, I know that my mother loves me, and I love my mother very much, but sometimes I can't help but hate her. Of course, a bad relationship can't be the fault of one party. A good relationship should be based on mutual integration and common progress. A mother is also a mother for the first time, and so is the child.
If you really can't get along, you can only endure and escape. Maybe when you grow up, you will be more mature and responsible, you will learn to forbear, how to let the other party accept your own ideas, learn to be independent, and learn to think in a different position. As if only the passage of time and the isolation of space can heal everything.
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