Older Children's Path to Reconciliation

Nedra 2022-04-20 09:02:11

It took many years to understand: Beginning to reconcile is one of the signs of maturity. with myself, my parents, and the whole world. Although it sounds like Ojisan is blowing a smoke ring and faintly said that it was not until his age that he understood the helplessness of not arguing with women, after all, the years are baptized, human feelings are harmonious, open-minded and relaxed, no matter how you look at it, it is not rocker. But gradually you will come to understand that not all sharp points are worthy of praise if they are not smoothed out. Thinking about the people around you, it’s scary to think about the people around you. They may be big children living in their own world when they get old, they don’t know how to reconcile with themselves, they don’t listen to advice, they get hurt again and again and they hurt others unintentionally. think it's someone else's fault. Just like the daughter played by Jane Fonda, when watching the film, I wondered, why are you still so sick at your age? Is it worth jumping into the pond no matter how stubborn and indifferent your father is? (Maybe it's because of his good body shape now) But think about it even in Midi in 1982, the protagonist who can go fishing for trout on vacation at the Golden Pond Villa must be a middle class no doubt, and his troubles are mostly more advanced At the spiritual level, at least you should know the book and reason, and let go of the old fish that you have finally caught. How many old men in China can do this? What's more, the family shadow is hard to say. Parents never know how much harm their children will suffer, and it is difficult for children to empathize with their parents' difficulties. The daughters of older children always feel that they have not been recognized by their fathers since they were young, and that they cannot feel their father's love. Ah, how like the countless wandering young people in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen who do not love their mothers and do not care about their mothers. In the movie, my mother said that my father's strange character was also caused by the shadow of his childhood, "when he was young, his father was strong, and his mother was indifferent." I don't know how much it caused Resonate with people. But in any case, sooner or later, you will be relieved, maybe like the daughter in the movie being slapped by her mother, maybe you will see clearly that you don’t want to repeat the tragic mistakes, you will eventually reconcile with everything that makes you tangled, replace disputes with peace, Replace resentment with wisdom and say goodbye to your old self.

Just like at the end of the film, the daughter succeeded in diving, the father applauded for her daughter, and the daughter's eyes showed a long-lost excitement, what she wanted must be so simple. Maybe your parents will be happy all day if you praise them for their delicious food.

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On Golden Pond quotes

  • Billy Ray: A canoe! Just like the Indians used.

    Norman: Actually, the Indians used a different grade of aluminum.

  • Bill Ray: You're having a good time, aren't you?

    Norman: Huh?

    Bill Ray: Chelsea told me all about how you like to have a good old time with people's heads. She does too, sometimes. Sometimes I can get into it and sometimes not. I think you should know, I'm pretty good at recognizing crap when I hear it. You know, it's not imperative that you and I become friends. I thought it would be nice. I'm sure you're a very fascinating person, and I thought it would be fascinating getting to know you. That's obviously not an easy task... No. You just go ahead and be... as poopy as you want, to quote Chelsea, and I'll be as receptive and as pleasant as I can be. But I want you to bear one thing in mind while you're jerking me around, making me feel like an asshole. I know precisely what you're up to. I'll take just so much of it. Ok?... Now what is the bottom line on this illicit sex question?

    Norman: Very good. That was a good speech. Bottom line, huh? You're a bottom line man? All right, here's the bottom line... Okay.

    Bill Ray: Hm?

    Norman: You seem like a nice man. A bit verbose, but nice...

    Bill Ray: Thank you.

    Norman: ...and you're right about me. I am fascinating.

    Bill Ray: I'm sure you are.

    Norman: Let's get back to talking about sex... anything you want to know, just ask me.

    Bill Ray: No, I just... uh, I just wanted to clear up that little question. Chelsea and I can sleep together, right?

    Norman: Sure, please do.

    [pauses, resumes reading]

    Norman: Just don't let Ethel catch you.