Alice was eavesdropping on Ben's mini tape recorder. The recording is obviously a message from Ben's wife to Ben.
Ben is back.
Alex was at a loss.
Ben looked at her coldly and said.
"I can't believe it..."
"You love to listen, go ahead. Really."
He turned on the tape recorder and let Alice listen.
"But you can't control it this time. I'm going to say goodbye to you." (Ben's wife's voice on the tape recorder)
Ben said, "I haven't
listened to it for three years." I guess Alice thought to herself that they should be. Divorced, poor Ben.
The next day, Ben told Alice the truth:
"She became my patient three years ago, but I was unable to recover."
This is the plot in the movie "The Mountain Between Us" . I searched the Internet for the Chinese translation of "the Mountain Between Us" and found several versions, but I felt that the translation lost the meaning of the original title. If it were me, I would translate it into "There is a Mountain Between Us".
Ben (Idris Elba, played by Idris Elba) and Alice (Titanic actress Kate Winslet, played by Kate Winslet) in a private small plane crashed into the vast snow-capped mountains. The old pilot had a heart attack before the crash, so he could not fly the plane normally and died in the crash. So two people and a dog were left.
Two people are completely people of two worlds. He was originally a rational doctor with a well-developed right brain. In his opinion, "the heart is just a muscle." In addition, he has a dark skin; Alex is a perceptual, adventurous reporter with a well-developed left brain, a white race.
Originally, she was going to attend an operation, but Alice was going back to attend her wedding. Because the plane scheduled for the two of them was cancelled for some reason, the adventurous Alice took the chance encounter with Ben to take a privately piloted small plane.
After the plane accident, the whole film is basically a movie of two people and a dog. So people who like excitement and sound effects can ignore this movie.
Conservative and rational, driven by the adventurous Alice, he compromised again and again and together with Alice gave up the resting place he found during the journey, and continued to look for a place with humans. In a difficult situation, they care about and take care of each other. Gradually, the iceberg between them slowly melted, creating love. At the end of the film, the two finally let go of all their worries, turned and ran towards each other...
Yes, it's over, what's the future, leave it to the audience to reverie.
Daniel Gorman, the father of emotional intelligence, said in his famous work "Emotional Intelligence":
"Scientists tell us that in human emotions, there are at least three types of independent but interdependent nervous systems working together. In order to understand love. Mystery, neuroscientists have distinguished the nervous system responsible for attachment, care and sex. They are triggered by different kinds of chemical components and hormones, and have completely independent nerve channels. The chemicals they produce make our love more Diversity and more complexity."
"Attachment determines who we turn to when we encounter difficulties. They are the people we miss most when we are alone. Care gives us the desire to take care of the people we care about most. When we are attached, we ask for help. ; When taking care, we give. And sex is sex. If attachment, care, and sexual attraction occur at the same time, we can taste the sweetness of love. But if any one of them is missing, love will lose it. Fragrant.”
According to the above theory, the formation of love is as follows:
The three emotional systems of
Alice and the inherently isolated situation. Only mutual dependence and care can have the hope of life. In the process of surviving, because there is no external interference, they can deeply feel the care of each other and produce it. Sexual attraction. When attachment, care, and sexual attraction appear at the same time, it is natural for them to have love.
For us, what we can learn is that if you want to increase the relationship with your partner, you might as well create opportunities for both of you to be alone.
For example, live together in a small village for a week. In this week, try to minimize contact with the outside world, take care of each other wholeheartedly, and count the stars together to remember the good old days.
Love is like a garden, requiring the joint watering and maintenance of both parties. The so-called busyness will make you gradually stay away from this garden and even be tempted by other gardens.
So if you want to take a lesson in love, watch this movie.
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