What is your ideal love like? It's not the same as marriage anyway!

Dewayne 2022-08-21 21:51:00

A small and fresh literary film full of warmth and humor, with a setting like "Your Name".

The movie still needs to be watched in the cinema to have a strong sense of immersion. This is a random selection from the IPTV movie library to watch at home. The feeling of a small screen is a very warm and interesting movie. Then I read a lot of comments, disputes about love and three views, and added the original playlist, which can be reminiscent of the music.

The love we yearn for seems so out of reach, but it is extremely simple and likes each other. Marriage seems to be a lot more complicated. It is best to have the same three views, good family conditions, certain social status, and mutual companionship and communication.

In fact, the female lead is so good, I always feel that it is a female theme in aftertaste. You see the heroine in the film is innocent and cute, just like there is no independent female student, but she has been married for many years, her family is very good, her husband is in good condition, she is a housewife, and she has a maid at home, but she has nothing to do all day. , the maid listens to the male master and can throw away her belongings. What does it mean? She is like a banned canary, without autonomy. She has to be picked on by her husband even for the clothes she wears to socialize. The last clothes she wore at the first dinner was not the one in the mirror. When the unexpected situation comes to mind, it spoils the social atmosphere. If you have been denied, demanded, forced to adjust, or suspected, your human state is very repressed and restrained, and you will obviously have mental problems. Indeed, the heroine said that she was afraid of her father, and ran away from home because of her mother's death, and then had a mental breakdown, and then was accompanied by someone to slowly recover, and then entered a happy marriage recognized by the public, but she has always been skeptical, uncertain, whether it is It's okay to be firm in her heart, so in the "communication" that she suddenly started with the male lead, she recognized and accepted herself and determined that she was normal. Start to re-understand yourself, through the male protagonist's perceptual feedback, recall the past to unravel the knot, and gradually develop empathy, and then love, is it love? However, the past "accident" connections between the male and female protagonists can be a few more, and then to adulthood, and then to the sudden establishment of communication later. It can be said that this peculiar communication "healed" her. In fact, in the snow, she had already made up her mind to stick to her marriage for her husband (thankful), she had already tasted love, and she had to start taking her own responsibilities. The complete psychological recovery process is short of rehabilitation period. . .

There was a little bit of blood in the back, but there were signs.

The heroine's husband has a scene where the heroine is thinking late at night. The camera starts from her hand touching her husband's back and then upwards. His head rests on the heroine's body, indicating that the heroine was relying on him in the beginning. Yes, but now it's the other way around. It's his husband who can't be separated from the heroine, or he has become a man of control after taking care of him for a long time, and he satisfies himself by controlling the weak.

At the beginning, I really didn't think that the second male was the husband. It is reasonable to say that both of them are single in the romance movie. I was still thinking about which relative took care of her and lived so close to her and made her handle things carefully, brother/uncle/father? Then I saw the wedding ring, fuck it. . . And he actually sent his wife to a mental hospital for treatment. It's too scary, isn't it? It's not normal for a normal person to take too much medicine. . .

Where this story takes place, two small places, small circles. This guy knows people who work in a bar and a car wash. The people I contact are old friends and classmates, and they are often bullied. You see, they are all low-level people. They have even entered the game. It is obvious that Ming people are in the wrong circle. The people these sisters know are from the upper class in her husband's circle. She is very active in wanting to integrate, but because of some of her characteristics, she is regarded as someone who "needs care", or is shaped by her husband as someone who "needs care". The "patient" who was in need was finally reported by people in the circle of gossip.

This is the feeling of two weak people licking each other's wounds, didn't they realize that their memories were not good, sad, lost, scared. . . But by sharing with each other, both of them stood up tremblingly. Of course, in this film, it is obvious that the man is more emotionally invested, and finally he took the initiative to come to her, the embarrassed act of saving the beauty, a good relationship can change both sides, love is courage, courage, first become more in his own eyes Well, mutual again.

The plot behind can also be guessed. If you are really together in the toss of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, there will be quarrels and differences, more likely to have all kinds of poverty, or it will gradually improve. Isn't love like this in the end? It's just that when you are in love with each other, you will have more strength to withstand the pressure of the cruel society, or you will get down faster. Every kind of love is your choice at the moment. Is the love you want true love? What can be done? Who can predict the future, only you know your choices.

You said that there are problems with the three views of the movie. Yes, you kept your marriage, but you lost yourself. Making mistakes in marriage is making mistakes. When you made a choice before marriage, you thought you could endure it, but it was not. The problem that you can't solve marriage is not the original problem of marriage. Everything is to face people's true heart, and in the end, you must be true to your own desires. The heartbeat is really just a moment, and do you know yourself enough?

We are so resistant to extramarital affairs, just because we are afraid that we will be the ones who will be abandoned in marriage, and we are the ones who rely on others.

In addition, the feeling can be interpreted with psychology, and friends who study psychology can take a look.

Simple is the movie, not simple human nature~

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    Dylan Kershaw: This is going to be so weird.

    Dylan KershawRebecca Porter: [gradually but urgently they kiss]

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