Necessities to get love

Dahlia 2022-04-20 09:02:10

Adam is not just a person, he represents the original human being: no camouflage, no hypocrisy, no contrivance, no need to guess what other people mean because everyone is equally honest. What if this honesty met love?
The heroine is a typical modern person, loves clubbing, loves parties, and inevitably falls in love with Adam, as well as the sincerity and frankness he represents. But love needs lies, so she left Adam without any suspense. She chose to compromise with the deceit and lies of this society. For other people, I think I would make the same decision as this heroine, because love is not just a matter of two people, and it is not just as simple as we can be together when we love each other.
It's not that we make love so complicated on purpose, it's just that it's helpless. People always have to grow up, always have to learn to measure and choose, and always have to become more or less sophisticated.
At the end of the film, Adam has made a lot of progress and can understand the potential meaning of others. He must have experienced growth and transformation, perhaps painful, but this is a necessity for obtaining love.

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  • Alexzander 2022-03-28 09:01:07

    Everyone has a child with Asperger's syndrome in their hearts. It is a pass to meet each other's eyes PS. The heroine is very similar to Ellen Page+Eva Green PSS. A rare fresh but not greasy OST

  • Santino 2022-03-25 09:01:15

    Asperger's Syndrome was the first time I came across the name of this disorder when I was taking Social Work as a minor in my undergraduate program. Since then, I have been dealing with autism and Asperger's in my major, so this is a very familiar name. But looking at Adam, I can see his daily life more, and the reactions of people around him... It reminds me from time to time that people close to me sometimes have these "clumsiness" "symptoms", reminding me whether I should Give them some understanding and patience at these times. The former New Yorker felt that Adam was lucky to be born, raised, worked and loved in New York, because it is a place where everyone can survive and be tolerated. If you usually find that someone around you (including children and adults) has similar symptoms, you should tell yourself that they have worked hard and can't blame them. You should understand this good intentions more and cherish the people around you. The ending I digested for a long time, a little unacceptable, but this is really a good ending, at least no matter what happens after that, the decision of that step is a good decision for them.

Adam quotes

  • Rebecca Buchwald: Feeling loved is very important, but loving, my precious girl, that's the necessity.

  • Beth Buchwald: There's a saying in my family: "It's never too early to drink the champagne."