I agreed, but I didn't know how to write for several days. What should I write about? For me, a non-professional, analyzing characters, plot twists, etc., is obviously a show of pretense. After thinking about it for a long time, I simply describe what I saw in this movie from a gay perspective. Perhaps, this helps her, as a straight daughter, to better understand what it means to be normal.
When AIDS was prevalent in the gay community, but it was not properly recognized by people, female doctor Emma called on gays to stop having sex and avoid infection. Her advice was considered absurd and unacceptable by her comrades, just as she could not understand her willingness to risk her life. In fact, sanity always faces a formidable adversary, and I think Emma finally felt that adversary in the moment she danced with Ned - lust.
From time to time in the movie - the festering body of the AIDS patient, the thin cheeks, the dying blur - these images often make people shudder, and reason loudly wakes up in the mind: Be clean, promiscuity is the devil! But the next second, when Felix's handsome and three-dimensional face appeared on the screen, especially the two hand-to-hand fights between him and Ned, people's blood was bursting, I admit that reason was long ago abandoned, lust swelled, and the lower body was excited.
An orgasm brings unspeakable pleasure, and at that moment, you think that's what life is all about.
Some elders often teach young people not to ponder the affairs of the bed brother all day long, but to cultivate other hobbies. Sexual interest and interest are obviously two different things, and you can have both, so it's just self-comfort after bodily functions degenerate. Who doesn't want to ride the battlefield heartily and vividly when they are young.
So, with regard to lust, human beings have given it too much imprisonment.
A friend once asked me, sex is only one of the basic needs of human beings, why we can eat in front of others, but have to hide when we have sex; we can keep changing new clothes and shoes, but the laws of most countries stipulate that one husband Monogamy. In the end, he asked himself and answered, and he said that only the Bible could explain it, because humans ate the forbidden fruit.
In "Merry Christmas Lawrence", the British soldier was buried alive for a loving kiss. Do you think this is pure love? I think it's purely an act of primal lust.
Some time ago, I went to a country where homosexuality is still a crime. As a result, when I was urinating in the toilet of the train station, I met a local uncle who was openly masturbating by the urinal, and unscrupulously hooked up with men of all skin colors. Therefore, lust is human nature. The more suppressed it is, the more eager it is, and the more forbidden it is, the more precious it is.
Since we can't stop this thought, we should promote correct knowledge, teach everyone to protect themselves, and leave the choice to individuals.
The Beijing gay public welfare organization recently launched a publicity campaign with the theme of "Gay Bath", introducing the situation, selling points and matters needing attention of gay baths in various countries and regions. In a small place in Hong Kong alone, there are dozens of gay baths with different styles. It is said that the facilities are complete and the environment is clean and tidy. Even the lubricating oil in the small black room has been evolved and obtained through induction, so as to achieve zero contact and no pollution. In fact, walking on the streets of Hong Kong, if you look up, you will see a phoenix on the first floor of the massage sauna, and if you look down, you will see a stall selling "Xianshu". The porn industry is very developed, but at the same time, Hong Kong is a society with a high degree of rule of law. Therefore, "dirty" lust is not in conflict with modern civilization, let alone the strength and weakness of lust to judge the low and high morality, otherwise people with cold sex are simply saints.
The sages of existentialism have already proved this through theory and practice.
Lust is boundless imagination and creativity, but in short, it is like eating. Some people are not picky eaters and are willing to try a variety of ingredients. I chatted with a donkey friend in Thailand before. He said that many straight men go to Thailand to buy sex with ladyboys. I was very puzzled. He simply explained: feel the difference. Some people have a relatively fixed taste, but they also like to change the pattern. A fish can be steamed or boiled. It is only a fish. Some people prefer the head of the fish, and some people choose the tail of the fish.
Therefore, don't judge and interfere with other people's choices based on your own taste. Even if other people's tricks and methods subvert your worldview, as long as it doesn't cause harm, others feel happy and healthy. And what matters to you is when will your next orgasm come?
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