sad little emotion

Sigurd 2022-04-22 07:01:43

Shahi is a must do Radu ball. The husband said that he didn't want her to cook it for others, and wanted to monopolize it. But Shaxi doesn't think this is domineering love, but her husband loves her just because he is good at cooking. Shaxi speaks upright, straight to the point, say anything, if she thinks her husband is not doing well, she will say it directly. She will not take into account her husband's face, it may hurt her heart, and the distance between husband and wife is getting farther and farther. . But what Shahi said was the truth.
The distance with her husband is getting farther and farther, and the relationship with her daughter is like an iceberg. The daughter is in a period of rebelliousness, and she scoffs at her mother's poor English. That contempt is not out of hatred for the incompetent, but an unbridled ridicule based on the most intimate relationship. When we were young, we were always arrogant, fearless, didn't take our parents seriously, and talked back to them willfully. In fact, it was because we subconsciously tacitly assumed that our parents would never abandon us. But as time goes by, the older we get, the lonelier we become. We are getting farther and farther from our parents. It's not that our family is indifferent, but that we have grown up and have our own responsibilities to shoulder, and our parents are no longer our support. When we have to rely on ourselves, we will miss those carefree times. When my daughter yelled at her mother, I thought she was rude, but there was still a fear inside, "Yeah, that's me!"
I've been waiting for when Shahi will start learning English, looking forward to with her transformation. But the director seems to be deliberately going against me, and it's too late. But when emotions accumulate to a certain level, it happens naturally. It's a matter of course. It's hard to forget that when Shaxi was ordering in a fast food restaurant, because of the grumpy waiter, Shaxi was insulted all the time. Her aggrieved expression was very much like herself when she was confused! So immersive!
Crying and laughing all the way, switching between crying and laughing in seconds.
But what is it that touches you the most? Maybe figured out a reason. When we have a lack of ability, some people will keep nagging us and poke our wounds; some people will take care of us carefully and let us not pay attention to this defect. The former is just like the daughter's complaint to her mother, the waiter's harsh rebuke to Shahi, and the husband's contempt for his wife, all of which have contributed to the transformation of the heroine, and the bleeding wound has become the hardest armor; but if they take good care of the heroine, they will not. Let her be hurt, she will be very happy, but the wound will always be there. Both of these choices have laughter and tears, and both are the inspirations of life for us, and we should all be grateful. If I had to choose, I would choose the former, and fight while I was young.
Small touch: the caring uncle on the plane, the black little brother who smiled and greeted him in the subway, and the second male who saw the heroine and asked her to jump in the queue for the first time.

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English Vinglish quotes

  • Yu Son: You hear? Sir David and boyfriend break up! Sir David very sad.

    Eva: I know.

    Salman Khan: Nothing sad about gay. People breaking up... drop one and pick another!

    Shashi Godbole: Salman... don't say that. No making fun... We are all different from each other. For you... David Sir may not be 'normal'... For David Sir... you may not be 'normal'... but feelings are all the same... and pain is pain...

  • Shashi Godbole: When you don't like yourself... you tend to dislike everything connected to you. New things seem to be more attractive. When you learn to love yourself... then the same old life... starts looking new... starts looking nice. Thank you... for teaching me... how to love myself! Thank you for making me... feel good about myself. Thank you so much!