Respect for women cannot rely on women's self-awareness

Scot 2022-04-19 09:02:36

Learning English well can surprise the husband and children for a while, but it is impossible to change the whole life.

The female protagonist did realize the sublimation of her self-perception, but in the end she returned to the patriarchal society of India and continued to be a housewife, serving tea, food, laundry and mopping the floor. She was out of touch with the society and was still an accessory in the eyes of her husband who could speak English.

Real respect for women cannot rely solely on the awakening of women's self, but requires the progress of the whole society and takes time.

Although the daughter in the film grew up in a good environment and has a good school education, she has witnessed her father's bossiness towards her mother since she was a child, and she is also quite disrespectful to her mother. Of course, perhaps her mother's change in the United States will become a landmark educational event in her growing up. I also hope that the power of the heroine role model can be brought back to India and spread among relatives and friends.

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English Vinglish quotes

  • Shashi Godbole: This marriage is a beautiful thing. It is the most special friendship. Friendship of two people who are equal. Life is a long journey. Meera, sometimes you will feel you are less. Kevin, sometimes you will also feel you are less than Meera. Try to help each other to feel equal. It will be nice. Sometimes... Married couple don't even know how the other is feeling. So... how they will help the other? It means marriage is finished? No. That is the time you have to help yourself. Nobody can help you better than you. If you do that... you will return back feeling equal. Your friendship will return back... Your life will be beautiful.

    Shashi Godbole: Meera... Kevin... Maybe you'll very busy... but have family... son... daughter. In this big world... your small little world, it will make you feel so good. Family... family can never be... never be... never be judgemental! Family will never... put you down... will never make you feel small. Family is the only one who will never laugh at your weaknesses. Family is the only place where you will always get love and respect. That's all Meera and Kevin... I wish you all the best. Thank you.

  • Laurent: Your food...

    [good]

    Laurent: .

    Shashi Godbole: No no no. You cooking hotel expert. I'm... in house cooking, very small.

    Laurent: No. Not small, not small. Food is... eh... food is art.

    Shashi Godbole: [In Hindi] When a man cooks, it's art... When a woman cooks, it's her duty.

    Laurent: What did you say?

    Shashi Godbole: I'm sorry. Man cooking... art. Lady cooking... daily job, duty!

    Laurent: No. No no. Food is... love. You cooking with love, good food. You make people happy. You artiste! Not small not small.