Do you say freedom is too light or love is too heavy

Iliana 2022-04-21 09:02:55

Men eat sex, women are not.
When Thomas's deep eyes are watching you, you will know that this handsome man is frivolous and lustful, but he still voluntarily takes off his clothes, even a little impatient. Smart urban women can take this as a bedside love, and each gets what they need. The first time Teresa saw Thomas, I knew she was done. Her love is pure and direct, she doesn't know that this man will bring her so much pain, she only knows that this man will be everything in her life. She knocked on his door at night alone, thousands of miles away, maybe she knew what was going to happen or maybe it wasn't so fast in her cognition. Just like a elf, always with the pure enthusiasm of a girl, her first time with him is really cute.
I'm thinking, maybe Teresa is fantasizing about being able to fall in love with such a handsome and attractive man, from holding hands to hugging and finally going to bed with such a normal person, rather than having sex with him the second time she sees him Then live together. Thomas was different to her, for the first time he tolerated waking up in the morning with a woman who seemed like the lightness of duty that had burst into his life.
It's just why Sabina, who is close to his soul, can only play the role of a bed partner. Because Sabina and Teresa are completely different. Teresa's body, mind, body, and life are always his own. The independent and charming artist Sabina is avant-garde. She understands what he does and indulges his freedom. He and she are of the same kind. There will be other men, and her life is full of all kinds of men and he is just one of them. This may be similar to the sentence "You can still be strong without me, she can't, she has only me." So the only potential sense of responsibility left in a man fills the brain that is originally a sperm, Thomas and Teresa are married , In fact, I have never understood why men and women should marry. As for Thomas's idea of ​​marrying, any man would be jealous when he saw his woman dancing with another man, but he wouldn't be jealous if he saw Sabina dancing with another man, subconsciously. It is still special to Teresa, the reason may be that he thinks that Teresa really loves him, and Sabina is just a momentary love for herself. Like someone said, marriage is when you finally find a woman who just wants to sleep with her.
The nature of men and women leads to different attitudes towards love. Men advocate freedom, and they want red roses in the left hand and white roses in the right hand. What women want is the loyalty of men and the sense of belonging that will never be separated from time to time. In fact, I want to say that it is women who This kind of thinking will cause them to feel more pain from love than men. Thomas and Teresa did not go through the process of ordinary people's love and marriage. Their cohabitation stemmed from the random seduction of a hunter and the desperate rush of a prey. This handsome man with a thin profile face and blue almost transparent pupils has always been someone who can't love. In fact, all men are like this, right? They like novelty to seek excitement, to be romantic and unrestrained, and to avoid any long-term responsible relationship. The women they choose are generally the same type as them. Then I was caught off guard and met a woman who had never been in contact with her. She had clear and beautiful eyes like a deer. When she looked at you, her heart softened into a puddle of water. She did not have skilled bed skills, but she tried her best to please you. You have also finally started to learn that after making love, you no longer pull away chicly, but kiss her cheek with nostalgia, slowly get used to her curled up in your arms when you sleep, and gently hold her in your arms when she has nightmares He whispered comfortingly in her ear.
You think this is true love, and at some point you have the idea of ​​marrying this woman and spending the rest of your life, what you think you can do about the identity and responsibilities of a husband.
I don't know if freedom is too light or love is too heavy.
I even think it's normal for Thomas to be having sex with all kinds of women after marriage. A swinging man is not so quick and easy to stay for a person. They need the teaching of many women and the tempering of life, and gradually grow into a man who truly understands what love and responsibility are, but no one knows that. When will it be, I don't know which woman by my side will win by that time.
When love goes on, it is usually a big gamble. A woman who is desperate is betting all her affection and youth, only for the man who does not know when he will mature and stay.
This is the age of going to bed with no results. Men can separate love and sex, women tend to blur. A man will become a master when he walks too many flowers. When he sees a beautiful woman and a woman with a bulging front and back, he only uses his lower body to think. Women are different. A woman goes to bed with a man on the basis that she likes this man, so she devotes herself to it. And people tend to confuse slutty women with free women.
I can feel Teresa's sensitivity and fragility, waking up crying in the middle of the night, but in fact, I have always preferred Sabina, a free artist, who stood in front of the mirror wearing her men's top hat and looked at herself like a work of art Her carcass is not only a fatal temptation for Thomas to any man, but she is a wild rose, once raised in a greenhouse—it will wither if she stays by a fixed man.
At the end of the film, the staggered time is used, first giving everyone a death ending, and then showing them dancing in the pub. Teresa is wearing a floral dress, her face is still as red and fresh as a girl, her foot pads On his feet, he embraced her from behind and took her to ROOM 6, if life was just like the first time.
"Thomas, what are you thinking about now?"
"I'm thinking about how happy I am at the moment."
She finally got what she wanted, and he finally wanted to stay by her side after going around. The road through the misty woods seemed to never end.
"Your life is too light, and my life is too heavy" Some people say that the harmony between light and heavy is because of love. Possibly, love has the power to destroy and heal.

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The Unbearable Lightness of Being quotes

  • Tereza: [referring to her dog] Karenin prefers Mephisto to dogs. She thinks other dogs are silly.

    Tomas: [Mephisto snorts and Tomas inhales the aroma of the food] Ha-ha.

    Pavel: Do you know why I love Mephisto? Because he's very bright, but, at the same time,

    [gesturing for emphasis]

    Pavel: he doesn't know anything! After all, he doesn't know that life is impossible here now. Nothing left here. The church is gone.

    [shrugging]

    Pavel: No place to drink beer now.

    [he drinks his bottle of beer very quickly]

    Pavel: It's good... very good.

    [slurping]

    Pavel: If you ever change your mind, it won't be easy to leave.

  • Tereza: I was forced to love my mother, but not this dog. You know, Tomas... maybe... maybe, I love her more than I love you. Not more. I mean in a better way. I'm not jealous of her. I don't want her to be different. I don't ask her for anything.