Everyone is alone.
Some people's loneliness is natural. Unfortunate to be born as an orphan, or to have parents but indifferent and disregard. Most people belong to the latter. Just as Lu Xun said, a child in China just has to be born, and then let him toss and turn in the dust.
Some people's loneliness is acquired. Lost a loved one, lost a partner, lost a child...
It's hard to say which is luckier.
When people are young, they have weak sensibility, strong tolerance, and strong adaptability. Even if they suffer, they can transform their resistance. Just like Alyosha in "Childhood", although life is hard, it is diluted by innocence. It will also change its shape to adapt to life. Even if this imprint will last a lifetime, it will also resist temporary pain.
And when people reach middle and old age, it is no longer possible to change. The imprints of the early years are like old wounds that have accumulated over the years, sometimes aching. The people around you don't understand, and the loneliness becomes more and more lonely. The more lonely it is and the harder it is to open up, the more lonely it is.
Therefore, compared to acquired loneliness, congenital loneliness will be unfortunate!
Who saved the earth in the last life and only cultivated it as a child and still knew how to be hot and cold when his parents were still alive?
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