Who says a tragic past is doomed to imperfection, be loved and you can live a happy life

Austin 2022-12-25 13:11:56

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In the United States, there is an Internet celebrity, and he is Forrest Gump. Forrest Gump is the protagonist of the hit movie Forrest Gump. In this film, Forrest Gump's experience deeply moved the audience.

People will lament the misfortune of Forrest Gump's only 75 IQ and inconvenient legs at first, but then they will applaud Forrest Gump for becoming a football superstar and a Vietnam War hero. At the end of the film, Forrest Gump is happy, but behind this happiness, all that Forrest Gump got stems from his mother's selfless and fearless love for his childhood.

Because of love, Forrest Gump is full of confidence in himself. Forrest Gump heals his life with his mother's love.

Forrest Gump's childhood, from the outside, was unfortunate. Like many children, Forrest Gump lacks a superior family environment, but it does not prevent Forrest Gump from obtaining a more important happiness, which is the love from his mother.

Forrest Gump's happiness comes from her childhood love, and the heroine of the film "Marnie in Memories", Anna, also found her own happiness because of her love, so that the tragic haze of childhood became her let The help of your own happiness.

Childhood love, every child wants, but not every child can get it. As a film that records the growth of children, "Marnie in Memories" is adapted from Robinson's book, "Marnie in Memories". The design of the picture is supervised by Mirin Hongchang of Studio Ghibli. The film's images are warm, touching, and healing. Whether it is adults or children, after watching this movie, they can guess the beginning, but can't guess the ending. It can be said that this movie is very intriguing.

The film tells a story about being remembered because of love, losing love and regaining love again. The protagonist of the story is Anna, who lost her parents when she was young, and her grandmother Marnie, who has passed away but once loved Anna. Marnie in the film does not appear in Anna's memories as an elder, but is the same age as her. In the process of getting along with Marnie, Xing Nai learned to express her emotions, learned to let go of resentment, and learned to love and be loved. Every scene of the film is very exciting and anticipating.

1. If you don't have the courage to speak your heart, you will work hard to bear the bitterness and astringency.

In the movie, Anna is an orphan who has lost both parents. This is not something she can choose, nor is it something her parents can decide. But until the mystery is solved, Anna is living in a world of hatred for the departure of her relatives.

Sometimes, people will deliberately protect themselves in hatred, like a hedgehog, to prevent people around them from getting close to them, even if others are for our own good. Anna's adoptive mother once wanted to tell her about her life, but Anna always avoided it. She loved her adoptive mother deeply and thought she was unwilling to recall, so she chose to replace the past with silence.

Every parent loves their children deeply, even the slightest harm is not allowed, but sometimes they are overwhelmed and easily misunderstood. You think I don't want to know, I think you don't want me to know, things are always misunderstood, and the snowball seems to be getting bigger and bigger.

Anna accidentally found a letter from the city government office to increase the subsidy, thinking that her adoptive mother loved her because of money. The adoptive mother did not dare to tell her about it, for fear that Xing Nai would think that she deliberately loved her because of money. We often don't want the worst to happen, but everything we do is making the bad happen.

The gap between the two generations is a pain point for many families. They want to improve it, but they often feel powerless.

To refuse to know the truth, to let imagination become reality in the heart, in the face of love, is a kind of harm. Whether it was Xing Nai or the adoptive mother, they were all guessing the same thing, but no one had the courage to say it frankly.

The heart is rejecting, but actually accepting the pain will eventually make you suffer. There is no courage to express, change a place, still the same.

Before the start of the Tanabata temple fair, Anina wanted to go to sketch but was stopped by Aunt Oiwa. The aunt asked her to follow Mrs. Corner House, where Anna was promised to participate in the temple fair, and she was very unwilling. Anna's unwillingness was particularly strong in her heavy footsteps, as if being pushed forward stiffly by someone.

Suppressed emotions will eventually usher in a moment of eruption that they cannot control. Nobuko looked at her wishing card without Anna's consent and read it out loud: I think every day is normal. Ordinary is the secret that Anna wants to bury in her heart, and she doesn't want to be known by others. But it backfired.

The emotional bomb exploded, and Anna said that Nobuko was a fat pig. As soon as the words were spoken, the kind-hearted Anna was very remorseful, crying and fleeing, hating herself, and she deserved not to be an ordinary happy person.

Seeking the opinions of others is the least respect for people. Nobuko's inadvertent actions were like the last straw that overwhelmed Anna's emotions, hurting others and hurting herself.

Words spoken are like water poured out. The responsibility that should be taken, and the tears must be faced by oneself. Life doesn't make you shy away from responsibility just because you're poor. Only after taking responsibility can people grow up in pain. In the pain, Anna slowly found her own way of happiness.

2. Take the courage to live the life you want

After the unpleasantness of the temple fair, Anna was blamed and ran to the lake. The sad atmosphere infected everyone who saw this scene.

Annie's every word is self-blame. Every drop of tears was left in the hearts of the audience. For a child, it is distressing and helpless to bear such huge pain, and I wish I could protect this girl myself. However, our moment of surprise happened and Marnie appeared. This is a dream of Anna, but the dream is so real.

Marnie seems to be comforting Anna's pain with love. Every word and every action she makes seems to be helping the girl, Anna, to be happy.

In life, no one can live independently and cannot escape interpersonal communication. The affirmation of others can increase self-satisfaction and make life full of strength because of others. At that time, Annie lacked inner courage, but outer Marnie gave her a lot of motivation. The bitterness that Anna had tasted in reality was all turned into sweetness in her dream with Marnie.

The power that Marnie brings to Anna, makes her face the reality of life more directly. Even in the face of adversity, the right to free choice cannot be relinquished. Marnie lives hard, slipping out whenever she has time to experience the beauty of freedom. Jumping freely like a bird in the wetlands by the lake; rowing a boat, enjoying the peace of your own with the moonlight. Freedom often comes with a price, and Marnie is no exception, but she feels it is worth it.

She was punished by her mother-in-law not to go out; the brush head was deliberately hard; she was ruthlessly brought to the barn by her sister, even though the barn punishment failed because of thunder and lightning, the fear in Marnie's heart never disappeared. The pain buried in the heart is sometimes more difficult to heal than the physical one, but the brave Marnie chose to challenge.

Marnie challenged her fearful barn. Although the process was a little embarrassing, she still gave herself an explanation. In fact, everyone is the same, fear is inevitable in our hearts. In reality, we have to reconcile with fear, and even a small step can add a lot of strength to us.

The dream will wake up one day, and that is the moment to truly face reality.

Anna was in the barn and was very saddened by Marnie's abandonment of herself. Being hurt by someone who loves you is hundreds of times more painful than a stranger. This time, Xing Nai did not choose to heal the wound in secret, she must know why Marnie left without taking her.

Annie broke the silence as always. When she learned that Marnie was about to leave and went elsewhere, and received a very thoughtful apology, Annie chose to forgive without hesitation. This time, Anna has learned to let go for the first time. Annai let go of that dream and her attachment to hate.

3. When you let go of the past, you are writing the future of sunshine

Annie came out of Marnie's fantasy. She wanted to forget but didn't want to. She seized the opportunity to remind herself again. This time, it wasn't to avoid far away, because Marnie, she chose to explore again, and the target was still the villa.

She wants to find out for herself slowly, just like when Marnie and Anna asked each other questions on the boat. They both want to get to know each other slowly, and every understanding is so precious. Slowly, all the mysteries will be revealed.

In the same villa, the same window, but not the same person. Marnie is replaced by Ayaka, but Anna is also interested in her because they share a common secret: Marnie.

When two people have a common topic, it is often easy to become friends who cherish each other. This is fate, Anna made friends, what a beautiful picture. If the adoptive mother sees this moment, it is estimated that the corner of her mouth will also raise that long-lost smile.

Anna has changed, she can have friends too. When you have friends, you won't feel lonely, and you will feel twice as happy. Even without Marnie in her dreams, she can have listeners and sharers of secrets. Cai Xiang discovered Marnie's diary and shared everything that belonged to Marnie. Everything about Marnie is what Anna wants to know.

Lucky people always meet lucky things. Cai Xiang's enthusiasm and sunshine, just like Marnie, infected Anna. Ayaka read about the barn in Marnie's diary, and miraculously rescued the feverish Anna from danger.

Everything is always inextricably linked, as long as you are careful, there will be amazing discoveries. Because of a picture of the villa, Marnie's former friend, Hisako, appears. Anna heard a tragic story from Hisako's mouth. It's not so much a story, it's better to say that I have been avoiding the reality that I want to know, the pain hidden in my heart that I don't want to remember.

Everything Annie saw in the orphanage was condensed into hatred for her relatives leaving. Even though she was adopted by her adoptive mother later, she still did not feel the warmth of love, because she rejected this kind of love in her heart and thought it was not love.

When Anna knew the truth, she chose to admit that it was always love. The hatred at the beginning turned into tears, and I found that I also grew up in love, but I was running away and chose to ignore love.

When people's thinking changes, their attitudes towards everything are also different. When her adoptive mother talked to her about the subsidy, no matter what the reason was, Anna was convinced that love existed first. Even if the adoptive mother received the money on purpose, it didn't matter to herself. Because when you let go of the bad past, everything can become full of sunshine.

Adler once said: "Unfortunate people, all their lives are healing their childhood." Lucky people are healed by childhood throughout their life. Forrest Gump and Anna are the latter. Shinna, who lost both her parents and her grandmother, was considered tragic in her initial fate. When the adoptive mother chose to adopt Anna, it was a very lucky and happy thing for Anna. Things in the past cannot be changed, but we can give meaning to the past. If you want life to be miserable, think about the worst. If you want to live a meaningful life, then use your heart to feel love, follow your heart, and live the life you want. Being loved can make people happy for a lifetime. Use love to create life, no matter when, you can be full of happiness on your face.

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When Marnie Was There quotes

  • Anna Sasaki: I hate myself.

  • Anna Sasaki: She whines like an old goat.