The reason why I decided to write this review is because: the feeling of this film is too real, and I can't calm down. At the same time, I am very happy that such a film exists. Driving to India, a couple wants to change their marital status, they have no children, the seven-year itch, many couples will have problems, they are no exception, I am thinking, whether there is a marriage relationship, it is a seven-year period, After seven years, we can choose to renew or terminate the contract. If it is not a permanent contractual relationship, then we have some expectations for life and marriage. Seven years, we can have a choice, instead of two people who don't love. Walk on. I heard a male friend say that his wife is like a house he bought, and his girlfriend is like a rented house, which divides the ownership of status in the sense of money, and explains divorce from the cumbersome nature of the procedures. complexity.
From the beginning of the film, Nigel is fascinated by Mimi's amorous feelings, especially the contrast between the two images seen in the bathroom and in the bar, Nigel is eager to move. No, it's Mimi, Mimi herself has this allure. Including later, when Oscar was having dinner with them, he said that Mimi used to be fascinated by a big movie, yes, she was a stunner, and when she came back, Mimi teased Nigel with her toes. Oscar told Nigel that you haven't fully discovered the charm of your wife, introduction, the English rose and Mimi went to the cloud and rain together. A woman's emotional sensitivity is as sensitive as a detective, and she realizes that her husband is obsessed with Mimi. Of course, he fought back later. For example: You are seasick and take some seasickness medicine, no, then I will sleep for a long time, you just want me to sleep for a long time, right? Nigel, like Oscar, wanted to know her name, her story, everything she wanted, everything she wanted, and she was fascinated by it. Oscar said bluntly, you are obsessed with my wife, Nigel denied it out of British restraint and rationality, he didn't admit it, yes, he is the kind of person who has to be very clean when making love. The man who can only have sex in bed, Oscar said you listen to me after the story, I will tell you everything. So, the beginning of the story:
Oscar met Mimi on the bus, and was instantly fascinated. Everyone has their own scent. If one day, you come across your favorite scent, you will sink in. , like Oscar to Mimi, like a cat smelling fishy smell, like some irresistible attraction, like the trapped beast in my heart is about to tear out, the first Mimi I saw, wearing white shoes and red skirt , a combination of youthful and stylish face, which is what most French women have. After Oscar missed the bus that day, he has been waiting at the bus stop, searching, looking forward to seeing the person who is thinking about it day and night. This is usually the stage when a man does not get a woman. They will both be moved by you physically and mentally.
Later, Emperor Tian paid off and finally found Mimi. In a restaurant, he caught a glimpse of Mimi. He walked around and said hello, and as Oscar wanted, they hung out together, went out for drinks together, went to the movies together, went home together, and, of course, had sex together. This extreme infatuation, extreme longing, crazy endless sex, because I couldn't bear not seeing Mimi, so she quit my job at home, because I couldn't bear her leaving, so they were conjoined twins, and they ate Wearing sour croissants for three days and three nights, they never left the room, because they were so eager for each other, they wanted to fold into each other's bodies, they wanted to embed each other's skin, and their crazy and perverted love eroded. It's easy as long as Mimi is casually teasing or not teasing, Oscar will feel the incomparable expansion of the lower body, the flow of eroticism all the time, the air is full of the smell of sex, I think, they have probably finished the love of this life, so passionate.
They will play SM, in the SM relationship, Oscar belongs to M, Mimi is S, another kind of pleasure triggered in masochism, satisfied in sadism, feel another self in pain, they develop their own My chapter, every day is the last day, and the problem we cannot avoid and face is the weakness of human nature. Human nature likes the new and hates the old. No matter what you were, what you are now, what the future is, one day, love will Turned into ashes, like those loves that have been done, the peak of love is an undeniable point before being together, and every hour, every minute, every second of every day after that, it is going downhill, because it is impossible to love anymore, At that moment, the lingering in my heart volatilized to the highest peak, just like when we opened champagne, the cap of the wine bottle erupted, and it was poured out perfectly.
He doesn't love her anymore. She hates everything about her. The act of drinking milk, which used to induce his lust the most, has now become rude, with only disgust. Oscar said, can you drink milk seriously? Was it inappropriate before? When the milk slid down the skin, Oscar licked the traces of the milk. Unfortunately, what I saw was the abridged version, not the full version. I could only see the stills and Douyou's movie reviews. A couple can be together, in addition to having sex together, they can also eat together. Sexual appetite and appetite are two inseparable parts. He wants to drive him away, he doesn't want to stay with him, he's tired, a man won't want to leave the whole forest for one tree, but a woman's wish is to find a tree of her own in the whole forest , how contradictory, with the son's grass attacking the son's shield, when Nuwa created man, she should have considered Adam and Eve, they are different individuals, but they can be perfectly combined. Men are always capable of fighting, because they are warriors in the jungle, so they need to dabble. Oscar is the same, he can't get used to everything about Mimi, you don't like you alone, it's all wrong, sitting is wrong, standing is wrong, talking is wrong, not speaking is wrong, sleeping is wrong, not sleeping It's also wrong, that kind of inattentiveness, that kind of disdain on the face, that kind of indifference, which showed little by little on Oscar's face. At first, there was a little guilt and a little pretence, but then there was no more. Not even the basic cover is there.
If someone loves you, you can definitely feel it, and if someone doesn't love you, you can definitely feel it. He asked her to leave her residence. For the first time, she packed her luggage angrily, thinking that Oscar would keep her, but no, a man, asking you to leave his residence must not be a temporary decision or groundless and not Just kidding, he really wants you out, out of his life, he needs to live without you. However, Mimi did not leave completely, but after the quarrel, Mimi lowered her head to talk to Oscar, which was regarded as a smile in the middle of disgust, which eased the emotional conflict. The director handled all of this very well, to the point of being frightening. It was as if he had experienced this kind of rejection by others and yet he was like a treasure. From here, Mimi began to be at a disadvantage.
The reason why roses are roses is not only because of their beauty and delicacy, but also because she has the care of the little prince, but Mimi, the enchanting flower, soon eclipsed her color. From now on, I don't love you anymore, I just wither. Mimi is no longer the glamorous Mimi, she is like a little lamb lost in the forest, love can't slaughter her Oscar's feelings for her. She called him, he rushed out of the bathroom to answer, thinking it was a new female partner calling, after hearing Mimi's voice, he was disappointed, his enthusiasm all disappeared at once, and a sense of disgust came up, saying You don't want to call me, didn't I tell you? Sometimes when you decide to give up a person, at a certain moment, at a certain point, you wake up, for example, when you are thinking about the other person, he may be having sex with another woman. Every breakup is deliberate. If one day a man says he wants to leave you, you must open the door generously and let him go, because he is just telling him out of friendship and politeness at the moment.
When love doesn't breathe, let her go, but Mimi doesn't let go, she slept in front of his house, curled up like a child waiting for Oscar's happy hour, and told him she'd do anything , For him, as long as she can be with him, even if he fools around with other women, she is willing, as long as she can be by her side, love someone, become very low, low into the dust. Even making love has become boring, and even touching it is only disgusting, as if touching something dirty, the hand retracts in an instant, and the same person changes in just a few months. He abused her severely, not letting her breathe, just so he could be free. Among the many female companions, she made fun of the acne on her face. At that time, Mimi was very depressed and emotionally depressed, which finally manifested on her skin, and her face burst into acne. After she made fun of her, Mimi cried and went into After going to the bathroom, I brushed layer after layer of foundation, trying to cover up her acne, her low self-esteem hunchback made her no longer Mimi, she was like a frightened bird, at a loss, and love could easily destroy a woman like this. Oscar was not satisfied, however. He will also continue to torture her, have sex with other women, and make you face the biggest truth. Then Mimi still didn't choose to leave him, she endured it. Like many women who have been raped by domestic violence, they endure it. They endured everything, at this time, is it really because of love? Or because of dissatisfaction?
However, at this time, Mimi found out that she was pregnant, Oscar didn't feel happy, just asked Mimi, look, look at me, is it suitable to be a father? Am I a qualified father? So he took Mimi to have an abortion. Unfortunately, after the abortion, Mimi became infected and her entire uterus was removed. Women who have had an abortion will undergo qualitative changes from the bottom of their hearts, not to mention that she can no longer have her own children in this life, which is cruel to any woman, because she has lost her right to be a mother, no matter what she will. not being a mother. They are no longer them, but it is rare that Oscar is willing to look back and use rare tenderness to look at this woman whom he despised. Mimi thought that their relationship had improved, and took this as an opportunity to think that they would be able to get back together again. It is impossible to reunite a broken mirror. Can a broken mirror stick together? If the relationship is cracked, there will be traces when it is repaired. So Oscar said to Mimi, let's go on a trip, Mimi's face was pale and bloodless, and everything was arranged by Oscar. Mimi didn't know the destination or what she was about to face, and then Oscar designed a scene In the game, he directed and acted to say that he got off the plane with a stomachache, until Mimi's plane took off, and Oscar hadn't come back. At that time, Mimi realized that Oscar was going to abandon her completely, and the painful Mimi looked out the window, the moon No longer round, like a sickle, someone who wants to be sad, but Oscar, who was at the boarding gate, blew the horn of freedom and felt the long-lost release.
Oscar started his crazy life, singing every night, hanging out until the early morning, bringing his girlfriend back to his residence, and changing after a shot. After all, this matter is as romantic as moving to Paris to start writing, but he has never written anything. Come on, the book has never been published. At that time, Mimi's English was not so good, and he was listening to Oscar tell his own story. He asked Mimi, do you understand? I don't understand, but I know it's a good story. It's a kind of recognition for a loved one, even if your writing is mediocre. Oscar's women have changed one piece after another. It doesn't make much sense. It's like some kind of pastime, a small hobby. Changing women is like smoking. Although you often smoke Marlboro, you will also want to change it. of smoke, objectifying someone is wrong, but there is no conflict metaphorically. And Mimi is not so lucky. To borrow a sentence from Xibao: It is good to have a lot of money without a lot of love. But Mimi is more romantic, she not only has no love but also no money. The destination of the plane is a small island. I started working as a waiter there. Until the hotel manager found out that she could dance, she let her dance. Yes, she used to be so beautiful, like a fresh, juicy and fragrant peach, Chun Chun. It's tempting, I can't imagine what she went through, Oscar abandoned Mimi with a broken heart and Mimi with a broken body to an uninhabited island, and only disliked it. Do you believe that the Oscar that even the drivers around here know is the same person? I have seen such a man. A person's character is always reflected after a breakup.
Time came to a standstill. Oscar was hit by a car on the street. He was in a state of being half sober and half hungover until dawn. Later, he went to the hospital. As Oscar said, none of his trophies came. . Maybe disappointed. I think this is because no one takes anyone seriously. Anyway, they all cheer each other on the scene, but it is also possible that Booty A is worried about encountering Booty B, or C or D. After all, they have fucked the same man, are they in the ward? Exchange of interoperability experiences? It's embarrassing isn't it.
Familiar faces appeared, men are always visual animals, no matter how old they are, there is no need to doubt it, it is Mimi, that charming Mimi appears, just like the Mimi that attracted him at the beginning. . Oscar was taken aback. He thought that he had gotten rid of this woman forever, and abandoned her like an old dress. She was not destroyed by life, but survived tenaciously. Mimi's revenge made him half-dead and lost the ability to have sex forever, like a crippled person, what Oscar did to Mimi, all became Mimi's feedback to him, two news: one good news, one bad news , the good news is that you are paralyzed, the bad news is that I will take care of you.
Not the order played in the movie, in the order I remember. One detail was helping Oscar take a bath, the water was cold, Mimi said she went to call the concierge, and then a call came, Mimi went to answer the phone, and forgot that Oscar was still in the cold water, and Oscar was cold in the bathtub, and there was nothing he could do. , his mood dropped to a freezing point, so he crawled out of the bathtub like a dog and into the room, Mimi saw it, but she didn't care, continued to listen to the phone, continued to watch her crawling like a dog, which made Mimi Satisfied, the opposite of love is hatred, how strong the love is, the deeper the hatred. The second detail, Oscar's birthday, Mimi found her friend over, flirted and danced in front of Oscar, and then made love in front of him. Of course, Oscar also did such a thing. The third detail, he is not suitable for such a life, he needs Mimi in his life, he was treated rudely by Mimi, he even said, why not let me die, no, how can you die, you are the one I love, I will be sad. Now it's just tit for tat. The world's idiots and grievances are originally indescribable lingering stories and entanglements.
Still decided to get married, and after they tortured each other, they got married. When they are weak, they all fall in love with each other, and when they are strong, they don't love each other, isn't it human nature? In the happy atmosphere of the New Year, Oscar took out the gun that Mimi gave him, introduced Mimi's life, and ended his own life at the same time. On the deck, Nigel and his wife hugged each other, shivering. They had to say who, where, and what the people around them were doing. All of this was built on the basis of being alive. Nothing is more important than being alive. . Later, the emergence of little girls in India was a metaphor. Maybe a child should be born to solve this problem. Most marriage problems cannot be solved through children.
"Food and sex" means "eating and sexual desire are human nature". Anyway, the ultimate direction of love is not destruction.
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