Cruelly, love is a game
The comparison is perhaps your own value, conditions, and alternative resources (the opposite sex)
But the most important thing is to compare your self-personality independence, whether your self-awareness is strong enough to quickly identify and disintegrate the negative emotions of losing the other person, better protect yourself, and not lose yourself in the emotional black hole
At the beginning, when the male protagonist pursues the female protagonist, it can be said that that is the time when the male protagonist feels the most loss and sadness for the female protagonist in the whole film. Any man thinks I love this man
But in fact
No.
Many plots in the film also reflect that the male protagonist has never had spiritual communication and consensus with the female protagonist from beginning to end. In spirit and flesh, there has always been only the body
On the first date for dinner, the male protagonist actually knew that there would be no topics to talk about between them, so the whole process was just joking and laughing
Freshness is an extremely extravagant thing, just like someone keeps putting millions of fireworks in your head, no matter what you are doing, the atmosphere of romantic ecstasy is always there
Mentally and economically, the male lead is the one who is backward compatible, and the female lead has an absolute advantage in the body, but the body is the thing that tires the fastest in love.
Without the support of spiritual communication, all that is left is the carnival of the flesh. When the last trace of passion is burned out, what is left?
tiredness after passion fades
People with strong ego have a certain degree of selfishness, which is also a manifestation of self-love. In relationships, loving oneself is indeed much better than giving.
The heroine is as beautiful as a rose, has a straightforward and cheerful personality, and is an excellent dancer. She obviously loves the male protagonist more. According to observation, she should have a low background, a low level of education, and a lack of love. Although she dares to love and hate, she has a low sense of self and is helpless in the face of negative emotions, otherwise her capital should not be so wasted
The male protagonist is too old, and his appearance can only be called acceptable, but his cultural heritage and taste are very good. The books in the room show the abundance of his spiritual world, he has a high self-awareness, and rarely does anything affect his steps. He is probably the person he loves the most in the world.
Even when he was thinking about Mimi, it didn't delay him taking the sexy girl home for the night.
When I was influenced by Mimi for the first time and became depressed, I didn't take any specific actions. I just went home alone and watched "Once Upon a Time in America" quietly, which is enough to reflect the rationality of the male protagonist and the habit of digesting negative emotions alone.
In a space where there is only oneself, people with low self-esteem will feel the loneliness of the whole house
And people with high self-awareness will enjoy this moment, and what flows quietly in the room is this fusion of loneliness, freedom, and self.
In the middle of the breakup, the heroine said that she couldn't dance, which was a sign that she had completely lost herself
People with low self-awareness can easily regard their lover as the legs or ribs of their soul in love. Their original self is only the size of a child. After being full of strength, he believes that his lover is half of himself, and he can no longer be separated from it. Once he leaves, the soul will lose both legs and arms. How painful and unbearable is this?
So when the pain is extreme, he is coaxed by the beast of emotion and surrenders reason and decency.
Before falling in love and during the period of passionate love, a man is in the water period, he usually misses and itches extremely, fantasizes about everything about her, and gives meaning to this extreme enthusiasm, just to get her
And a woman's moisture period is when she is broken up, she usually over-beautifies the other party, lifts the other party up high, makes herself humble into the dust, and is extremely sad, just to rebuild for the better.
But in fact, you can live well without the other party, but when you are infected with the drug of love, it is really difficult to quit
The difference between the two is that people with high self-esteem do not hurt themselves
When he saw the second girl lying on the bed with extreme weakness in the room for a second, the husband also added information to tell the audience that the second girl was seasick every time.
No one expected to appear at the party in a gorgeous dress the next moment
That look is a smoldering fire mixed with the coldness and anger emanating from the bottom of my heart, and even throwing a knife can burn it to ashes
At the same time, the body is stretched and elegant, and the smile on the corner of the mouth seems to be laughing at the other party's tricks being recognized, and it also seems to be laughing at how he could love this kind of man
Revenge is a powerful shot of the heart, it can bring people back to life when they are shot down.
With a chilling aura
We've all experienced the taste of revenge to some extent, that's the only way we can get pleasure when love is broken
As long as we still care about each other
The revenge of the second female is to teach the other party a lesson, and there is a little restraint in the process of revenge
Why did she go with Mimi, because she knew that if it was with a man, it would be too much, and it would not end in the later stage
In the later period, Mimi lived entirely on the pleasure of revenge.
She completely gave up her future and possibilities, fell into the addiction of love and never came out again.
Although Mimi is always radiant in the later period,
But its truest state appeared when Mimi first appeared.
Revenge requires the attention of others, but when no one is around, there is only pain and nothingness
Except for lack of love or low self-worth, most people are not as extreme, humble and revengeful as Mimi
Usually it will be like what is said in the Hong Kong movie "Twelve Nights" (films with the same theme)
In a relationship, perhaps the one who can protect oneself the most is the ego, just like the rope in bungee jumping
Even in the abyss, serious injuries can be avoided
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