Tao has always believed that although it is said that water and milk are blended, the body is the sublimation of the feelings of men and women to a certain extent. No, love is made by making love. However, true love, the appreciation, longing, and love for each other, is more likely to reach the peak when the eyes are facing each other without a word, or hugging. If the body and limbs are intertwined, the estrus pattern of animals and the emotional needs of people Combined, the feeling of love to the extreme is weakened, and the sexual impulse orgasm covers the fusion of the soul. For example, ancient and modern Chinese and foreign love idols, such as Liang Shanbo Zhu Yingtai and Romeo Juliet, let them express their love to the fullest. At the moment of spring night, at the moment of satisfaction, will they suddenly sigh: It turns out that we worked hard to love each other and went through countless hardships. , in the end, it's just a relationship between men and women piston movement, it's just these few seconds of climax, why bother?
Going back to this film, "Meet Hate Late" depicts the derailment process of a middle-aged woman who is married and has children. In the form of the heroine's self-report to her husband, it leads to the whole process of her acquaintance, love and separation with the male protagonist. The film is great, because there is no physical display of white flowers in the whole process, and the only intimacy is the kiss when the love is strong. However, the film shows the audience the complex emotions of a woman who is crushed by morality and emotion in the process of having an affair, including: anticipation and hesitation, sweetness and depression, restraint and indulgence, fear and anxiety, anxiety and contradiction, shame and self Despise, expresses the suffering and happiness experienced by women in this process vividly, and vividly tells us that extramarital affairs are like poppies, but glamorous can only dig their own graves in the end.
Tao doesn't like to criticize morals. There is no right or wrong in love. As long as it is out of sincerity, it is precious. The strong men and women who use the whip of responsibility when they see an extramarital affair are very positive and worthy of recognition. But people have seven emotions and six desires. If they are not born bitches and sluts, they are proud of playing with the opposite sex and playing with their feelings. They are just ordinary good men and women. It is understandable that they have feelings for others in marriage out of sincerity. There are many, the parties involved must be in the hopeless pain of restraint, entanglement and self-blame. This pain is already the fruit of evil that everyone emphasizes. Like Lola in this film, in this short month of love, how much is the moment of relaxation and happiness, how much is the fear of duty and shame, or the latter, who ran on the street for a few hours in the heavy rain, with mixed flavors, We can definitely feel it when watching the movie.
The English name of this film is "Brief Encounter". Tao thinks the Chinese translation of "Meet Hate Late" is too beautified. We Chinese people can't help but feel pity for the tragic emotion of "Meet Hate Late". I think it is more A suitable title should be "Meeting by chance", which is more appropriate. Your train goes to the left and my train goes to the right. Life is destined to go in two opposite directions, but we meet by chance on the platform in the middle. You will never be a life partner who will walk side by side.
Lonely wife, loves children, loves husband, loves family, and loves life. The days are peaceful and peaceful. When night falls, after coaxing the children to sleep, the husband reads a newspaper and plays crossword puzzles. The wife does needlework. The scene is beautiful, and the beauty is endless. of calm sea. But the passion of love has faded, and marriage is often unable to meet all the emotional needs, and it is even less able to meet the lonely 38-year-old wife who is getting older. Therefore, Lola, who was more reserved and observant, eventually became agitated. The male protagonist excitedly described his work. Lola's expression gradually became blurred and said, "You are like a lovely child". They all say that if a woman falls in love with a man, she will Unconsciously bringing in the element of maternal love, Lola's love is real, although it may be caused by loneliness.
Love makes people feel young again and feels romantic, and love makes people full of vitality, as if returning to the age of innocence and young again. This is especially true of middle-aged and old wives. Lonely wives generally have three kinds of feelings, family affection, extramarital affairs, if you want to have it all without any psychological burden, just have a sweet dream, so even if extramarital affairs have the effect of turning back time, they are blocked by morals, customs, family, and conscience. Emotions are the unbearable weight of life. With the latter, the first two kinds of emotions may be lost. If you have nothing to do, don't touch them.
Tao Ren has always liked men who are introverted and quiet and don't talk much, so he has no feelings for the male protagonist in this film. Those sweet words are too slippery, making people feel like a master of pickup. Instead, the heroine's husband, the last sentence: You'd been a long way away. Thank you for coming back to me. The hearts of the people who watched it warmed up, what a wife could want. After all, a woman's love is actually a game she plays with herself. No matter how much you love it, it is nothing more than a variety of emotional experiences. A lonely wife, if she meets the true love she thinks after marriage, does not criticize morality, but please send it. Love is more than courtesy.
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